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Premature ejaculation

Makloda

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Hey everyone,

20 year long sufferer of extreme premature ejaculation.

Not the only symptom I have (fatigue, insomnia, etc but i am 35 now and not being able to have sex is really eating me up alive so I tought what the heck I'll see if anyone has any idea.

I litteraly have tried everything.

Hypnosis
Therapy
Benzos
Dopamine agonists (horrible side effects there shouldnt have done it lol)
Painkillers (like real strong ones like oxycodine or tramadol)
Anti depressants
antibiotics
anti epeleptica
All the OTC man has ever made
Testesteron
Steroids
From Ketamine to HGB

Have i missed something? :D

All nothing nothing nothing.

I am like a guy with propecia side effects but I never took propecia lol

The thing is "I could masturbate for 5 minutes or 10 relatively ok without ejaculation but say i put on a porn or a women even touches my leg its bam im done for.


Not really sure what options I have left

Thanks for any views
 
Shit if i do painkillers or h or any opiate really i can fuck for hours. It's called dope dick. Don't ever do heroin though.
 
You haven't mentioned topical anaesthetic creams (eg benzocaine, lidocaine etc) - worth a try.
 
Most likely it's psychosomatic, at least I am speaking from my pov... My two cents, try reading about tantric sex, as one of its principles is delaying ejaculations.... Try "tantric sex for men: making love a meditation" by Michael and Diana Richardson
 
If you've gone a very long time without getting laid then simply getting touched or seeing naked women could be causing you to ejack so quickly. Practise makes perfect, you need to have lots of sex to get used to it. Thats what I found when I go long lengths of time without getting any. May not be the case for you but worth a look see.
 
Have you been able to find a partner you can talk to about your problem and will help you work through it? I would say this will probably be the best long term solution given that this issue is definitely psychosomatic in origin if you are able to masturbate without immediately ejaculating, and will therefore be treatable with "exposure therapy".

Substance wise, I was going to say Tramadol, but I see you already tried this! What doses are we talking here? You were still able to ejaculate on it? For me 150mg or so makes it literally physically impossible until probably the next morning.
 
Bi guy here. I used to hang out with a gentleman that prematurely ejaculated on a consistent basis. Do not let anyone look down on you for something you cannot control. Find yourself a woman who works with you. What I would do for him was give him a really long slow blowjob. Of course, within ten seconds of first starting, I would have a mouthful of cum, but each consecutive cumshot took longer for me to extract. After about 30 mins and 6 cumshots, we were both happy. Get yourself a cumslut bro.
 
I believe extreme premature ejaculation is genetic problem low dopamine cause extreme premature ejaculation ! Medication,urologist,sex therapist,spray nothing working for me no one find me any solution! This disease ruined my life since 16 years old non stop extreme premature ejaculation now I'm 44 years old unbelieveable.....I think my receptors not working properly or I must be born with low dopamine level ! i was diagnosed Graves' disease 2008 but I had this PE problem before thyroid problem
 
This doesn't mean much as it is highly anecdotal, but the only time in my life that I suffered from PE was during a very stressful and abusive relationship. Basically, it was psychosomatic. After I ran the hell away from the monster of a person I was involved with, everything went back to normal. Though, during the time I had the problem, holy shit, was it self-reinforcing AF.

If I remember correctly, no known physiological cause for PE has been found (is this correct?).

Try kiegel exercises, maybe?

Psychologically train yourself through masturbation would be my advice.
 
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