As a man I will tell you some things that I find romantic with women.
-laying in bed by ornamental candles with incense
-sharing our differences, and learning from each other
-studying astrology together and reading each other the daily news of where the planets are and the moon and sun in which constellations and personal horoscopes and exploring new territory
-Intelligence is critical, a woman with a lovely looking, sophisticated bookshelf makes my heart skip a beat
-dark chocolate
-having creative outlets and sharing the way we express them with each other, and encouraging each other to grow in our own creative respects
-opening her mind through my analytical and non linear way of thought
-Cooking for her, making delicious vegetarian meals that are really healthy and scrumptious. Candlelight dinners.
-Playing chess; messing around with ouija boards
-falling in love quickly as if it was meant to be, the connection being just right and we can sense it
-Reading each other poems we like before cuddling each other to sleep.
-She just has to be creative. #1 turn on and of course mutual, powerful physical attraction or why even bother
-Daring each other, there is an abandoned house that is so haunted looking and neglected and beautiful nearby. I'd love to sneak in with her and explore the place while keeping her close to be safe and away from the rats... and... and... maybe a little kinky fun while we're at it. Sneaking in at night holding up dim lanterns to see in the dark.
-Giving each other massages
-Horror movies, stuff so scary I have to cuddle her to keep her from being afraid in the dark
-I completely fall for artsy type creative women, and if she can paint that is delightful to me. It's the one creative thing I don't think I could really do (but haven't tried yet). I like to encourage her to come up with new, healthy ideas to express herself (single now, though, so "her" is meant to be the lady of my dreams)
-I love to be teased... subtle flirty teasing that I really have to pay attention to in order to notice is the sexiest thing.
-Monogamy. I only ever need one woman, she has to be special though. And she should only ever need me to the point that we don't even look at the opposite sex anymore in that way, as we are that in love.
-Playing my electric guitar for her, and having a lady who enjoys laying down and listening to or watching me play. If she can sing, then just wow. Delightful. Yummy.
-Cuddling in really strange awkward looking positions that are actually super comfy and cozy and just laying motionless and just breathing and enjoying each other
-Nature walks
-Twisting and tying my fingers into her hair and giving gentle tugs in my direction so that we may kiss
-Spontaneous adventures
-Enjoying each other's company so much that driving to the mall isn't just to go shopping. It should be an adventure full of discussion and exploration and just having fun.
-Fairness
-Very kinky stuff I will not mention so as to remain polite and respectful
-Spontaneous connection, randomly meeting someone and having lovely conversations and flirting
-Getting her to watch Inherent Vice and other films, sharing films that either of us like, so we can discuss and watch them together.
-Making out is the best
-performing occult rituals in graveyards at night under the moonlight
-She has to be a total fox in my eyes, lovely beautiful delightful gorgeous, and she should really look up to me, and I should admire her
-not allowing drugs to interfere with the relationship... although I shall have my unfiltered joints, rails of 2C-C (been over a week straight now), and occasionally vaporize dmt as she watches over me sleeping for 15 minutes. Then waking up and doing my best to explain the experience to her. It's better if the drugs are different
-Women who are just plain different, the weirdo of the bunch, and care more about the fiery spirit of a man than his bank account or job or status or any of that "real world" stuff that interferes with true love. Each other's company should be enough.
-Saying I love you when the time is exactly right for it, and we both know it in harmony.
-Holding her tight when she cries and calming her down from distress, or seeing her sadness and concern if I do the same.
-Perhaps love will connect with me again sometime!
-Combining forces and becoming a team.
-Teaching her piano even though I only play guitar and am learning as I go
-Sharing jokes, laughter, experiences and stories from our past.
-Being respectful of each other.
-Reading side by side in bed, in silence. Sharing our books with each other that we think (know) the other would really enjoy.
-Actually caring for one another. Not just texting if we're not around each other. Taking the time for a phone call and actually really caring. Keeping in touch when we are not around each other is really important to me.
-love letters!!! Dropping them off in her mailbox at 4am when I can't sleep. Really taking the time to write good ones and expecting nothing in return... but maybe getting lucky enough to get just one back sometime : )
-Taking care of her emotional needs, and being her protector.
-Did I mention antique clocks and ornamental candles and real imported frankincense from Oman?
-A woman who can do her on French braids and who might teach me how to do them for her
-Being silly and enjoy life while we have the pleasure to do so
-Delightful surprises that make one another so very happy
-Inside jokes, being completely 100% honest with each other from the very start
-Having intellectual discourse for 8 hours straight
-Abstaining from sex unless you are falling in love and it happens, doesn't matter the time, when it's right. I find that highly romantic and it is one of my life choices. I hate sleeping around it is uncomfortable for me.
Straight from the heart of a tripping Taurus and Chinese dragon
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