If you decide to stick with your current doc, when is your next appointment? I think you should be having a med check monthly, at the very least.
If you start the taper via this doctor's method - I would call the doc if you feel bad - describe the symptoms and say you need to come in or at least return your call and advise you. I'd do this EVERY time you feel really bad---don't call several times per day, but so call daily if you're feeling horrible.
Sometimes doctors will go with another strategy after they hear your negative symptoms, etc. just be assertive but not rude...but describe your symptoms and ask what can be done.
I DO think it's important to follow the doc's taper instructions. Call if you feel bad, describe symptoms, ask what can be done as you need help. Don't call and say you felt like crap so you took more than instructed.
Ive never done a benzo taper .... I hope this helps. Most docs want their patients to feel well. And if their med regimen is not working...it's their job to change it. My psychiatrist is very responsive when I describe specifically what my symptoms are and then he makes a med decision and we discuss it.
Keep us posted. Thinking of you. xo