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Do you believe the theory that everyone is bisexual to some extent?

I beleive that 90% of a population can be oriented to same sex in some circumstances.
 
There was some kind of fluid imbalance here earlier; I do have algorithms that can detect such things in posts.
 
Basically It is something I would rather not witness. I don't dispute their right to be gay or to do gay things to gays that consent to those things. But if I can not observe it, if that is a choice I have, I'd rather not have to see it take place.

I'm as entitled to my opinion, as they are to be gay and do gay things. I don't go up and start screaming 'faggot' etc. I just have the personal opinion of finding it highly unpleasant. The gays wouldn't know about it, that I found it repellent, it would just be felt internally in the space of my own mind. I don't have to like it, I don't have to be one, any more than they have to not do their gay stuff. Simple as that. Personal opinion, quiet, private, own personal opinion. I find such things to have major 'ick!' factor. But that is it. I don't tell them, I don't torment them, I keep my self to myself, and my opinion on the matter likewise, unless directly asked, such as in a topic discussing the thread. If a homosexual asked me directly 'do you find homosexual acts disgusting', they would show themselves thus to wish to hear an answer. And I would then do so. Otherwise, its just a thing I do not personally like, admire, approve of and certainly not engage in.

I don't see how that in any way, intrudes on the rights of homosexuals to be homosexual, or commit homosexual acts. And in the case of the subject being specifically raised and opinions sought, then if everybody sugarcoats their opinion to be palatable and gay-friendly when in fact they feel the opposite, then such a subject raised is rendered worthless, because it turns into a cyclic lot of boot-licking and everybody pretending to agree with everybody else and hold the same opinion. In other words, a circle of lies. If somebody, homo or not, ASKS for the opinion, then that is different to throwing it in their face as abuse or degradation, they have expressed the wish to hear the opinion and if they don't like what they then hear, they had the option not to ask the question if they know that it is possible for the answer to be one they do not find palatable.

If I ask a question as to what somebody thinks of me, personally, then I invite both positive and negative and neutral replies, do I not? and if I know that the potential exists for somebody to tell me something less than pleasant to hear, I should, if I am not prepared to cope with that, have refrained from asking the question in the first instance, is that not the case?

Sorry, I must have missed this post before. What you say here is perfectly reasonable. I'm all for people not sugarcoating their opinions. It's just earlier when you said that you wouldn't physically attack a homosexual, it sounded like you thought you were being merciful or something, when in fact not physically attacking people is just a standard thing decent people do.

Have you ever thought about why you find homosexuality so repulsive? I'm not getting a religious vibe from you, so is it just a masculinity thing?
 
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It's just earlier when you said that you wouldn't physically attack a homosexual, it sounded like you thought you were being merciful or something, when in fact not physically attacking people is just a standard thing decent people do.

I'd remind Mr. Chicken that men's objectification of their sexual conquests only intensifies when everyone involved is male (or, can intensify). So there's a tendency to be fitter than average. Sometimes even muscle-bound. On average, more disposable income for personal injury lawyers who might invoke hate crime laws, and an adolescence honed by constant risk of unprovoked assault, means it's a bad idea just logistically, if you prefer that to morality or compassion.
 
an adolescence honed by constant risk of unprovoked assault

yeah, I can definitely attest to that. Eventually weird gay punk boy learned to fight back :)
 
'merciful'? like hell. I simply stated I wouldn't participate in attacks against homosexuals (outside the one context of self defense against somebody who happened to be gay. Chances are I wouldn't know about it in the first place, I certainly wouldn't ask fr.ex a wouldbe mugger or street punk 'hey, btw are you homosexual, so I can refuse allegations of gaybashing later if needs be?) in that case any to dispel any potential idea others might have had that I was a gay-basher. No, I don't sugarcoat things, no, I don't like the whole gay thing, but I've no disrespect for their rights. As long as it isn't literally shoved in my face, or expected of me to participate, I'm going about whatever business I happen to be going about otherwise.
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Without the most justifiable reasons (E.g say animal cruelty, child molesters and others of that sort of caliber) I don't start violence, if I'm confronted with it, I'll respond in kind, otherwise I keep myself to myself. My philosophy, for want of a better word, in that respect is 'live and let live, bring harm to me or mine and all bets are off'

And maybe I come off as up front. I am. I tell things like I see them, and if its controversial so be it. I don't sugar-coat shit and I certainly won't speak with a forked tongue merely to assuage the sensitivities of others.

Religious? not really compatible with my mindset. Anything akin to machismo, I wouldn't say so either, I've never seen the point in macho posturing or dicksizing. Its a personal opinion, thats all. I don't like the thought of men fucking men, I don't even want to watch porn that includes men on women. Just one of those things I don't like. I don't like the smell of hypochlorite either, same difference. I just don't find it pleasant, and in the case of homosexuals, unless one actually ASKS me what my personal opinion of it is, then they aren't going to know, save in a thread like this where it is the topic. I reckon a person is entitled to whatever opinion they wish to hold. If a white supremacist wants to think to himself 'I fucking HATE niggers' then so be it, but they cross the line when they take action upon it, or start shouting their mouth off at black folk.
 
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If a white supremacist wants to think to himself 'I fucking HATE niggers' then so be it, but they cross the line when they take action upon it, or start shouting their mouth off at black folk.
I'm white folk and I'd rather not have a person like that talk to me at all.
 
'merciful'? like hell. I simply stated I wouldn't participate in attacks against homosexuals (outside the one context of self defense against somebody who happened to be gay. Chances are I wouldn't know about it in the first place, I certainly wouldn't ask fr.ex a wouldbe mugger or street punk 'hey, btw are you homosexual, so I can refuse allegations of gaybashing later if needs be?) in that case any to dispel any potential idea others might have had that I was a gay-basher. No, I don't sugarcoat things, no, I don't like the whole gay thing, but I've no disrespect for their rights. As long as it isn't literally shoved in my face, or expected of me to participate, I'm going about whatever business I happen to be going about otherwise.
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Without the most justifiable reasons (E.g say animal cruelty, child molesters and others of that sort of caliber) I don't start violence, if I'm confronted with it, I'll respond in kind, otherwise I keep myself to myself. My philosophy, for want of a better word, in that respect is 'live and let live, bring harm to me or mine and all bets are off'

And maybe I come off as up front. I am. I tell things like I see them, and if its controversial so be it. I don't sugar-coat shit and I certainly won't speak with a forked tongue merely to assuage the sensitivities of others.

Religious? not really compatible with my mindset. Anything akin to machismo, I wouldn't say so either, I've never seen the point in macho posturing or dicksizing. Its a personal opinion, thats all. I don't like the thought of men fucking men, I don't even want to watch porn that includes men on women. Just one of those things I don't like. I don't like the smell of hypochlorite either, same difference. I just don't find it pleasant, and in the case of homosexuals, unless one actually ASKS me what my personal opinion of it is, then they aren't going to know, save in a thread like this where it is the topic. I reckon a person is entitled to whatever opinion they wish to hold. If a white supremacist wants to think to himself 'I fucking HATE niggers' then so be it, but they cross the line when they take action upon it, or start shouting their mouth off at black folk.

thats cool man, you just seem like a really decent guy. I was just curious as to why you found it disgusting or whatever. 99% of the time it's ideological (against religion...against "nature") or a defensive macho thing. I mean, I can watch two women go at it, and for me it's like watching paint dry. I feel nothing, I'd probably be bored. Just indifferent altogether. But I wouldn't be disgusted or repulsed in any way.

you are of course entitled to your opinion...that goes without saying.
 
I'm not so sure there is a 'why'. Perhaps if someone psychoanalyzed me deep enough and long enough they could pull something out of their ass (pun intended), its just something I'd really rather not have to see, do, or have done to me, and there isn't really much beyond that. It is, and thats the way it is. I don't stick that down anybody's throat, and as long as nobody sticks anything down my throat (pun intended) everybody goes away happy.

I can watch lez porn, without finding it revolting, I can't say as I'm particularly interested in it, or porn in general (well there is one but its such a damnably hard to find thing as for there only to be a very few clips that I know of. I'm not into neurotypical chicks, either in porn or IRL, I only date autistic women (I am myself, not a woman I mean, I'm autistic, and a guy), its just a case of only really being interested in my own kind. I have dated NT women and without exception its either been a disaster, a psycho-bitch or about as interesting as watching a dog piss up a lamp-post. Just the way it is.

As far as against nature, religion etc. I have no religion to go against, and I am aware that in the animal world male animals sometimes copulate, so that would be an illogical conclusion. Its simply something I don't find in the least attractive or pleasant. Nothing more to it, and unless asked for said opinion, as here, I keep it to myself, and I certainly don't go seeking to harm poofters. Yes, I know and will tell a few gay jokes, but I'm an equal opportunity bastard. I'm white, autie, and I know and tell white trash jokes, spazz jokes (and yes, I'll use the latter term to describe myself, if someone else doesn't like that then my take on it is 'bugger 'em ') and so do a lot of the rest of us.

Things are as they are going to be, and in this case, its just because shit happens to be that way. An opinion, personal tastes, and thats about all there is to it.
 
Fair enough. Look at us, two adult men having polite discourse.

And one old lady that came into the thread interested in the topic jumping up and down with joy to see polite discourse in 2018! Yay for you two!<3
 
Yay herby :D congrats on the LAVA contest win btw...much deserved! Pssst..I voted for you!
 
Discourse is fine. Its intercourse I'm less than enthusiastic about=D

Sorry, I had to, you left that one wide open (and yes I see the room for a dirty joke here too)
 
Apologies; I have not read through the thread. However, based on my own anecdotal sexuality - I say a solid NO - I have zero sexual feelings for the same sex. I've even gone so far as to expose myself to certain situations - and absolutely pornography - to see if I had any such desires, but no - nothing ever arose...so to speak.
 
I'm bi, and I will affirm that there are straight people. I don't understand it and there sure aren't that many of them proportionally, but they do exist. That said, every single one of my long term straight friends has, after years of reflection, come to the conclusion that they were not in fact entirely straight. Rough guess? 10-20% of people are a 6 on the Kinsey scale.
 
Apologies; I have not read through the thread. However, based on my own anecdotal sexuality - I say a solid NO - I have zero sexual feelings for the same sex. I've even gone so far as to expose myself to certain situations - and absolutely pornography - to see if I had any such desires, but no - nothing ever arose...so to speak.

And then you exposed yourself again, just to be extra sure. Then yet again just to be extra extra extra sure! And then on a periodic basis, just to ensure your hetrosexuality remains constant over a period of time! ;)

Hope you don't take offense man, I'm just teasing, :).
 
There'd be little opportunity for it even if I did want to (and, I'd say, that porn experiment, I've sort of inadvertently done it, in that I've had to witness male on female porn or completely homosexual porn that comes up as thumbnails, if I ever do look for girl on girl or solo material, the thought of even male on female porn is completely unattractive to me, well, I don't mind BEING the guy with the girl, but I don't want to look at another)

The reason for the less opportunity, is that most of my autistic friends (or MR/autistic 'mixtures', the odd one who is just MR and not autistic), they are most of them, female. And NT women are a huge turn-off. Its not that I despise NTs or anything, some of their habits, sure but not NTs for being NT, as some auties/aspie supremacists do. I do think it a better way to be, but I look at that question less as 'they are lesser and worthless' and more 'I have the gift of autism, I'm happy for myself that I was lucky enough to be born with something, that sadly, the NT folk can never have'; I'd like too see it possible for them to be offered it too, but as things are the way they are, you either have it or you do not.

I see it as 'I am the best way to be, so that is a good thing, count my blessings and be glad of it' rather than 'ugh dirty NTs'
But, NT women don't attract me sexually either. I can see a physical prettiness in those who are physically attractive in terms of their body, face etc., but the mental differences, are not there, and in a lady, they are something that I treasure, and find compatible and attractive. As well as the sexy stuff like the hand-flapping/clapping/twirling and spinning around like a beautiful flower on the water, caught by the wind. Most of my spesh friends are female so there'd be little opportunity even if I did want to go and bum someone or get bummed. I don't, but if I did, the chance woudn't be likely to present itself. At least not unless I met a kinky autie girl with a strap on, not that that is my idea of fun either, the strap on part I mean; I LOVE kinky as hell speshul girls, especially classically autistic/Kanner's auties.

My ex fiancee (well, the young girl one of the two, the other was more or less NT with slight aspie tendencies), the really young one, she was a real kinkstress, and oh me, oh my! that girl...she set my heart racing fit to explode. And other bits of me besides=D


I miss her SO much :( its been over a decade and a half since I've set eyes on her, haven't seen her since she was 14, and I miss her more than I ever thought it possible for one person to miss another. In fact, long distance aside, that I've experimented with and its not been able to work due to the distance, even although I did meet and date this 54yo autistic mother of three, who was quite astoundingly beautiful physically, mentally acute, sharp, and personality wise she didn't fuck about, if she felt something should be said, she said it, up front and bluntly as hell without that nasty habit NTs have usually, of sugar coating things. She just came out with it and got straight to the point. I like that in a girl, one more reason for me to prefer autie (or aspie/Rett's) girls.

But since the young lass I was to be married to, once it would have been legal to reveal our relationship (only myself, two close female friends, a mutual (female) NT friend of my ex fiancee's that I became friends with too, and my former fiancee's mother knew that we were getting it on together, the girl did introduce me to her mother, and she knew, but despite my being far older, she was alright with it, because she knew, she could see that the two of us were absolutely and utterly devoted to each other's happiness, and that it was mutual love, not one-way seeing her as a sex toy and exploiting her (she actually made the first...well...I wouldn't call it a pass at me, because she just ran full tilt into me and bodyslammed me into a tree, stuck her tongue down my throat and pretty much just claimed me as her property. THAT....that was sexy as hell. She didn't bother to ask for consent though, but as it happens, she'd set her stamp on me pretty thoroughly and I could think of nothing else than when I'd next get to be in her arms. Real sweet girl. Kinky devil too, if I was easily shocked, or even any less than more or less inured to things shocking, I would have been that she even knew about, much less wanted some of the things she did)

Guys....no, no and no again, why would I, when I know a classically autistic girl with the body of a goddess and the mind of a devil like that could walk the earth?

As for the joke above, I would tend to think that one's sexuality, the core nature of it, is something that does not change easily if at all, for someone who begins as exclusively one or the other.
 
I find this thread very interesting. For quite some time I questioned myself the fact that I had desires of being fucked by a guy. I'm not attracted to males whatsoever, just females, but I have always toyed with the idea of sucking a dick and being fucked in the ass. I guess that doesn't make me gay after all.
 
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