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Boyfriend (32) spends long amounts of time in the bathroom after we IV meth. Why?

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dreadpiraterobert

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Like the title says, he'll spend 45 minutes or more in the bathroom after we do a shot of ice. Sometimes he has his phone, sometimes he doesn't. He gets livid if I knock to come in and pee or something. I'm 32/f (I know my user name is confusing, lol.) For the record, I'm having issues making sense of the time we were living together before he was incarcerated. I am sober now, and have been for several months but there's this retroactive jealousy/insecurity/confusion that I seem to fixate on when I think of the 4+ months of semi-regular IV meth use that we did last summer.

I have considered that he was watching porn but 1) he didn't have a phone with him, 2) he'd have my phone with him and there was no porn in the history in my browser, 3) we'd usually (although not always) end up having sex marathons so I didn't think he was in there jacking it when he'd finally come out and we'd start having intense, hours-long sex sessions.

I guess I just want some insight into why he'd stay locked in there for so long knowing I was 20 feet away in the bedroom waiting to jump his bones, and why he'd get so angry when I'd ask him to come out so I could take a piss or wash my hands or something like that.
 
He's probably jerking off :!

Seems a lot of guys prefer their hand to some tail these days. I don't but I must admit I get a little eh, soft, sometimes 8) I attribute that more to drug use though.
 
Cream Gravy? said:
He's probably jerking off :!

Seems a lot of guys prefer their hand to some tail these days. I don't but I must admit I get a little eh, soft, sometimes 8) I attribute that more to drug use though.
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that make a sense... Also, there is a possibility that he is texting with someone else from the bathroom.
 
sorry if you don't want to read this here SOMEWHAT GRAPHIC WARNING ALERT: I jerked off alot when I was smoking meth and still could have sex for hours on end with a raging erection, although I never Jerked off when my girl was waiting for me, I do know that I have for some reason always been embarrassed to jerk ofd, despit my incredibly high sex drive. I have quit smoking meth now, and there are times when it simply is not convenient to have sex and then I jerk off, my girlfriend asks me why I don't do it in front of her.... I can't really explain it, its just more of a personal thing and I think I would probably be a little angry if she wwalked in on me just as I was about to cum and I lost it. Plus I would be embarrassed. She always jokes about it and I take it as a joke, but really if I don't jerk off she will wake up in the middle of night with a raging sex demon ripping her clothes off. It has happened, but generally I try and keep myself level by having sex or masturbating at least once every day, sometimes twice, 1 missed day can sometimes lead me to jaerk off, have sex and then jerk off.....
 
I wouldn't say he is jerking it. He probably got stuck. A lot of ppl usually get stuck after doing a bump of shit. I bump pills so I doMt really have that problem. But I know way to many guys who do that bump and can't get it up or get paranoid and can't leave the bathroom. Next time have him IV in the bedroom and juSt watch him. See if he gets hard or if he starts looking weird. Lol
 
all u people are wrong... he's most likely just enjoying the rush that comes after an IV shot, and just wants to zone out by himself... i used to do it all the time
 
Hm.. I think what's important is finding out WHY you are so fixated on what he could or could not have been doing last summer.. as in... a year ago?

You've got sober... but yet you're feeling jealous about what he may or may not have been doing in the bathroom alone? Is he sober? Are you guys still together? Have you asked him? You mentioned feeling jealous and insecure.... what else has happened to make you feel that way? I certainly don't buy that you get jealous because your boyfriend was in the bathroom alone.... without his phone. o__O??
 
mrsnowygrainius said:
all u people are wrong... he's most likely just enjoying the rush that comes after an IV shot, and just wants to zone out by himself... i used to do it all the time
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That could be it or He could be having a panic attack and feels the need to be on his own by himself to feel comfortable.
 
hungryman52 said:
sorry if you don't want to read this here SOMEWHAT GRAPHIC WARNING ALERT: I jerked off alot when I was smoking meth and still could have sex for hours on end with a raging erection ...
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My experience is similar, though with one very major exception. My sex drive goes through the roof, but my erection not so much. And it's not an underlying issue because I have no problems when I've been a few days without (depending on how much I've done). I thought my unfortunate reaction was more common than what you're describing, hungryman52 -- if so then consider yourself lucky!

Anyone else have similar experiences regarding getting an erection after smoking meth (or cocaine or even Adderall in my case)? Would like to get a consensus, however unscientific?

Anyway, @dreadpiraterobert: I agree with with most of the possibilities given, though in my experience the likeliest things are masturbation and/or using the toilet. But as someone has pointed out, if you don't talk to him about it then not only will you never know, but your obsession over it will only grow. If you find you CAN'T talk to him about it (either because you're afraid to or because you know he'll get angry) then, sadly, I'd have to wonder about a bigger overall problem with this relationship.
 
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Yeah if stimulants help you have an erection, you're lucky. For a lot of people they increase desire but decrease ability a lot.
 
Ya I know what you mean I hate this but when I do a good issue I like to be alone not necessarily to jack off well maybe some times but I usually feel retarded after I do a shot and tend to even act a little bit weird and I feel embarrassed so I want to be alone although I might be acting weird it's ok because I dam sure don't feel weird I feel great and does anyone else ever get this weird kind of feeling after a shot?
 
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