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My views on internet, porn and net girls?

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Markomarkh

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My views on internet, porn and net girls?

Yes the internet today is almost a libertarian platform, almost a free for all to say express, and do what you like but at what cost, how long will this Wild West last? Think it is time for it to be regulated and changed but not a jerk reaction total ban on porn, which would be impossible. For me I?m a male and confess I?m a porn addict and like sexy pictures, is it wrong? To over indulge yes it can be and can cause isolation and depression with over use. Too some men it has been a god send and taught me what I find attractive and don?t, good eye candy for us who are alone or loners? Where it needs to be regulated is the degrading, degenerate disgusting, bad quality or obscene, controversial porn needs to be stamped out. I?m all for freedom of sexual expression as long as it is clean and looks like a good work of beautiful art, natural and has a good story line to a video or picture and is good quality. I used to think ladies of porn were either stupid, desperate for money, sweet talked into it or are forced sex slaves? But that?s not always the case, they could be just ordinary pretty women who just want a bit of fun or adventure and a bit extra cash for college or something and are with photographers or film producers who are ethical about it. As long as they are happy with it and look happy I?m fine with it. Where it goes detrimental, wrong and sleazy is when they get addicted to the money, always trying to break the boundaries and perform unsavoury acts that will cause them problems, you can tell they don?t enjoy it, it?s almost like a masochist thing, it?s this causes depression and guilt in viewers and should be avoided. Another type of people that shouldn?t enter porn industry are the mentally ill or unstable or venerable or have a history of abuse or addicted to drugs or all those things or trafficked people. Should we have a license to use the internet instead of over 18 age verification through credit cards so nobody gets drawn into getting ripped off by dodgy porn sites. There?s good porn and bad porn that is just pollution to the mind or just noise. Ideally I?d like a society where we didn?t need porn and we all found our life partners in life at some point in time at a prime time tender age but ain?t I a dreamer but it ain?t just about sex is it, I?ll learn what love is one day. No one would be sexually starved or thirsty would they? Is it time for regulated porn?
 
What you view as one thing someone else might view differently. Gonna let you in on a secret. You control your destiny to some degree don?t like it change it. Or be mad about the past and dwell on it ur choice
 
Markomarkh said:
Where it needs to be regulated is the degrading, degenerate disgusting, bad quality or obscene, controversial porn needs to be stamped out. I?m all for freedom of sexual expression as long as it is clean and looks like a good work of beautiful art, natural and has a good story line to a video or picture and is good quality.
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I agree that better regulation is needed. However, not everyone would agree on what is degenerate disgusting, I agree that some of it falls into that category and I think that most people would feel the same. However, further regulation would most certainly lead to major disagreements as to where the line is drawn, and these sorts of debates always become highly controversial. So, in a way, it may be best to leave things as they are as not to stir up another pot of shit in a world that's already plagued by controversies of a political nature.

Also, further regulation could lead to porn being banned in its entirety because there are quite a few people out there that think the whole thing is "degenerate disgusting" as you put it. I don't watch porn at all anymore, but getting rid of porn in entirety would be incredibly fucked up a large portion of people. Unfortunately, there are conservative activists that are pushing for that. I think that most of the problems with the industry are a result of the fact that the "directors" of the films are generally sleazy, shady fuckers that just don't care about much of anything other than making money and likely having wild orgies with the "movie stars". Unfortunately, that's not something that I see as changing any time soon.
 
I have pretty much quit porn and prefer to look at pretty girls in fashion clothes on pinterest or instagram, much cleaner viewing and go for walks more now and less time on the web.
 
You really need to use paragraphs so we can understand what you're saying.
Amateur adult websites are really the way to go.... REAL people, all different types, and I believe a lower percentage are forced into it depending on the site and the situation
Everyone has their own opinion on it and it varies. Porn addiction is never good but occasionally looking at it... I don't see anything wrong with it.
 
llama112 said:
You really need to use paragraphs so we can understand what you're saying.
Amateur adult websites are really the way to go.... REAL people, all different types, and I believe a lower percentage are forced into it depending on the site and the situation
Everyone has their own opinion on it and it varies. Porn addiction is never good but occasionally looking at it... I don't see anything wrong with it.
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I agree, it is not good, but nothing wrong with porn addiction...
 
llama112 said:
I guess I just think of it as any other addiction.... occasionally, sure. Addiction, not great.
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I understand what you say, but my opinion that all those stuffs are just "point of view" if you understand what I mean...
 
The internet can't be regulated. Not in any effective way. It's not feasible for technical reasons. And the more you try and restrict it the more anarchist it'll get. All in all, we're better off doing nothing. At least now some level of restriction is accepted. But if you try to enforce new regulations and censorship on the internet, people will rebel again it. And since it can't actually be stopped, and since if there were a large scale rebellion it would result in the loss of even the low level of control that exists now, it's not worth it.

There's a reason the government gave up control of the domain name system, it's not a power worth having cause you can't exercise it without losing it.
 
exy34 said:
I understand what you say, but my opinion that all those stuffs are just "point of view" if you understand what I mean...
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I completely agree with that! Now I understand what you were saying to begin with. Yes, just based on point of view, just my opinion on it :)
 
The internet has been a remarkable feat of human societal advancement. Not so much the engineering part of it, that was in existence for years anyway, but the fact that we have somehow stumbled upon this great leveller of ideas, possibly before we were ready for it.

in the past, most advances were fuelled by 'necessity' in that they generally came about in times of war. Everything really, from flying, motor vehicles, advanced textiles, man landing on the moon, even a great deal of the pharmaceutical products which many of us here hold so close. Born from conflict, the lot. Now though, with the Information Age, things appear to be advancing based on consumerism. Whether that's the hedonistic approach of porn pushing the boundaries of VR or the desire to have a perfect plastic girlfriend or boyfriend advancing the frontiers of robotics. I definitely prefer the way we're progressing now rather than having to wipe,out a third of our population every few decades in meaningless conflict.
 
187coopa said:
What you view as one thing someone else might view differently. Gonna let you in on a secret. You control your destiny to some degree don?t like it change it. Or be mad about the past and dwell on it ur choice
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You need to do the same
 
llama112 said:
I guess I just think of it as any other addiction.... occasionally, sure. Addiction, not great.
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Porn "addiction" can be isolating and a time waster, but it still is nowhere near as bad of an addiction as a chemical dependency though. Still isn't good though, that's for sure. I honestly don't consider it a true addiction though since one could stop masturbating to porn anytime. It's not like you could go into withdrawal from porn or die of a porn overdose. So, in that sense it's more of a habit than an addiction. Addiction is where you get sick and have shakes because you didn't have your bottle of vodka or shot of heroin one day..... or suffer chemically induced withdrawal symptoms because you didn't have whatever substance one is addicted to, not when you are bummed out because you didn't get to jack it to hentai because your computer crashed because you were watching too much porn. In my opinion, habits can be changed with willpower alone if one were motivated enough. Addiction is when willpower alone just doesn't cut it because one's neurology is affected by a chemical being introduced into the body. With porn, it's simply one getting "addicted" to the pattern of behavior rather than having their neurology altered in a way that causes dependence. Even being "addicted" to pot is more of an "addiction" than porn. The mind/brain does not leave naturally occurring states of consciousness while watching porn or even having sex. Though, yes bad habits can be tough to kick. But they still aren't additions IMO.

Addiction isn't a term that should be thrown around casually. It's sort of like the way the term "mental illness" gets thrown around so casually. I have anxiety/OCD myself, and it honestly gets to me how these "conditions" get lumped into the broad category of "mental illness". For me, I have a bit of a psychologically based habit of obsessing over things in my mind that I'm trying to improve. Some people have schizophrenia and can't leave their house without being overwhelmed by auditory hallucinations and are unable to hold a job. Calling my social anxiety/mild OCD a "mental illness" instead of an aspect of my personality that I wish to improve is a disrespect to the guy who hears voices and sees shadow people that keep him from leaving home and has to take antipsychotics every day because he actually has a brain disorder. If I suffered from an actual chemical dependency (which I actually have occasionally worried I may be developing to alcohol or have one very slightly as I have a crazy tolerance and I drink vodka and lots of beer everyday and sometimes feel a little different than I did before I drank or stay up extremely late when I go nights without having alcohol, hopefully just being paranoid here though), I would be kinda pissed that something like a porn habit was called an "addiction" just like real addictions like alcoholism or opiate addiction are rightfully caused addiction because they can be pure hell if you get hooked. Unlike porn, as I would imagine that even the worst "porn addict" could get on with their day just fine if their computer crashed.
 
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addiction to something like computer games or porn kind of is a mental health thing even moreso that other addictions like tobacco
 
"I'm all for free expression as long as people express themselves exactly how I want them too"
 
Just let me be a "addict" for thirty minutes a day i dont want art, quality, to be saved, find god, watch a story line. I want degenerate sex.

If you dont like porn dont watch it. If you want a story watch the titaniac i wont regulate it because your stupid choice to masterbate to a like 4 hour movie for the storyline is none of my business.
 
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