How do you squirt?

[Not_A_Drug_Addict]

So my boyfriend and I have a pretty amazing sex life. We are open to trying things and have good communication with each other. One thing that we want to do is make me squirt. Im guessing it's easier for some women to be able to do that and for some maybe not so much? Anyway any tips on how to achieve this?

 

[ellford]

So my boyfriend and I have a pretty amazing sex life. We are open to trying things and have good communication with each other. One thing that we want to do is make me squirt. Im guessing it's easier for some women to be able to do that and for some maybe not so much? Anyway any tips on how to achieve this?

This was something my wife and I were into trying as well and I'm going to tell you step-by-step how we got this to happen.

1. Women need a LOT more foreplay than what a man normally gives her. So get him (if he's not into it already) to really get into eating you out. He needs to be using his tongue, sucking, using his fingers and also using toys. If he's got hangups on toys, then this will never happen for you.

2. After he's got you nice a relaxed after a massage and eating you out to make you cum at LEAST once, then you want to start using bigger dildos (this is why including them in #1 above is great). We started with the Twisted Love Glass Dildo offered by Adam and Eve. It's not big by any stretch of the imagination, but being able to use this in combination to eating your out is key. Make sure you COMMUNICATE to him on what you like and don't like as he can use the glass (it's pyrex so it's not going to break) dildo on you at different angles while he's eating you out and at different speeds. YOU NEED TO RELAX (this is key too).

3. After you get comfortable with the Glass dildo (and honestly if you don't want to use that - then use something else. ALL of my research on this subject lead me to this one to start things off with), then you want to try something else - this time a bit bigger and this is where you're going to squirt. My wife was actually squirting with the glass dildo when I'd increase the pace of it. The one everyone recommends is the Njoy Pure Wand. This is stainless steel and HEAVY and it has knobs of different size. The device is curved so he (or you) can use it and curve it to your g-spot. I can guarantee that the big end will make you squirt as you're going to feel fuller than you ever have (unless your b/f is exceptionally well endowed). What we did is used a small finger vibrator (really you just want the cheapest one you can find to put on your clit) while he's rocking the Njoy Pure Wand into you. I guarantee you'll be squirting uncontrollably. Word to the wise - make sure you put a towel down before you start this.

 

[Smellitfirst]

Weed. I was married to my wife for 17 years. One night over Thanksgiving at her mom's house after everyone else had left and her mom had gone to bed, her brother asked if we wanted to go out and smoke. My wife smoked in HS and college, but I never had. She gave me the "do you want to" look and I agreed and out we went. I got high for the first time at 45. She had always told me weed made her horny and OMG had I known just how horny I would have gotten some many years before. The sex that night was incredible even though we couldn't go crazy with others in the house.

But I got some to take home and when our kids were gone at sleepovers on night we got stoned and went crazy. All of a sudden she clenched and got very very wet. Her first squirt. Can only do it on weed as we have tried other times and she just can't. Don't really know why.

 

[GingerKitty]

My husband can always make me squirt by manipulating my g-spot with his finger. Sometimes he or I would have to push down on my lower abdomen while he had his finger in there because my g-spot would move. I know when I get to the point of release it feels like I really have to pee and if I do release I'm just going to pee everywhere. After a lot of reassurance from my husband when I would get to the point of release I would bear down and release like I was going to pee and would squirt everywhere. Like Ellford says.....RELAX!!!!

They do make g-spot stimulators. I love mine. It's just a thin purple wand with a flat angled circular paddle on the end. It's pretty barebones as far as vibrators go. You twist it on and off, but it does have different intensities of vibration. It works like a charm.

Years ago I came across a video that was posted on pornhub that teaches you how to do it with a partner and without. Might want to try googling or maybe searching pornhub.

Good luck to you guys!!!!