Been seeing my girlfriend for now 7 months. We met on Tinder. We have good energy together. I often visit her. She lives in the city and me in the suburbs. It's a 30min commute. I do business in the city so meeting up isn't an issue at all. We have plans for today (Friday) to see a movie and a dinner after. Saturday we are hanging out in the evening and on Sunday we'll be together as well. We usually try to spend weekends together and a day or so during the week. Our schedules are both a bit weird.
So yesterday (Thursday) she hasn't reached out to me all day. While my hands were full I called her in the evening to just get logistics together for Friday. I then asked if she wanted to meet now for drinks and dinner. It was so nice out yesterday. Anyway, she said she was gonna go to the gym. And then later on text said tell me the time and place and I'll be there. A minute later she said actually if you want me to be 100% for tomorrow I better get home and sleep. I said ok. Although I was gonna challenge her I still went out and had a good time (By myself).
So I ended up getting a bit weird in the night. I got home at midnight and gave her a call. Left her a VM because she said she got home last night and hit a wall. So I wanted to just see how she was doing. I know she was sleeping so I left a message. I usually stay up late so she knows how I do with the late calls.
Anyway this morning (Friday) I did some while S#it. I took the train to her house to see if she would leave there from work. She text me about 7:30am and said that she fell asleep. I didn't respond back because I was down the block from her house. I guess I wanted to see if she would leave and go to work at her scheduled time. However, she didn't leave her apartment. I didn't see her leave at all and I was standing there 30 minutes before she usually leaves.
I feel a bit messed up about it but also sad and confused. I feel as though she slept somewhere else last night and I don't know what to do or handle this situation. I also feel as though she has been a bit distant when we aren't together. She always text and doesn't really call often. I recently told her a week or so ago that I was in love with her. She said that she loved me to and shortly after started to cry. I asked why she was crying she said happy cries and that she felt the same and mutual so it was a win win.
I messed up by going there early to see if she would leave but I didn't know what else to do. I also don't know what to do. We have a trip coming up at the end of this month to leave the U.S. together for a vacation that she invited me on too. Idk She could have went to the gym as well or leave for work earlier. Not sure. Any help with this situation and how to proceed will be helpful.
So yesterday (Thursday) she hasn't reached out to me all day. While my hands were full I called her in the evening to just get logistics together for Friday. I then asked if she wanted to meet now for drinks and dinner. It was so nice out yesterday. Anyway, she said she was gonna go to the gym. And then later on text said tell me the time and place and I'll be there. A minute later she said actually if you want me to be 100% for tomorrow I better get home and sleep. I said ok. Although I was gonna challenge her I still went out and had a good time (By myself).
So I ended up getting a bit weird in the night. I got home at midnight and gave her a call. Left her a VM because she said she got home last night and hit a wall. So I wanted to just see how she was doing. I know she was sleeping so I left a message. I usually stay up late so she knows how I do with the late calls.
Anyway this morning (Friday) I did some while S#it. I took the train to her house to see if she would leave there from work. She text me about 7:30am and said that she fell asleep. I didn't respond back because I was down the block from her house. I guess I wanted to see if she would leave and go to work at her scheduled time. However, she didn't leave her apartment. I didn't see her leave at all and I was standing there 30 minutes before she usually leaves.
I feel a bit messed up about it but also sad and confused. I feel as though she slept somewhere else last night and I don't know what to do or handle this situation. I also feel as though she has been a bit distant when we aren't together. She always text and doesn't really call often. I recently told her a week or so ago that I was in love with her. She said that she loved me to and shortly after started to cry. I asked why she was crying she said happy cries and that she felt the same and mutual so it was a win win.
I messed up by going there early to see if she would leave but I didn't know what else to do. I also don't know what to do. We have a trip coming up at the end of this month to leave the U.S. together for a vacation that she invited me on too. Idk She could have went to the gym as well or leave for work earlier. Not sure. Any help with this situation and how to proceed will be helpful.
