chasingabee
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Dec 31, 2012
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Last week I did the worst thing I have ever done. My girlfriend, who I have been with for 10 years and have lived together for about 8 years, went away for a couple of weeks. While she was gone I decided to experiment with amphetamine I bought on the dark net. While I was high I got really horny and looked online for escorts, then just phoned one up and went over for sex.
At the time it seemed like the best idea in the world and I was totally oblivious to the consequences of my actions. When the drug wore off I immediately felt an overwhelming sense of guilt. After one day of this feeling, I couldn't take it any more so I phoned her up and told her exactly what I did.
She is obviously shocked and gutted and I don't know if she is going to be able to forgive me. I begged her not to leave me and I was crying and it was not dignified. I really hate myself for the pain I must have caused her and I feel unbelievably depressed and have even felt suicidal.
I love my girlfriend so much and I am terrified to lose her. We have so much history together and I can't imagine the future without her, she is the best thing that ever happened to me. I am sure she loves me too but I think what I have done has messed that up.
Admittedly our sex life has dried up over the last few years but we are still very affectionate with each other with kisses, hugs and back rubs and tickles. Plus it's the companionship and the sharing of life experiences and the support we give each other that makes our relationship so special.
But it's true I have sexual desires for women that I would never act upon under normal circumstances, but I guess the drug took away my inhibitions so much that I just went and did it.
What can I do to try and put things right, to make it up to her and rebuild trust? Can my relationship ever really be the same after this?
At the time it seemed like the best idea in the world and I was totally oblivious to the consequences of my actions. When the drug wore off I immediately felt an overwhelming sense of guilt. After one day of this feeling, I couldn't take it any more so I phoned her up and told her exactly what I did.
She is obviously shocked and gutted and I don't know if she is going to be able to forgive me. I begged her not to leave me and I was crying and it was not dignified. I really hate myself for the pain I must have caused her and I feel unbelievably depressed and have even felt suicidal.
I love my girlfriend so much and I am terrified to lose her. We have so much history together and I can't imagine the future without her, she is the best thing that ever happened to me. I am sure she loves me too but I think what I have done has messed that up.
Admittedly our sex life has dried up over the last few years but we are still very affectionate with each other with kisses, hugs and back rubs and tickles. Plus it's the companionship and the sharing of life experiences and the support we give each other that makes our relationship so special.
But it's true I have sexual desires for women that I would never act upon under normal circumstances, but I guess the drug took away my inhibitions so much that I just went and did it.
What can I do to try and put things right, to make it up to her and rebuild trust? Can my relationship ever really be the same after this?