happiness12345
Greenlighter
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- Oct 24, 2017
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I have never been able to orgasm and I dont know why. I am a 23 year old female and I have been dating someone I for 2 years. He makes me so happy and sex is great. But, I keep getting to this "level/point" that feels amazing and then almost shutting down. I do not know if this has to do with my past or if it is something not right physically.
In high school I was in a terrible relationship with a guy who was sexually and emotionally abusive. I would never let myself "get off" with him. I also am from a very conservative background with a father who super believes in abstinence. (I clearly do not and have had several partners). I do not know if both or either of these histories of mine have contributed to my inability.
I seem to get to this point where things feel great but then I cant get over that hurdle to orgasm. Ive never reached it with a partner or through masturbation. I dont know it is because I am unconsiously channeling the past or if I have just always done the wrong things.
Can you all think of any way to get me over the edge? Any positions or movements to try? Do you think it has to do with my past? I know it would love to orgasm both to make me feel good and to make him feel good.
In high school I was in a terrible relationship with a guy who was sexually and emotionally abusive. I would never let myself "get off" with him. I also am from a very conservative background with a father who super believes in abstinence. (I clearly do not and have had several partners). I do not know if both or either of these histories of mine have contributed to my inability.
I seem to get to this point where things feel great but then I cant get over that hurdle to orgasm. Ive never reached it with a partner or through masturbation. I dont know it is because I am unconsiously channeling the past or if I have just always done the wrong things.
Can you all think of any way to get me over the edge? Any positions or movements to try? Do you think it has to do with my past? I know it would love to orgasm both to make me feel good and to make him feel good.