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Turn Bi once i drink or do drugs

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TheBioStudent

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I am confused about this as soon as I get drunk or do drugs I get really turned on by lads. I have had a couple of encounters with them drunk but when I sober up in the morning I feel sick with myself for some reason. I have tried hooking up sober with a lad but I shit out at the last min I just can't bring my self to do it.

I have no idea what this means. Sober I love to fuck girls but drunk I love to suck dick
 
apart from feeling sick with yourself or not being able to go through with it do you find them at all attractive when you are sober?

have you looked at gay porn sober and found it arousing?
 
pofacedhoe said:
apart from feeling sick with yourself or not being able to go through with it do you find them at all attractive when you are sober?

have you looked at gay porn sober and found it arousing?
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I'm not attracted to them at all when sober. Iv tried to wank to gay porn but dose not get me off.

I am so confused.
 
Barrenian said:
What the fuck are you drinking? Good luck getting an answer. Sex forum. A place where shit tastes good and ass is face and dick is not!
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Regular drink a couple of beers and as soon as I get in the toilets of a club and smell a sweaty lad its like game on. I just turn gay as soon as I get drugged up or drunk but I don't know what to do cos I enjoy it so much when I am drunk but feel bad sober but don't want to.
 
You're doing what you really want to do when you have no inhibitions. Know what I did years ago when I had no inhibitions? I put out a Craigslist ad and sought out the biggest cock in town. No regrets. (I'm female)

You're bi it seems. Gotta accept the truth.
 
Sounds like the problem is you're not ok with it when you're sober, but you want to be okay with it when you're sober? Like, you don't wanna quit sucking dick, you just wanna feel comfortable with it when your sober, right? You're probably just hung up on what your "mates" will think of you if they found out. Resolve that problem and I *think* you'll feel much more comfortable with the idea of sucking dick when you're sober. And by resolve that problem, I mean tell your friends about it.
 
Sounds like you're bi, and you're suppressing the emotions. When you get loosened up, you suppress them less. Quit worrying about what others might think and be yourself.
 
I don't know if that's really a problem. Why not just accept that you have some bi tendencies? What's there to feel guilty about? I don't see how having sex with men is any better or worse than having sex with women. Why not just accept it?
 
I dont get what your beating yourself up about. I felt miserable and angry everyday trying to make sure i wasnt seen as gay or feminine. But really i was just being a massive asshole. Now im much happier going back and forth between acting really feminine and really masculine or mixing the two. Ill kiss a guy so what. I like girls almost all the time. Im into some freak stuff but im much happier on the floor listening to a pretty lady read to me like a toddler chewing and rocking to paramore then i ever was trying to fit some random normal. Literly the only people who care you turn a little gay on drugs or drunk is you. If a guy calls me gay ill just say thank you because who cares. Just breathe.
 
to be fair when i'm drunk i find women kind of sexy its not that i am disgusted by them normally just i dont find them more than 5-10% sexually stimulating which means i need a super hot one and them naked for me to be into it- only certain few women turn me on

i can attest to alcohol flipping a sexual switch in people
 
"i dont find them more than 5 - 10% sexually stimulating" is probably the best thing ive read this month.
 
pofacedhoe said:
i can attest to alcohol flipping a sexual switch in people
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Alcohol lowers inhibitions. You don't overthink, you just do what feel right at that moment in time.

I'm straight through and through but I have had the odd fling with girls when drunk (in my younger days ha ha)
 
WannaBeSub said:
Alcohol lowers inhibitions. You don't overthink, you just do what feel right at that moment in time.

I'm straight through and through but I have had the odd fling with girls when drunk (in my younger days ha ha)
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yeah but i'm not even that inhibited. its more that when drunk if i cant follow through cos i'm not turned on enough i dont care how that makes the other person feel whereas sober i know thats a shitty deal.

also it literally flips a switch but only very rarely. its like being straight for the night as long as i'm still drunk (i dont even find men attractive at that point and think WTF have i been doing my whole life!)
 
that study is so accurate to what i have seen in real life

as a gay i have had a few male interests who were straight but nothing ever happened (there was a lot of flirting, touching all that shit but never went to anywhere actually sexual) and when they had a drink they made it extremely clear they were up for something.

at the same time men who had no attraction to me that i could notice while friends with them, once drunk would proposition me. its happened a lot, mostly when i was younger and hanging around with more full on wreck heads
 
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TheBioStudent said:
Hey

I am confused about this as soon as I get drunk or do drugs I get really turned on by lads. I have had a couple of encounters with them drunk but when I sober up in the morning I feel sick with myself for some reason. I have tried hooking up sober with a lad but I shit out at the last min I just can't bring my self to do it.

I have no idea what this means. Sober I love to fuck girls but drunk I love to suck dick
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Interesting :) you need to discover your sexuality, no body can give you that answer except yourself :)
 
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