FallenApart
Greenlighter
- Joined
- Apr 21, 2018
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Hello all, im a long time lurker first time poster. I just need a place to express some thoughts and feelings on my currents situation in life. been addicted to opis for about ten yrs on a deep level have been using for about 16yrs. dope was/is my DOC. not going to bother you all with my back story, we all ended up here through a series of bad choices thus no need to dig into that past but i am looking to discuss how i am ready to change my life for good this time. been through the attempts before, have found myself bouncing around in relapse mode after 122 days of total abstinence from everything but weed.
ive been using now since march 22nd pretty steady and know it was long enough that ill face slight discomfort but also know its been much, much worse than what it will be. i have some vitamins, lope (only if truly needed in small doses) and ativan (prescribed) plus weed to get through the hard days of feeling down when i first stop but my real concern is how will i maintain.
you see i told my family back in dec how serious it has been for me as they are totally oblivious to addiction and what it entails so i came "clean" so to speak about how out of control i let my life get again on the drugs and how i was stopping and needed support. i got the usual we are here for you in the few minutes we spoke about it and then its never been brought back up. i endured my withdrawals alone and no one has questioned me about it since.
i know the addict in me is what fails when i relapse but i also feel like without anyone close to me being willing to talk about it i cant ever be held accountable to anyone and sometimes in my "withdrawing" mind i will tell myself its because im not worth a conversation, im too far gone it doesnt matter to anyone anymore. but i know thats the power of dark thoughts during withdrawal and the truth is my family is just clueless. to them you get past the "flu" for a few days, you put it behind you and move on. nothing more to discuss. ive tried saying i need it to be open and if im having a hard day please lets talk and when i do i get oh your fine you are better now and we move on. its so frustrating!
so for now my short term goal is to be open with all of you and to begin day 1 without any opiates tomm and ride this thing out once and for all. as far as long term, i live in a rural area and have no way to do meetings or anything like that. i do believe in God and have thought i can renew that spiritual part of me to begin the healing process. im scared i may always be in this roller coaster of clean-relapse-clean-relapse it gets so old after a while and you lose hope in your ability to succeed at this thing called life. thank you all for listening! i am open to all suggestions for how to truly make it this time.
ive been using now since march 22nd pretty steady and know it was long enough that ill face slight discomfort but also know its been much, much worse than what it will be. i have some vitamins, lope (only if truly needed in small doses) and ativan (prescribed) plus weed to get through the hard days of feeling down when i first stop but my real concern is how will i maintain.
you see i told my family back in dec how serious it has been for me as they are totally oblivious to addiction and what it entails so i came "clean" so to speak about how out of control i let my life get again on the drugs and how i was stopping and needed support. i got the usual we are here for you in the few minutes we spoke about it and then its never been brought back up. i endured my withdrawals alone and no one has questioned me about it since.
i know the addict in me is what fails when i relapse but i also feel like without anyone close to me being willing to talk about it i cant ever be held accountable to anyone and sometimes in my "withdrawing" mind i will tell myself its because im not worth a conversation, im too far gone it doesnt matter to anyone anymore. but i know thats the power of dark thoughts during withdrawal and the truth is my family is just clueless. to them you get past the "flu" for a few days, you put it behind you and move on. nothing more to discuss. ive tried saying i need it to be open and if im having a hard day please lets talk and when i do i get oh your fine you are better now and we move on. its so frustrating!
so for now my short term goal is to be open with all of you and to begin day 1 without any opiates tomm and ride this thing out once and for all. as far as long term, i live in a rural area and have no way to do meetings or anything like that. i do believe in God and have thought i can renew that spiritual part of me to begin the healing process. im scared i may always be in this roller coaster of clean-relapse-clean-relapse it gets so old after a while and you lose hope in your ability to succeed at this thing called life. thank you all for listening! i am open to all suggestions for how to truly make it this time.