I?ve been with my boyfriend for a while now, seven months. He has done a lot. I got a ring, card with pictures in it and we?re in Memphis right now living with his real mother for the time being until we decide to go back to Chicago where my mother is and where his step mom and real father is. His ex was hurt when she found out he was messing with me while with her and she broke up with him because of it and he never even put up a fight for her to stay. It may be hard for her to see, but she just wasn?t the girl for him. He never did anything of those things for her. The only reason he has hit her up a few times, though he hasn?t done it in like two weeks, was for sex. She never gave in though, one time she told him that she knows me and him are still together and to go and be faithful to me. He never really admitted to her that we are still together after she said that he just quit messaging her. He never said he missed her or anything. He missed her sexually. Isn?t it possible that his ex just wasn?t the girl he was truly willing to become better for. It isn?t like he misses being with her. He never would have cheated with me to begin with if he was with who really wanted to be with.