symmetrical faces people find it easier to get dates?

[Markomarkh]

Hi all, think I’ve found the problem why I’ve been dateless for 20years and why I’m going to give up on the idea of getting anyone! When I was young I got punched in the face by a young teenager bit older than me at the time, he was drunk and he broke my nose slightly and has been slightly bent since. Does having a slightly bent nose in my face put women off as I hear more people are attracted to people who have symmetrical faces? Is this true? But anyway this is last question as I think I need to quit this forum!

 

[Tranced]

No, I highly doubt it. Get yourself to the gym, would be my advice. And work on talking about mostly positive subjects (that doesn't mean you have to pretend the world isn't a dark and disturbing place). Positive in, positive out.

 

[Jabberwocky]

I doubt it. Owen Wilson has a reputation as being sexy to women and he’s got an asymmetrical face with a bent nose. He’s got not problem getting laid due to the symmetry of his face.

 

[BeachBum4u]

I doubt it. Owen Wilson has a reputation as being sexy to women and he’s got an asymmetrical face with a bent nose. He’s got not problem getting laid due to the symmetry of his face.

Owen gets laid because he's a famous actor, has nothing to do with his nose.

Also I read somewhere that a symmetrical face is sort of a method of determining beauty. They have found these folks are generally more successful in life and love, I suspect. I guess it makes sense.

 

[pofacedhoe]

owen wilsons nose is fucking awful but his charm is potent

OP

stop looking for phsyical reasons and other people reasons why you are not putting yourself out there and making an effort.

given the autism try looking up the dating agency from undateables on channel 4- they specialise in this autism date thing

dating with autism is a fucking nightmare cos how can you read your date? my friend is autistic high functioning but recently has been having some problems in his relationship cos his girlfriend says he can be antisocial and not very expressive at social functions. he can do small talk for 1 hour then he sits down and waits to go home cos he says the place is all "eyes and faces everywhere". I'm of the mindset that some of this is plain old introversion cos that accounts for a lot of the finding soical situations draining rather than energising. but still its not easy to mix autism in a relationship with non autism.

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call them!

if you dont bother its all on you

Also I read somewhere that a symmetrical face is sort of a method of determining beauty. They have found these folks are generally more successful in life and love, I suspect. I guess it makes sense.

yes symmetry is attractive BUT the OP has a fuckload of issues to do with how he interacts with people (or doesn't) that are having a much greater impact on his chances of meeting someone he can hook up with/have dates with

 

[CFC]

Well, I know a fair few rugby players with bashed up noses and they don't really struggle in the dating department. They all have great bodies mind...

 

[Foreigner]

Are we talking about just getting laid or forming partnerships?

As I always say... looks get you in the door, but personality, intelligence and loyalty let you stay.

Owen Wilson has struggled with drug addiction, including alcoholism. "The grass is always greener" when you compare yourselves to others but it's not often accurate. The only thing you can really do is take responsibility for yourself.

I think the symmetrical face thing is a little reductionist. It reeks of A-type analysis of human behaviour. It also contributes to "media face", the same kind of faces plastered everywhere all the time. It's boring. There are so many butt ugly people who partner up and have kids. There are people born with symmetrical faces who suffer injuries.

There are so many factors that contribute to the mating game.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

No this should not be an issue. Good luck finding people to date and have relationships with.

 

[alasdairm]

op, you seem to constantly look outwards for things to blame for your situation. i also think you're too focused on symptoms and not causes.

i think you need to do some introspection - ask yourself some questions and be prepared to answer them honestly. professional help would give you a framework and the tools you need to set yourself up for success.

alasdair

 

[ShroomySatori]

It sounds like you should work on self confidence if you are worried about a damn nose.

I was thinking about something similar recently, but in terms of tattoos in symmetrical locations of my body (I am thinking a lot about my 2nd and 3rd tattoo ideas). I ended up going with a black rose stemming for the end of the palm of my hand, up my arm to near the crook of my elbow where my first tattoo is on the underside.

Anyways, don't really know why I'm relating this to that. Just be yourself man. Act and do as you please, attract positivity into your life through working more and more at being an interesting person who can easily engage women in conversation. I don't get shit by the way I haven't had a girlfriend since the summertime and that is a very short period of time for me generally speaking. I guess I am being highly selective at this point, as I know who I am, how great my potential is, how I have a lot of hobbies and interests that would be really interesting to certain (artistic type) women, I also dress to reflect my personality too, and tattoo myself in that way as well.

Anyways that's just me, I am sure I will end up with something actually healthy this way.

Just be yourself and don't worry about it. If you are even thinking about it, that just gets in the way. When you are not thinking about dating or women at all while talking to them, that is really when the magic can happen. Just don't be like me and forget to ask for her number and regret it after LOL.

 

[psy997]

op, you seem to constantly look outwards for things to blame for your situation. i also think you're too focused on symptoms and not causes.

i think you need to do some introspection - ask yourself some questions and be prepared to answer them honestly. professional help would give you a framework and the tools you need to set yourself up for success.

alasdair

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