simco
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Not an issue about our different definitions of chipping...it's slang and probably has different meanings in different places.
And hey, if NA isn't your thing, that's perfectly cool. I guess the thing I still find compelling about it is that NA really helped me understand what it meant to need help from others and how to accept help. Personally, I entered NA as a resolute atheist. And I only started stepwork after a couple years in the program (and then only made it through the first one before deciding it wasn't for me, at least not then). For me it was all about two things:
* Finding a group of people struggling just like me...watching and listening to people as they struggled so that I could learn more about how to handle my own struggles.
* Opening myself up to things I didn't necessarily feel comfortable with or feel like I wanted to deal with. The 'higher power' thing is a good example. I still don't believe in God in any supernatural or even spiritual sense. But over time, I came to realize that there are things in the world that are more important than I am alone--my family is one of them; so are my friendships. Realizing that I was part of these larger things gave me a stronger motive for quitting than I had when it was simply a matter of my own welfare.
But this was just my own experience. And really, that it happened in NA is accidental...I could have reached these conclusions in other ways, probably. Everyone's path is different. You're already on yours
And hey, if NA isn't your thing, that's perfectly cool. I guess the thing I still find compelling about it is that NA really helped me understand what it meant to need help from others and how to accept help. Personally, I entered NA as a resolute atheist. And I only started stepwork after a couple years in the program (and then only made it through the first one before deciding it wasn't for me, at least not then). For me it was all about two things:
* Finding a group of people struggling just like me...watching and listening to people as they struggled so that I could learn more about how to handle my own struggles.
* Opening myself up to things I didn't necessarily feel comfortable with or feel like I wanted to deal with. The 'higher power' thing is a good example. I still don't believe in God in any supernatural or even spiritual sense. But over time, I came to realize that there are things in the world that are more important than I am alone--my family is one of them; so are my friendships. Realizing that I was part of these larger things gave me a stronger motive for quitting than I had when it was simply a matter of my own welfare.
But this was just my own experience. And really, that it happened in NA is accidental...I could have reached these conclusions in other ways, probably. Everyone's path is different. You're already on yours