There'd be little opportunity for it even if I did want to (and, I'd say, that porn experiment, I've sort of inadvertently done it, in that I've had to witness male on female porn or completely homosexual porn that comes up as thumbnails, if I ever do look for girl on girl or solo material, the thought of even male on female porn is completely unattractive to me, well, I don't mind BEING the guy with the girl, but I don't want to look at another)
The reason for the less opportunity, is that most of my autistic friends (or MR/autistic 'mixtures', the odd one who is just MR and not autistic), they are most of them, female. And NT women are a huge turn-off. Its not that I despise NTs or anything, some of their habits, sure but not NTs for being NT, as some auties/aspie supremacists do. I do think it a better way to be, but I look at that question less as 'they are lesser and worthless' and more 'I have the gift of autism, I'm happy for myself that I was lucky enough to be born with something, that sadly, the NT folk can never have'; I'd like too see it possible for them to be offered it too, but as things are the way they are, you either have it or you do not.
I see it as 'I am the best way to be, so that is a good thing, count my blessings and be glad of it' rather than 'ugh dirty NTs'
But, NT women don't attract me sexually either. I can see a physical prettiness in those who are physically attractive in terms of their body, face etc., but the mental differences, are not there, and in a lady, they are something that I treasure, and find compatible and attractive. As well as the sexy stuff like the hand-flapping/clapping/twirling and spinning around like a beautiful flower on the water, caught by the wind. Most of my spesh friends are female so there'd be little opportunity even if I did want to go and bum someone or get bummed. I don't, but if I did, the chance woudn't be likely to present itself. At least not unless I met a kinky autie girl with a strap on, not that that is my idea of fun either, the strap on part I mean; I LOVE kinky as hell speshul girls, especially classically autistic/Kanner's auties.
My ex fiancee (well, the young girl one of the two, the other was more or less NT with slight aspie tendencies), the really young one, she was a real kinkstress, and oh me, oh my! that girl...she set my heart racing fit to explode. And other bits of me besides
I miss her SO much
its been over a decade and a half since I've set eyes on her, haven't seen her since she was 14, and I miss her more than I ever thought it possible for one person to miss another. In fact, long distance aside, that I've experimented with and its not been able to work due to the distance, even although I did meet and date this 54yo autistic mother of three, who was quite astoundingly beautiful physically, mentally acute, sharp, and personality wise she didn't fuck about, if she felt something should be said, she said it, up front and bluntly as hell without that nasty habit NTs have usually, of sugar coating things. She just came out with it and got straight to the point. I like that in a girl, one more reason for me to prefer autie (or aspie/Rett's) girls.
But since the young lass I was to be married to, once it would have been legal to reveal our relationship (only myself, two close female friends, a mutual (female) NT friend of my ex fiancee's that I became friends with too, and my former fiancee's mother knew that we were getting it on together, the girl did introduce me to her mother, and she knew, but despite my being far older, she was alright with it, because she knew, she could see that the two of us were absolutely and utterly devoted to each other's happiness, and that it was mutual love, not one-way seeing her as a sex toy and exploiting her (she actually made the first...well...I wouldn't call it a pass at me, because she just ran full tilt into me and bodyslammed me into a tree, stuck her tongue down my throat and pretty much just claimed me as her property. THAT....that was sexy as hell. She didn't bother to ask for consent though, but as it happens, she'd set her stamp on me pretty thoroughly and I could think of nothing else than when I'd next get to be in her arms. Real sweet girl. Kinky devil too, if I was easily shocked, or even any less than more or less inured to things shocking, I would have been that she even knew about, much less wanted some of the things she did)
Guys....no, no and no again, why would I, when I know a classically autistic girl with the body of a goddess and the mind of a devil like that could walk the earth?
As for the joke above, I would tend to think that one's sexuality, the core nature of it, is something that does not change easily if at all, for someone who begins as exclusively one or the other.