Hi All
Not sure where to start really - I am sorry if I have posted in the wrong place
My husband just left me after 24 years of marriage. We have been solid up until about 18 month ago when I started to notice a problem - I thought with alcohol.
Over the last 2 months I have been asking him what he is taking ( we did some kid stuff when we were younger together so I knew the signs ) and apart from looking spaced out his head he was drawing away from me. I wasnt prepared for what happened next ! I found him texting someone else - and it blew up that night.
Since he walked out I have found out he has been using cocaine - roxies - xanax - adderal .... confirmed by people who have seen him. And have my suspicions about other stuff that I have now found in my house. And apparently it got a lot more frequent over the last few months - and was an everyday thing. His mix was taking cocaine - then xanax - all day up and down - and then drinking at night.
He has moved out - taken his stuff - denies it all and says he doesnt love me any more
I guess I am looking to get answers - and advice - to see what he sees and what is in his head ! I think he is in pretty deep by what I can gather from people that have known .
Not sure where to start really - I am sorry if I have posted in the wrong place
My husband just left me after 24 years of marriage. We have been solid up until about 18 month ago when I started to notice a problem - I thought with alcohol.
Over the last 2 months I have been asking him what he is taking ( we did some kid stuff when we were younger together so I knew the signs ) and apart from looking spaced out his head he was drawing away from me. I wasnt prepared for what happened next ! I found him texting someone else - and it blew up that night.
Since he walked out I have found out he has been using cocaine - roxies - xanax - adderal .... confirmed by people who have seen him. And have my suspicions about other stuff that I have now found in my house. And apparently it got a lot more frequent over the last few months - and was an everyday thing. His mix was taking cocaine - then xanax - all day up and down - and then drinking at night.
He has moved out - taken his stuff - denies it all and says he doesnt love me any more
I guess I am looking to get answers - and advice - to see what he sees and what is in his head ! I think he is in pretty deep by what I can gather from people that have known .