I have a friend who I have unfortunately lost touch with, a best friend. Anyway he is a hornball and is often looking at online porn. He has a wife who he has been married to for 8 or 10 years. She has accepted this and loves him, but they have a VERY healthy sexual relationship. I think the issue here is not that he is watching porn, but not paying attention to you, and this should be addressed. You may need a third party, like a therapist to help you work through this if you want to save the relationship.
