Cudi
Bluelighter
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I'm a 20 year old male currently taking an SSRI for anxiety and depression. I realized I had been abusing substances for a while to try and cope with my problems.
One thing I'm realizing, but have definitely known for some time to some degree, is that I have a very unclear sense of identity. I don't know the default way for "me" myself to act around people. Whether it be my mom, friends, brother, strangers, anyone. I get extreme discomfort and social anxiety because I'm always overthinking the things I'm saying, the ways I'm acting, etc.
I always have anxiety about going out into social settings because I am unsure about how I'm going to act and the ways in which I should act around these certain people, to draw out a certain reaction from them on how I think they expect me to act. I don't know what I want after college or what I want to be, or who I want to be. I really feel like I'm at a dead end here.
I've been taking SSRIs for a little over a month and still can' tell if it's helping. My psychiatrist switched me from Lexapro to Celexa. I've been depressed for about half my life and had some pretty stressful events happen to me when I was growing up. I began feeling depressed and having strange/intrusive thoughts starting when I was about 10.
I'm honestly anticipating the Borderline Personality Disorder diagnosis any week now from my psychiatrist, which I've suspected for quite some time now with my past of self harm, impulsiveness, identity issues, and issues with establishing an intimate relationship with someone. Anyone else have nay idea as to what is going on here? I feel lost and have felt like this for years. I'm just beginning to want to pull myself out.
One thing I'm realizing, but have definitely known for some time to some degree, is that I have a very unclear sense of identity. I don't know the default way for "me" myself to act around people. Whether it be my mom, friends, brother, strangers, anyone. I get extreme discomfort and social anxiety because I'm always overthinking the things I'm saying, the ways I'm acting, etc.
I always have anxiety about going out into social settings because I am unsure about how I'm going to act and the ways in which I should act around these certain people, to draw out a certain reaction from them on how I think they expect me to act. I don't know what I want after college or what I want to be, or who I want to be. I really feel like I'm at a dead end here.
I've been taking SSRIs for a little over a month and still can' tell if it's helping. My psychiatrist switched me from Lexapro to Celexa. I've been depressed for about half my life and had some pretty stressful events happen to me when I was growing up. I began feeling depressed and having strange/intrusive thoughts starting when I was about 10.
I'm honestly anticipating the Borderline Personality Disorder diagnosis any week now from my psychiatrist, which I've suspected for quite some time now with my past of self harm, impulsiveness, identity issues, and issues with establishing an intimate relationship with someone. Anyone else have nay idea as to what is going on here? I feel lost and have felt like this for years. I'm just beginning to want to pull myself out.
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