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matty1999

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Hi, im 18 years old male and am doing MDMA with a my best friend who is also 18M. I am really close with my friend we know almost everything about each other through about a year of friendship, when we first starting hanging out we did molly together and thats what basically kickstarted our close relationship because we told secrets and we both found out we are both Bi sexual. So our relationship is kind of complicated, I have had feelings for him because he is an amazing person but he has a girlfriend so he tries to avoid admitting feels i think. So When we do MDMA I want to make out with him and maybe try and turn him on by rubbing his dick (we have talked about doing sexual things together when we have drunk texted before and we sent nudes). So we are planning on going back to my house, just me and him and I want to do sexual things with him but am wondering if it is possible while on molly?? And btw if I get the vibe that he does not want to do anything I will stop straight away because I am not someone who would pressure someone into doing anything ESPECIALLY my best friend. Id like to hear similar expierences people have had with giving a blowjob/ receiving while on molly.
 
Well you are young and vigorous presumably so you might not have such a hard time getting stiff.
I can guarantee that kissing and stroking and all that is pretty amazing when high.
Once you start you might find that you don't know where to stop, so have some lube ready before and might I suggest buying some poppers (alkyl nitrite) too to try together.
Have a cuddly time!
 
Thanks for the reply :), Im not sure what poppers are, ive heard of it before, but I presume its like 'jungle juice'? Which is stuff u sniff that makes you get an insane rush and 'loosens' your body. Or maybe it's something different?
 
Also we are going to be smoking a bit of weed and I have a low tolerance atm so will that enhance my experience sexually?
 
^ weed will likely make it less likely for something sexual to happen, it will weird things up make things awkward
 
^ Yeah it depends on what type of person you are. Because i think smoking weed and fucking makes it a better time, it gives you the feels. But thats just me
 
This sounds like a terrible idea this is a recipe for things getting weird and ruining the friendship.
 
Keep it to MDMA only and let yourselves go. You will both have a good time.
 
matty1999 said:
Thanks for the reply :), Im not sure what poppers are, ive heard of it before, but I presume its like 'jungle juice'? Which is stuff u sniff that makes you get an insane rush and 'loosens' your body. Or maybe it's something different?
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Yes, for example if you happened to be kissing when high on mdma and then also sniffed some poppers as well, you would feel incredibly close.
Also should you actually have penetrative sex together inhaling poppers during penetration would make the penetration easier, and inhaling poppers just before you come would make it a very intimate moment.
Google poppers for the do's and dont's though.

As for smoking dope. I suggest you do that on the comedown. Cannabis often makes people feel sexy and you could have lovely sex together then as well. Particularly as at the peak of the roll you might not feel like penetrative sex.
 
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This sounds like a terrible idea this is a recipe for things getting weird and ruining the friendship.
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They're already sending each other naked pictures. Sounds like things are getting plenty weird already. It sounds like they're ready to take it to the next level
 
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They're already sending each other naked pictures. Sounds like things are getting plenty weird already. It sounds like they're ready to take it to the next level
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Good job he's single and not in a relationship or anything or that would be super weird...
 
If your inexperienced with poppers here is a great tip for you - get another empty small container or bottle with a screw cap (pill bottle will work fine). Put a ball of cotton or some absorbent fabric or bit of sponge etc in the bottom of the bottle and pour some poppers onto it enough to soak it.

Use that bottle when your messing about so if you tip it or knock it over it doesn't spill on your skin which can leave a nasty burn.
 
With most Uppers/Empathogenes I don´t get hard.
Poppers is a good Idea for Sex and also GBL.
I would not ruin the friendship with that.
 
What the hell? no... he is in a relationship with someone.... that is not good AT ALL.... Although some good advice here.. from AugustaB .... just make sure he breaks off the relationship first before doing anything with you.
 
We didnt end up doing anything sexual because he was really tired and I wasn't really in the mood. He did later tell me he was about to start kissing me and he was going to put his hand down my pants but he didn't
 
Shame. We were all waiting for the news that you had found the love of your life. Better luck next time. XXX
 
As any situation like that with a friend, regardless of MDMA, will probably weird the both of you out after the event. And IMO, "I'm tired" is always the go to cop-out. Generally, one of the bonuses with MDMA is you are NOT tired. Unless you're floored but that's also when all the touchy-feely shit would be most likely be in action. Just as well you two did not.... I had a 4-some on MDMA with my best friend and his girlfriend, and a girl I was dating. I royally fucked up their relationship, however it was already down the tubes, but that was the straw that broke the camels back, so to speak... I was in regret for that for years.. Would never have happened w/out the MDMA infused stupor. At least not on my conscious.

IME sex is shit for the male on MDMA... but females seem to love it. That's where we're built differently. Maybe it's the brand of MDMA, but it always was a shitty encounter.
 
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Just drink s couple of beers together next time and sit on the couch together with your arm around his shoulder. If the chenistry us right, you will be attracted / drawn to each other and can make out and put hands down each others' pants and whatnot. Save the MDMA for a dance club or festival. For men, its stimulatory nature shrinks the male member and its a better use to dance all night to repetitive music while on MDMA than just using the drug for sex, like you would with viagra. I bought a bottle of poppers once and just felt like I was huffing paint thinner or something. I don't see why poppers have any sexual connotation. The sexiest, horniest drug I ever took was GHB but its easy to overdose on and my gay date took it upon himself to fuck ne up the ass in the shower after I took a marginally too large dose.
 
I really don't agree with the statement MDMA is a bad drug for sex.
It may be bad for penises but there other kinds of sex and mdma makes them even better.
 
Definitely.. it is great for intimacy, don't get me wrong. Just the act of penetration leaves at lot to be desired for males, I've not been alone on this notion. However all opinions vary, naturally.
And somehow I lived through 10 years of raves in the '90s and only ever did GHB one time. All I can remember was being horny as a motherf*#^%r.. I woulda boinked a 93 yr old great-grannie had I was given the chance!
 
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