Abstract: One of my dearest best friends of 6 years (my first friend at college), basically just texted me saying we should go our separate ways out of the blue. He does more acid than anyone I know, and I'm wondering if this is normal for someone who does a lot of acid...
I really want to help him, he's a life homie for me. I need advice.
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Our friendship has been nothing short of awesome - we have been on trips together, studied together, stayed in each others' houses when visiting. In fact, it's one of those friendships without any tension. 99% of what we talk about is technology / music related, both of our favorite subjects. As a background, we both went to the same top 10 university and this guy is nothing short of a genius.
After college I decided to go down the music path, and I got lucky and am making a living off writing music and touring. He decided to go down the technology route and is killing his current job. We live fairly close and talk a few times a week.
Personally, acid inspired me to 'do my own thing' in the music industry, which is leading to my growing success. I've done it a fair amount (10 trips?), but never more than once a month.
My friend has tripped probably 50-100 times in a couple years, and he has had similar realizations about his life and job.
...But in the last year or so, I've watched him slowly become less and less of himself. He got rid of all social media, got rid of wifi, reads in all of his free time, and works. He lives in a constant flowstate, which I totally respect! But I don't think he hangs out with many of his friends anymore. I've noticed he looks at his phone once a day (therefore responds once a day). Also most of the media he has been sending me is Alan Watts speeches.
Well tonight he texted me that "something slipped" in his present life and that it feels there is only room for this "abstract future." He needs to focus 99.9% on the present, and for the sake of his creativity, he must go to the source and "find the thing that started it again." Apparently, this entails that we cannot be friends anymore and must go our separate ways.
Has anyone had a similar experience? Do you think this could be caused by too much acid? Mind you this is completely out of the blue.
Cheers.
I really want to help him, he's a life homie for me. I need advice.
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Our friendship has been nothing short of awesome - we have been on trips together, studied together, stayed in each others' houses when visiting. In fact, it's one of those friendships without any tension. 99% of what we talk about is technology / music related, both of our favorite subjects. As a background, we both went to the same top 10 university and this guy is nothing short of a genius.
After college I decided to go down the music path, and I got lucky and am making a living off writing music and touring. He decided to go down the technology route and is killing his current job. We live fairly close and talk a few times a week.
Personally, acid inspired me to 'do my own thing' in the music industry, which is leading to my growing success. I've done it a fair amount (10 trips?), but never more than once a month.
My friend has tripped probably 50-100 times in a couple years, and he has had similar realizations about his life and job.
...But in the last year or so, I've watched him slowly become less and less of himself. He got rid of all social media, got rid of wifi, reads in all of his free time, and works. He lives in a constant flowstate, which I totally respect! But I don't think he hangs out with many of his friends anymore. I've noticed he looks at his phone once a day (therefore responds once a day). Also most of the media he has been sending me is Alan Watts speeches.
Well tonight he texted me that "something slipped" in his present life and that it feels there is only room for this "abstract future." He needs to focus 99.9% on the present, and for the sake of his creativity, he must go to the source and "find the thing that started it again." Apparently, this entails that we cannot be friends anymore and must go our separate ways.
Has anyone had a similar experience? Do you think this could be caused by too much acid? Mind you this is completely out of the blue.
Cheers.