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my gfs boobs are turning me off

DrinksWithEvil

DrinksWithEvil

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ive been dating this girl for 7 months now. shes great. keeps me sober. doesnt care that im alittle odd. play alot of video games. she works i work.

she is bigger than me. shes a decent looking girl. but she used to be overweight and has saggy boobs and they have stretch marks, and its really bothersome for me. its a huge turn off. and she likes wearing dresses that show them off i dont know if she is dellusional to the fact that she has ugly boobs or what. im trying to just focus on her and the other parts of our relationship. but i want nice firm tits that i can grab and feel attracted to. i like sucking on tits but i cant bring myself to even touch hers. shes mentioned getting a boobjob.

am i being totally selfish and have a skewed persepctive on what a women should look like?
 
DrinksWithEvil said:
am i being totally selfish and have a skewed persepctive on what a women should look like?
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Not necessarily selfish, but your view is probably a bit skewed. Breasts come in all shapes and sizes. There are some very hot women with saggy tits and stretch marks. Take a look at some porn sites (free of course), and search for saggy tits. You'll find some hot chicks on there. I happen to like saggy tits, especially with stretch marks. Shit, might be getting a boner right now!
 
She probably doesn't feel self conscious about them but then again she is considering a boob job.

I dated a woman with a boob job and usually I go for the one's who are skinny with smaller breasts.

I get what you are saying about the stretch marks and I dunno the degree so its hard to call. Yeah tits that are not firm are kinds gross but chances are you are not perfect either.

If you really like her and think her current tits would be a deal breaker let her have the surgery. Don't make it about you, she is probably doing it for self confidence and yeah she knows and that is why she is talking about it.

You do seem to like her. I dunno, I guess ask yourself what it would take to stay with her and if you would stay with her if she didn't.

It is perfectly ok to be superficial in your head and it saves both parties heartbeat down the road. You don't want to marry or have kids with someone you couldn't stay with.

If its a big deal I would wait till she brought it up and say "if that's what you want, I am cool with it if it makes you feel better about yourself" cuz she might just be fucking with you with the surgery shit.

From what she said she already knows her tits are not up your alley.

At least it's not her vagina you have an issue with cuz a good vagina mate, that is really good stuff. She sounds like a nice girl, would you really be happy without her?
 
You need to make lists. One side things you like about your partner and the other side things you don't like.
If the things you don't like outweigh the things you like, it's time to move on.
I'm assuming you don't love her, because if you did you wouldn't be asking this question.
 
^ Is dew capable of love?

Maybe encourage a boob job, but try not to make her self conscious about them..
 
SS373dOH said:
^ Is dew capable of love?

Maybe encourage a boob job, but try not to make her self conscious about them..
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thats the thing she is like in love with me and here i am a heroin addict, with no emotion. feel like im going through the motions waiting for something to turn on
 
break up with her then, how would u feel if you gave ur heart to someone and they led you on. it SUCKS

maybe what you are looking for is something more casual rather than a deep romantic relationship.

r u both on the same page

and if u loved her u would love all of her including her tits which don't come out of a sports illustrated mag
 
^ I agree totally.

When we really like someone, that shouldn't be a problem as we accept our beloved ones for what they are.
We are all imperfect. How does she make you feel? How do you feel about her. Is it just convenience. If so, she needs to know.
Sometimes we tend to jeopardize our best relationships because of fear of commitment, for instance.
 
If you can't appreciate all of her then let her go so she can find someone that will.
 
Doesn't it depend on the kind of love you're talking about? Romantic love requires both a mental attractioin and a physical attraction for the spark to work. If he is only mentally attracted to her, that is the same kind of love you would feel for a friend. If she's fat and/or her tits are bothering him, there is no physical attraction. It is better to have her as a friend, and don't lead her on.
 
im trying to make myself be more attracted to her sigh..shes good for me in nmy sobriety though
 
You know I got to thinking about your situation. I really feel if you want our best advice we need ALL of the facts. If you could post a picture of your gf's bare breast for us so we know EXACTLY what we're working with. I want you to know that this is not just your typical pervy male request here, this is simply so we can give you the best advice.
 
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bro this is the internet if u cant find a pic of some boobs ur doin it wrong
 
I think this is something you need to accept or move on. No one person is perfect so you need to accept them as they are or let them go.

I love my wife, but I like boobs with big hard nipples which she does not have. Guess what, I accept them as part of her and spend a lot of time licking and sucking them.
 
My EX LOVED my b00bs and I didn't get it, but that was nice. I would love a nice full C cup, but I'm not going under anesthesia for that. If a guy doesn't like them, he can kick rocks. The saggy thing does make it uncomfortable if I think about it too much during the act, but overall, my body is good. I would only change that one thing.

It does happen from losing and gaining weight throughout life. You sound shallow, but really if it bothers you that much, leave her alone! She doesn't deserve to be with a guy who thinks this about her. And maybe there are things she doesn't like about you.
 
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