How does tender work? I just got it today and no matchs yet?

[Edaw'Naflagn]

I've always though of myself as ugly but I soon relized why girls would act shy around me and sit on my lap at lunch in high school and how they would filert with me and even once my friends gf (really hot) got I to my bed with me while I was at his home and he was passed out on like 10 bars and kpins and some beer and she kinda suduced me into having the best sex of my life. She even wanted me to cum in her to have my kid (she was abscised with me like for real) and she told her bf that the condom broke of his and made her get an abortion and wanted to have my kid due to the fact she was gonna break up with him and have a reason for me to be with her since I protected her from him and even would talk to her when she was depressed or having issues with him. Any way back to the story, how long does it take to find a match? I wouldn't think long if there is like over a million users on the app. And I looked it up and it's still very very active. Also how would I go about getting with a girl if I get a date with one? I've only had one gf due to me being so shy and teemed and not thinking I'm attracted enough even though I know now I am but deep down I guess I will always think that for whatever reason. So can anyone on BL help me get a date and what to do on the date and how to get to bed it she wants to or how to tell she wants to come home or wants me to come home with her?

 

[pofacedhoe]

tinder does work but its long winded.

if you are attractive sometimes its better to chat to women in real life. these apps and pics dont do most people justice. some are way hotter than in photo's while the reverse is also true.

pics tell you nothing about chemistry

as for apps its a numbrs game just like real life propositions

 

[Edaw'Naflagn]

tinder does work but its long winded.

if you are attractive sometimes its better to chat to women in real life. these apps and pics dont do most people justice. some are way hotter than in photo's while the reverse is also true.

pics tell you nothing about chemistry

as for apps its a numbrs game just like real life propositions

Very true do you know of any better dating or one night stand websites I can use and find a nice chick that I can get with soon without paying some bullshit protection fee like on those porn sites if you know what I'm talking about?

 

[llama112]

Take your time. Only swipe for people who you think would also like you.
Also maybe rethink what your profile looks like to others?
Give some info about you as well. An empty profile? Who would swipe right (I think??) to that lol. No info upfront? No way from me.

 

[DrinksWithEvil]

i met my current gf on tinder,we have been dating for 8 months. im a recovering heroin addict shes a normie.

 

[Edaw'Naflagn]

i met my current gf on tinder,we have been dating for 8 months. im a recovering heroin addict shes a normie.

Wow well I guess I'll go through those bots that ask you for that fucking fake code shit right? And find a local legit girl not some fuxking bot who only wants money and shit cuz I want a legit relationship and or a one night stand.

 

[iLoveYouWithaKnife]

I want a legit relationship and or a one night stand.

These are on complete opposite ends of the spectrum.
Maybe you should really think about what you want in terms of a relationship, before you go out looking for something.

 

[psy997]

Also that story of fucking your best friend's girl and related, jesus dude...

 

[Edaw'Naflagn]

Also that story of fucking your best friend's girl and related, jesus dude...

It wasn't like that- see I got really fucking doped out that night. I passed out on his bed he passed out on our bars we had and kpins and stumped onto the couch and passed out right? I then passed out BUT woke up to her trying to fuck me I.E. She had my pants of and boxers off and she had hers off too but had her shirt and I was too high to release till she started to kiss, etc... You know the rest I don't feel comfortable talking about it. She kinda raped me but I liked her and she liked me but it ended up that way and we just did what she started I did say one thing to her other than asking her about where I can change my clothing at since I was spending the night for the week/weekend. Sorry it sounded the way it did this is one if the many legit story's of mine I have. Didn't mean to sound like a douche bag man I didn't want to explain how it happened.

 

[Edaw'Naflagn]

It wasn't like that- see I got really fucking doped out that night. I passed out on his bed he passed out on our bars we had and kpins and stumped onto the couch and passed out right? I then passed out BUT woke up to her trying to fuck me I.E. She had my pants of and boxers off and she had hers off too but had her shirt and I was too high to release till she started to kiss, etc... You know the rest I don't feel comfortable talking about it. She kinda raped me but I liked her and she liked me but it ended up that way and we just did what she started I did say one thing to her other than asking her about where I can change my clothing at since I was spending the night for the week/weekend. Sorry it sounded the way it did this is one if the many legit story's of mine I have. Didn't mean to sound like a douche bag man I didn't want to explain how it happened.

Let's not talk about this subject due to the fact many many people trolled, actually fucked with me ALOT on my post and PMing too... It was bad and I have stage two lung cancer man, I was desperate to find love and are the time of partying and shit I didn't have lung cancer until I was in a house fire which was recent lost everything and I had too much smoke inhalation and something within the smoke caused me cancer. So yep, cancer, & lost my home due to an arsonist... Yeah and person did this to me and I didn't do anything wrong for so years to anyone man. I helped did good for myself and treated my few friends like family and treated my family very lovely as I still do. Anyways I got that all deleted because I was on narcotic drip due to the pain of chemo and not only that my lungs feel horrid and it's not filling with any liquid but it's just basically my lungs have a form of cancer which causes pain and coughing up black shit, & I was on IV and was high and just was desperate and wanted to test it out on that form... Didn't know it would be that way AT ALL! And sorry about that too...

 

[Bearlove]

Take your time. Only swipe for people who you think would also like you.
Also maybe rethink what your profile looks like to others?
Give some info about you as well. An empty profile? Who would swipe right (I think??) to that lol. No info upfront? No way from me.

Take some time taking your profile pictures can also work. Not wasted, clean, tidy, clean cloths make sure that if anything is in shot behind you that it's appropriate. If your taking a selfie at home then make sure the room is clean/tidy, do not use a flash, sit in the sunlight so the picture is as clear as possible. Being outside makes the photo instantly more interesting than just a full face shot, a photo with other people taken by somebody else is also a better photo than a selfie - don't smile too much if your taking a selfie, no duck face.

Be honest in your profile and try not to leave any blanks. Avoid the corny lines 'Don't bite, unless asked' etc.

 

[jemck]

tinder does work but its long winded.

if you are attractive sometimes its better to chat to women in real life. these apps and pics dont do most people justice. some are way hotter than in photo's while the reverse is also true.

pics tell you nothing about chemistry

as for apps its a numbrs game just like real life propositions

This. I was on tinder for about 2 days and was annoyed by it all. I can't feel a connection with someone over the internet.