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Henryadams81

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For years I have fantasised about my wife having sex with another man. I am 34 and she is 29 and have been married for 6 years.she is blonde with 34 dd fake tits and size 10, she also has a great round ass so attracting people wouldn't be a problem. I am a very sexual person but my wife is fairly shy although I do know she watches porn on her iPad and when I caught her she seemed quite ashamed ( I stressed that this wasn't a problem and it actually turned me on), she seems to like rough porn with bald policemen :). I would love to suggest my fantasy to her but feel embarrassed and ashamed, she is fairly stubborn and I'm afraid she would hold this against me! Any ideas how I could approach the subject? Thanks
 
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Introducing a new fantasy into a relationship can be difficult and challenging.

Before you approach the subject, you must first be fully comfortable with it yourself. If you are comfortable, she will more than likely be comfortable too.

Good communication is a must. Sit down, have a chat and gently communicate your desires.

Lightly expose her to a bit of the wife swapping culture. Find a movie that features this fetish. Be expressive and talk in detail, highlighting both positive and negative impacts.

Discuss the possible issues that may arise, among them being jealousy and STI/pregnancy risk.

Be patient. Ease her into it and work your way up. This will give her time to adjust.

Good luck.
 
Why don't you try acting out her porn fantasy? Make it about her before you make it about you so she can hopefully be more appreciative and understanding about it.
 
Another option is the two of you go to a swingers club. There is very little pressure to swap.
My wife and i go 2 or 3 times a year. Never swap, just enjoying watching and being watched.
Live porn....... a huge turn on.
 
Just remember, you can never unswap. What begins as a rather common fantasy has probably ruined countless relationships.
 
It always helps to step back and try to look at the situation from her perspective. I mean, most red-blooded males would find it interesting for their girlfriend to say "hey, do you think maybe you could bang another chick while I watch. It'd really turn me on and it wouldn't cause me any jealousy issues...".

I think a lot of men would love to hear something akin to that. Not all men, but my guess is there would be a lot out there....

But seriously, how often do you think women have said something like that? My guess is...not very often. Women are frustratingly complex with their emotions, and more often than not, this spills over into the bedroom.

You mentioned she was shy too. This sounds like it could take some very smooth talking on your part, or relentless I'll-just-try-wear-her-down type pestering, or a combination of both.

There's also the risk of her taking it the wrong way, like her thinking she isn't fulfilling your sexual needs adequately.

I dunno man, I think this is a potential mine-field.
 
Henryadams81 said:
For years I have fantasised about my wife having sex with another man. I am 34 and she is 29 and have been married for 6 years.she is blonde with 34 dd fake tits and size 10, she also has a great round ass so attracting people wouldn't be a problem. I am a very sexual person but my wife is fairly shy although I do know she watches porn on her iPad and when I caught her she seemed quite ashamed ( I stressed that this wasn't a problem and it actually turned me on), she seems to like rough porn with bald policemen :). I would love to suggest my fantasy to her but feel embarrassed and ashamed, she is fairly stubborn and I'm afraid she would hold this against me! Any ideas how I could approach the subject? Thanks
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Not really sure why you're describing your wife like a bonsai tree on Craigslist...
 
Be sure that's what u want! Once you do something like that you can't undo it. Make sure it won't bother you after the fact!
 
You never know how it will go when your wife gets with another man. You may find it great and arousing. Or you may find that your wife moans, or just seemed to enjoy it more with that person then she does with you and that can be pretty hard to swallow. You can not un-do this if you go through with it. Also, I've heard that once you allow your wife/husband to sleep with somebody else (in your presence) then they will think it isn't as big of a deal if they cheat on you when you are not present. So it's hard to say.
 
It took my husband 2 years telling me he wanted to watch me fuck another guy, he said he wanted to fuck me after they fill me full, I finally gave in, but I told him it would have to be out of town, and with someone that didn't know us . We went out of town for a weekend while out at a bar, I flirted and danced with several guys, I told him that the last guy he was probably 60, was trying to fill me up, I told him I was married and my husband wasn't a jealous man, in fact he has always wanted to watch me with another guy, without me saying anything else, he said he would love to have sex and my husband could watch, it was the best sex ever.
 
Daniel2016 said:
It took my husband 2 years telling me he wanted to watch me fuck another guy, he said he wanted to fuck me after they fill me full, I finally gave in, but I told him it would have to be out of town, and with someone that didn't know us . We went out of town for a weekend while out at a bar, I flirted and danced with several guys, I told him that the last guy he was probably 60, was trying to fill me up, I told him I was married and my husband wasn't a jealous man, in fact he has always wanted to watch me with another guy, without me saying anything else, he said he would love to have sex and my husband could watch, it was the best sex ever.
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That was a very hot story. Did the stranger cum inside of you ? Did your husband fuck you afterwards ? Has it changed your relationship ?
 
Talk to her about this. Also, keep in mind that just because you or she fantasize about something does not mean you have to do it sexually, rush into it, or ever do it. Good luck.
 
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It's been my fantasy for long time .i talked to her about it many times while having sex and I really wanna see her with another man with a big tool. She said she wanna keep it as fantasy!!!any advice?? Thank you
 
My wife asked what I was grinning about. I said I was thinking of that group of guys all dreaming of fucking you, and it turns me on.My ex always figured I was possessive till I caught and videoed her. Sounds hot, and talk to me.
 
Don't any of you worry your gf/wife will prefer the new guy and fuck off with him??
I admire how confident and secure you must be, it would turn me on as a fantasy but if someone fucked my girl I wouldn't want her anymore.
 
This is only for mature, secure, stable relationships. The average couple is probably better off staying away from it.
 
Karen have you done this yourself? How did it go?
Was it your idea or your partners?
Do you consider your relationship to be above average because you have done this?
 
Karen J said:
This is only for mature, secure, stable relationships. The average couple is probably better off staying away from it.
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I agree. If one is still so immature that he describes his wife like someone would describe his car when trying to sell it and the other gets ashamed of getting caught watching porn by her husband there is a lot to do before even bringing out fantasies involving other people.
 
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