Other than the internet I don't really do much for fun. I'm lonely, depressed and isolated
Last year I think I nearly died from md and research chemicals, luckily my roommate came home in time to find me.
I've got what seems like unbearable emotional pain, my heart is wounded but I don't want to resort to drugs for treating the emotional pain again. So I promised myself I wouldn't take them again (I still sometimes worry that I never woke up from that time my roommate found me and I'm in a coma in hospital and this is all a dream, or I'm a deluded ghost that still thinks they're alive). Apart from what valium I haven't taken anything else.
One instance at a time ...How do you deal with this?
Would you mind sharing a bit more about what you mentioned in your first post in the thread, about how/why you made the decision that you want to stay away from drugs?
Complete separation or no cash seem to be the only ways I can deal with it. I'm weak like that though. For you're pain have you tried meditation or spirituality? I know they sound hokey, but they both really helped me when I had overwhelming emotions. Particularly shamanism. Also make sure you have a consistent bed time, my old emotional darkness comes back when I don't sleep well for a few days and then..... well I'm sure you know, it's a cycle, pay attention to what you can do that keeps you in an upward spiral.