zeppelin420
Greenlighter
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- Mar 13, 2017
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Hello all,
My situation is kinda weird for most men my age(20) and I would like to share with you all to see if theres any way I can improve. Im attracted to women and i have only been with two girls in my life(voluntarily) just so that its clear that I'm sexually experienced. I can say I've had a sad personality since i was about 6-8 since thats when the trauma occurred but I haven't become depressed till about 4 years ago, it slowly progressed and i'd say I'm at my worst right now. I space out a lot and theres really nothing going on in my mind when this happens, i can't sleep usually only get about 4-5 hours of sleep and then theres days where all i do i sleep. Heres the main issue i would like to get advice on. I use drugs to fill the void I feel in my heart, I can literally feel the emptiness, this leads to panic attacks. I smoke weed(to me its not a drug),take molly-acid-and prescribed Xanax,also alcohol. My friends ask my why I haven't had a girlfriend in a while(two years) and I just simply don't feel the need to, I feel that a women can no longer help fill the void anymore as if I'm not capable of love so i don't even try.Im not talking about just sex but mainly having a relationship. I don't find it hard to get girls id say I'm fairly attractive, but I don't want to even though i think thats what i should be doing. When I'm on xanax(don't really use this a lot) i just feel numb and i like that sorta enjoy that also with alcohol, it helps me forget. When I've smoked weed,taken molly,and alcohol at the same time i feel very happy and i enjoy that the most even tho its temporary.Acid helps me see my problems from a different perspective and allows me to look forward to the future. What I'm trying to say is that I've never felt this sort of comfort with a girlfriend and this probably has to do with the fact that i was sexually abused by a women at six and my much older cousin made me preform sexual acts with her when ever we'd visit. What does this mean? Will i ever find the comfort I'm looking for with a girl? Sorry if my Thread was all over the place, Im just writing as it comes to my mind any advice is appreciated, Thanks.
I don't consider myself an addict since I mainly smoke weed
The other drugs i only take maybe once every two weeks and rarely theres months where i go once a week since i don't like to waste too much money on it.
My situation is kinda weird for most men my age(20) and I would like to share with you all to see if theres any way I can improve. Im attracted to women and i have only been with two girls in my life(voluntarily) just so that its clear that I'm sexually experienced. I can say I've had a sad personality since i was about 6-8 since thats when the trauma occurred but I haven't become depressed till about 4 years ago, it slowly progressed and i'd say I'm at my worst right now. I space out a lot and theres really nothing going on in my mind when this happens, i can't sleep usually only get about 4-5 hours of sleep and then theres days where all i do i sleep. Heres the main issue i would like to get advice on. I use drugs to fill the void I feel in my heart, I can literally feel the emptiness, this leads to panic attacks. I smoke weed(to me its not a drug),take molly-acid-and prescribed Xanax,also alcohol. My friends ask my why I haven't had a girlfriend in a while(two years) and I just simply don't feel the need to, I feel that a women can no longer help fill the void anymore as if I'm not capable of love so i don't even try.Im not talking about just sex but mainly having a relationship. I don't find it hard to get girls id say I'm fairly attractive, but I don't want to even though i think thats what i should be doing. When I'm on xanax(don't really use this a lot) i just feel numb and i like that sorta enjoy that also with alcohol, it helps me forget. When I've smoked weed,taken molly,and alcohol at the same time i feel very happy and i enjoy that the most even tho its temporary.Acid helps me see my problems from a different perspective and allows me to look forward to the future. What I'm trying to say is that I've never felt this sort of comfort with a girlfriend and this probably has to do with the fact that i was sexually abused by a women at six and my much older cousin made me preform sexual acts with her when ever we'd visit. What does this mean? Will i ever find the comfort I'm looking for with a girl? Sorry if my Thread was all over the place, Im just writing as it comes to my mind any advice is appreciated, Thanks.
I don't consider myself an addict since I mainly smoke weed
The other drugs i only take maybe once every two weeks and rarely theres months where i go once a week since i don't like to waste too much money on it.