...I was thinking of going tonight...but I think I will wait and make the drive to an athiests meeting because as others have said...I tend to look down on the religious quite a bit and from what I'm seeing it doesn't seem like they make that much effort to accommodate athiests and u have to lie...isn't it supposed to be about being honest with your peers?
I live in a very small town where a lot of people just don't seem to be very open-minded (especially in my local recovery community), and I'm not even in the "bible belt" so I can only imagine what it's like down there.
I think that religious folks (especially Christians) have gotten a bad reputation because unfortunately a lot of them do tend to be very preachy, judgmental and hypocritical. Even though I personally believe in God, I still can't tolerate being around people like that.
I always do my best to break that stereotype by letting people see that we're not all that way. I respect everyone's beliefs (or non-beliefs, LOL) and you will never hear me say, "This is what YOU should do" because I'm not the authority on anything. For all I know, I could be living in a computer program run by an alien named Xork or something!
(To stray even more off-topic for a moment, I've found that it's the same way with a lot of vegetarians, which I also am. The ones who say things like, "You're a big mean piggy murderer for eating that pork chop" unfortunately give the rest of us a bad name!)
Okay, rant over!!! Thank you for listening to me spew :D
Back on point here... There should be a lot more recovery programs for people with different beliefs/philosophies and different approaches in general, because so many more people would be able to find help and support. Everyone has something different that works for them. Some things like "90 meetings in 90 days" are just not practical for a lot of people. (and I'm not bashing things like AA either. Countless people have gotten and stayed sober that way. It just doesn't work for everyone.)
I'm still trying to find an approach that will work for me personally. Not only have I been battling multiple addictions (opioids mainly, then alcohol/benzos/amphetamines) for a number of years, but I also suffer from anxiety, depression, OCD and PTSD! One of my main problems is that I wouldn't be able to function without any medication at all, but unfortunately I tend to abuse just about every drug that I get my hands on.
This forum here is the best thing I've ever found as far as support goes. I can be 100% honest without the fear of negative repercussions from those around me, and I've met a lot of awesome people that I never would have known otherwise!
Best wishes to everyone!!!
Dreamflyer