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    PA, all of that tripping Ive been doing came after this situation and as tripping does; I've been thinking a lot about this situation.

    I've 100% got over that ex fwb but Im lost with my current girlfriend. I haven't even talked to her in almost two weeks. I've been pretty worried about her, idk what's going on. She's kind of giving me no choice but to talk to other girls at this point.

    You are right though PA.. I don't like being alone. I like having someone there for me. Of course I love sex but its actually much more than that that I long for.

    All of that tripping has made me a little depressed because its making me look at my situation and really question what I want. I think you are probably right in that I need to take a long hard look at what I want in life but that's exactly what I am trying to do right now.

    Basically the passed 1 1/2 years I have been because I've basically been sober except kratom and Phenibut foe the first time in about 10 years.

    December 31 2016 I went to jail for 4 months and that was the start of my journey. My girlfriend was there for me mentally though. I would call her everyday multiple times a day when I had no one else. I just don't know what to do. I still love her but we are definitely drifting apart. I just don't want anything bad to happen to her.

    The LSD is really making me look hard into this but I'm still left with not knowing what to do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DrugOmen View Post
    PA, all of that tripping Ive been doing came after this situation and as tripping does; I've been thinking a lot about this situation.

    I've 100% got over that ex fwb but Im lost with my current girlfriend. I haven't even talked to her in almost two weeks. I've been pretty worried about her, idk what's going on. She's kind of giving me no choice but to talk to other girls at this point.

    You are right though PA.. I don't like being alone. I like having someone there for me. Of course I love sex but its actually much more than that that I long for.

    All of that tripping has made me a little depressed because its making me look at my situation and really question what I want. I think you are probably right in that I need to take a long hard look at what I want in life but that's exactly what I am trying to do right now.

    Basically the passed 1 1/2 years I have been because I've basically been sober except kratom and Phenibut foe the first time in about 10 years.

    December 31 2016 I went to jail for 4 months and that was the start of my journey. My girlfriend was there for me mentally though. I would call her everyday multiple times a day when I had no one else. I just don't know what to do. I still love her but we are definitely drifting apart. I just don't want anything bad to happen to her.

    The LSD is really making me look hard into this but I'm still left with not knowing what to do.
    Ok. So. You don't want to be alone. Your gf is there for you... but is MAKING you cheat. Did I get that correct?

    How about stop blaming over people... put your big boy pants on.. and figure out what kind of changes YOU NEED TO MAKE.

    I would suggest taking a break from your GF because you obviously can't commit to her. If she gets suicidal, talk with her parents or call suicide hotline. But you're trying to make it like you're doing something great by staying with her and "keeping her safe", but you ain't doing anyone any favors but yourself.

    Let's be real.
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    Pretty_Diamonds I see what you're saying but idk how to tell her that and I'm still not sure if I even want to leave her or anything. Like I said I haven't had communication with her in two weeks. Idk what's going on.
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    op your so dependent mentally on always having someone there that you are afraid to risk being alone so you stay stuck in the current situation unable to decide

    this will go on forever until you get some balls
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