Am I just being immature?

[Markomarkh]

I don’t think I’ve ever been a real man or I’ve never grown up, I’m 38, still a V (even though it doesn’t really matter and nobody cares about my sex status) But for some reason lately I’ve been feeling really horny and I’m addicted to some porn and pretty pictures of young women in late teens or 20s, happy college students, nice dresses on Pinterest, it’s getting silly now I’ve even tugged over YouTuber Zoella lmao! I just love beauty of the female body and legs, is it a selfish act or sinful and immature. How can it be sinful when I’m showing appreciation to the female, one of God’s creations. Do I need to see a therapist because is all this unhealthy and I need stop acting like a teen and stop looking at teens because in my mind I still feel 18 at times trapped in a 38 old body. I should get out in real world and socialise with mature women my own age? I’m going to see a community psych nurse (CPN) and ask about therapy for this. Also is there an Anti libido pill too? Or should I cut my balls off? So I can forget about and see women as people again instead of sex objects. What you ladies think am I just creepy or plain bonkers for sharing this?

 

[spacejunk]

There's nothing sinful about sex. It's perfectly natural, and perfectly healthy.

I should get out in real world and socialise with mature women my own age?

Yes, that is exactly what i think you should do.
Do you get out of the house much to do anything where you can meet people?
Sounds to me like you are lonely and isolated, and meeting new people is the way to deal with and work through that.

 

[SamanthaB]

Hi,

I agree with Spacejunk. You need to get out and interact socially with women. I think you are stuck back in your teens, cause, as you said, you have never grown up. Most of the work that gets done in our teens is growing socially as girls and boys start interacting with the opposite sex and enjoying the wonders of first relationships with a significant other, which usually includes some type(s) of sexual activity. This growth does not have to be just with the opposite sex, could be a gay relationship as well. I think perhaps you never got through that stage. It may be why you are attracted to late teen, early 20s and college women. I would hope once you begin to socialize with women - maybe ones that are even younger than yourself - but not teens, you will "catch up."

 

[aihfl]

I should get out in real world and socialise with mature women my own age?

Yes

I’m going to see a community psych nurse (CPN) and ask about therapy for this. Also is there an Anti libido pill too? Or should I cut my balls off? So I can forget about and see women as people again instead of sex objects. What you ladies think am I just creepy or plain bonkers for sharing this?

Yes, honestly it does sound bonkers. Look at how it turned out for Alan Turing. Sorry to be so blunt.