I smoked weed from 13 until I was 18, and like most others I started on hash full of plastic and god knows what. Easy to smoke loads and loads of it, and never get too fucked up. However, one day, after (if I counted correctly) 16 buckets and countless spliffs, I had my first panic attack, which evolved to a full-on anxiety disorder, which ruined my life for ten years. I stopped smoking weed, doing pills and even disliked alcohol, for a good while, before slowly reintroducing everything and more, as I got to grips with my mental health. Hardly anyone sold green, at the time, so it was an occasional treat for our group, which normally involved someone throwing a whitey.
Nowadays, since beating my anxiety, I can smoke weed with a drink, and love it. It's been a nightly thing for years, and the combination doesn't get old. It makes the boring effects of alcohol much more enjoyable, and the alcohol keeps the anxiety-provoking effects of weed at bay. It always makes me laugh and relax. I don't really smoke without booze or Valium, as a ballast. I can attest that homegrown weed in this country does not need to be sprayed with anything, because it's already really strong. I get my weed from source, so I know it's absolutely normal for it to be mind-bendingly strong. I only usually have very small pipes, over the course of a night, or cautiously share joints, because my tolerance hasn't really gone up in years. It just means it lasts longer, so I'm not complaining. A small scoop of kief gets me stoned, so it's not at all expensive. People that smoke packed joints baffle me, and I don't envy how high their tolerance is.
Back to the original post, I find weed helps me reflect on many things, and find that if I'm in an argumentative mood, it will make me see things from the other party's perspective and has saved many disagreements turning into full-blown arguments. I can see my own flaws and understand where the other person is coming from, unless they're really in the wrong and then they get a well thought-out argument, that they deserve. Haha.