Beenbetter
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Jul 19, 2017
- Messages
- 200
The call I?ve been dreading to get came last Thursday night/ early Friday morning. I had made the huge decision to straighten up all the way, let the bupe take over, go through complete hell until I stabilize on it which has been the hardest thing ever. Mainly because I cannot sleep. I believe my habit was/is a little larger than what bupe can easily take care of.
I was struggling with rls badly that first night, and awoke in a panic which isn?t all that uncommon but I had this awful feeling that my dad had died. I kept trying to convince myself that it was just another panic attack and these hellish feelings would pass. Then an hr later my wife came out of the bedroom holding the puppy at 3:00 am while on the phone.
I knew.
Dad was gone. When your that close to someone I truly believe you have a special bond where they are with you at all times but I?ve never felt so alone.
Needless to say I?m pretty much back to square one after a week of using to help me through the week of preparing to bury Dad.
I know I couldn?t have handled this the way I did had I took a different route. I know it sounds horrible but it?s what I did.
My dad was/Is my hero and best friend and I made him a promise to end this struggle he knew I was dealing with. He beat his addiction issues like a boss, and I want to be just like him.
I could definitely use the prayers from those on here that believe in a higher power. I?m gonna give this shit a real go. I?m scared shitless of life without Dad and life without the crutch of being able to numb my mental pain but I must. I feel great when I get stabilized on bupe but getting there is the hardest. Wish me luck or even better pray for our family.
This has really taken it out of us.
Thx
I was struggling with rls badly that first night, and awoke in a panic which isn?t all that uncommon but I had this awful feeling that my dad had died. I kept trying to convince myself that it was just another panic attack and these hellish feelings would pass. Then an hr later my wife came out of the bedroom holding the puppy at 3:00 am while on the phone.
I knew.
Dad was gone. When your that close to someone I truly believe you have a special bond where they are with you at all times but I?ve never felt so alone.
Needless to say I?m pretty much back to square one after a week of using to help me through the week of preparing to bury Dad.
I know I couldn?t have handled this the way I did had I took a different route. I know it sounds horrible but it?s what I did.
My dad was/Is my hero and best friend and I made him a promise to end this struggle he knew I was dealing with. He beat his addiction issues like a boss, and I want to be just like him.
I could definitely use the prayers from those on here that believe in a higher power. I?m gonna give this shit a real go. I?m scared shitless of life without Dad and life without the crutch of being able to numb my mental pain but I must. I feel great when I get stabilized on bupe but getting there is the hardest. Wish me luck or even better pray for our family.
This has really taken it out of us.
Thx