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Husband wants to watch me have sex with another guy

He is sharing a deep thing with you. If you ask me, he's probably displaying this level of trust out of love for you. He wants you to be happy, I'm sure. Communication is the best thing ever in a relationship. If this is something that turns you both on, then you've accomplished what many couples have tried and failed at. Enjoy this. It's not easy to come by.
 
upward said:
He is sharing a deep thing with you. If you ask me, he's probably displaying this level of trust out of love for you. He wants you to be happy, I'm sure. Communication is the best thing ever in a relationship. If this is something that turns you both on, then you've accomplished what many couples have tried and failed at. Enjoy this. It's not easy to come by.
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This...

If you can't have an adult conversation and share your most intimate thoughts (and fantasies) with your partner then I don't believe you have that connection or trust you think you have.


If you feel ashamed or the need to hide it then the same applies.


Of course it takes a particular character to be trusting enough AND you may not want to participate BUT you can't be dimissive if your partner tells you something like this.


I believe this is the exact opposite to cheating - sharing and telling your desires instead of going off getting them elsewhere and hiding.
 
Well this has been our fantasy for the past 6yrs.

My wife has lost 60Kg's last year and now has just got over from all of her plastic's operation, (Excess skin remover, Body lift and new tits) So in short a size 22 to a 10 with DD cups. She is absolutely smoking hot now with a fat woman's personality .

She has had a very fit young bloke admiring her for a while who she really likes. I met him and he has a great attitude towards us and morals. So last weekend we met him for drinks and things went well. I was pushing her to fuck him and she was not sure. After few drinks she agreed. So we went to book a motel room but they were all fully booked out due to a big concert on that weekend. We thought of brining him home but with a teenager still home that wasn't going to really work.

So I offered to drive him home. My wife was pretty tipsy but knew exactly what was going on. I told him to sit in back with her and go for it. That he did. I fucked her good and left me a good load in her. ( He is a little shy and hasn't had many roots so bare back wasn't a problem)

I dropped him off and checked her pants to see if she was full while they kissed good bye. We had awesome sex for the next 2hrs.


6yrs in the making and was the best experience we both had ever. We are organizing a night this weekend in a luxury holiday unit . We have the right bloke and we are so looking forward in sharing her new body.

Had to share this as it's our secret in real life.
 
Monique_B said:
Probably because he has no interest in other women except for me. He tells me that he gets all of his sexual pleasure by my pleasure. That's why I think the fantasy is so hot and I have a hard time getting it out of my head.
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I too have that fantasy about my girlfriend. The difference is that I don't think I would want to be there when she is with another guy. I'd prefer for her to go to his place and have sex with him there then she could come back home to tell me about it and we would have a great time. The commonality I have with your husband is that I love to think of my girlfriend having great orgasmic pleasure with another man. When I have this fantasy I always see her face contorted in the throes of an orgasm. If I fantasize that I am there while it happens, then I imagine her telling me how good his cock is and how much she loves the way he is fucking her. For me, it is all about her pleasure. I have googled about this 'kink' and as you probably know by now, it is fairly common. Not many men would admit this fantasy to other guys so I think it is somewhat hidden away amongst us.
Here is one thing I want to mention. I had a girlfriend some years ago with whom I discussed this fantasy. She was turned on by it but never acted on it. I figured she was capable of doing so, but I never pushed her about it. We had been having problems with the relationship (this fact is integral to the story) and one night had a seldom accompanied male friend with us out for a night at a local bar. I was an asshole that night, running around flirting and not paying much attention to my GF due to our relationship issues. The guy (who was around us very rarely) easily spotted the opportunity in the situation. When I passed out at home that night my GF woke me and asked was it ok for him and her to go get some late night breakfast. I slept thru the night and awoke to have her tell me later in the day that they went to listen to music in the car in a secluded spot after they ate. Long story short, she ended up sucking him off in the car. As she confessed to me I was very powerfully turned on. I got so incredibly aroused that I asked her to tell me all the details and I had her suck me off too. Thanks goodness she was feeling guilty and did my bidding because she was willing to do it again a short time later. I was so aroused! But...in time it worked on me and it ended up being a big factor in our ultimate break up. One thing that ate at me was that she didn't discuss it with me ahead of time....I felt she betrayed me...even though it had been part of our fantasy repertoire. The other factor was that our relationship was already well on the rocks. This particular scenario didn't involve the idea of her getting a great deal of pleasure like my present day fantasy but it was still very, very hot. She did enjoy performing oral sex and she told me she was wet and very aroused but she couldn't seem to let him fuck her. I enjoyed the picture of it in my head and even fantasized about her fingering herself to orgasm while she did it. Even though that didn't happen I would have been even more excited if she had confessed to doing that. So...it seems consistent that for me and your husband, it is pleasurable for us to imagine our lady's pleasure. Why? I don't know. Do we feel inadequate and find pleasure in knowing you are pleased with another guy? I am mixed up about that part. One thing I do know is I enjoy the fantasy and reality of sharing wife/gf. Another aspect of this is that I like to think of her being a 'dirty girl'. There is something very arousing about that, her having a secret guy that she goes to to be 'bad' and have 'secret' sex. It is like a drug for me...so intense a fantasy. So, that is my tale.
I would actually gladly be willing for my present day girlfriend to have a guy to please her, and if she was to come to ask me if she could suck a guy off, or have sex with him, I don't think I could deny her. However there are two things that I would need reassurance about. 1. I would have to feel comfortable that she wouldn't be stolen away by this guy, that it's only about pleasure and fun and not falling in love. 2. I wouldn't want him to be someone close to us. I wouldn't want it to be a good friend and would prefer that it be someone she has 'secretly' on the side. He would think it was hidden from me...she wouldn't let him know that I know.
So, what am I saying? I wouldn't presume to advise you to actually do this. It is something you two need to discuss with seriousness. Also, I would say to set up ground rules about it that you both agree to. If there appears any issue with what is going on for either of you, stop it and reassure. I am sure there are people who make this sort of thing work for both their pleasure, but there are also many who have probably had things go badly from it. Make up your minds together. As for me, I'd love to see if it would work, But my GF isn't willing to do anything more than talk about it for my arousal. That works too! Good luck to you both.
 
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Germanpigtales said:
It have fantasies about this too but not sure how a boyfriend would feel?
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Maybe you could bring it up casually sometime when you and he are playing. Ask him if he ever has fantasies about you with someone else. If he seems bothered by the question you could tell him you though it curious too after one of your friends admitted that her hubby or boyfriend admitted to the fantasy. Make it about someone else or something you read. You can drop it if he is offended and if he is aroused you can play it as fantasy and see where it goes.
 
Well I went through same and could never understand because he was so jealous but wanted to watch me with another man,so one weekend we found someone and was so great !!!!!!!
 
I want my wife to do the same thing but she wants to keep it just like fantasy and I don't wAnt that!!
 
Monique_B said:
So one thing I am learning here is that many men fantasize about watching their wife with another man. I am so shocked by this!! Can any women relate to how I feel? Am I a bad wife for wanting this? Any other women in my boat?
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I do not think you are a bad wife! I felt weird at first to but honestly its just brought me and my husband closer and the sex is AMAZING!! I am the same as you jealous, the thought of him even touching another woman makes me feel sick. I do not see fucking a big black cock while my husband watches the same way as if he were to do it. I see it as I am the star of his very own fantasy and yes getting stretched either in-front of my husband or coming home after being 'naughty' with him wanting to know all the details of just how bad I have been makes the sex out of this world. I would say make sure your both agreed on your first meet do not be swayed into anything unless you are comfortable with it and just embrace the naughty side you wont regret it ;-p

good luck embrace it
 
What if the other dude proves to be much better in bed and you end up thinking of him all the time? That could ruin the relationship, but I had similar fantasies. I just decided not fulfil the because I CAN get jealous, even though it's rare.
 
I organised for my first love to have a threesome with 2 guys in their 40's. Was a huge fantasy of mine and only wanted to see it with her. Petite and very pretty girl with perfect body. We had talked about it and she looked online and showed me who she thought was hot. I organised it as a surprise, and she was very shocked and shy, but soon got into it. The guys loved it and so did she. Not together anymore but still have the photos. Beats any porno hands down.
 
Also, it took the fear of temptation from other guys my age as she got to experience it with me there. Would recommend it, and it's not hard finding older guys when you're offering a fit 17 year old
 
I personally went down a similar road.. He wanted to see me have sex with another man and when it happened all I could think was that he wanted it to be fair and have sex with another women although I wouldn't be able to handle it. Needless to say, it ruined the relationship.
 
So how does that make her a bad wife? Her husband is into it, he brought the topic up, what women would not agree to rock two cocks at the same time, we do it, it's fucking hot, bigger the better, it's so hot to watch my wife suck another hung stud and get so turned on she swallows his spunk then he puts it in her ass and she lets him up her ass cause she is so turned on
 
If you are with a guy who you are married to and he wants you to have sex with another guy, then how exactly is that a marriage unless you are open swingers?
 
I once met a man on Craigslist who asked me to come fuck his wife. I thought it was bullshit but when I turned up at his apartment it was real. His wife was blind folded on the dinner table with a ball and gag in her mouth and on all fours naked. He spanked her pussy lips with a fly swatter then demanded I eat her out. Then I got on top of her and did it missionary and she got so into it that she kissed me then he slapped her and said no kissing....then she got on her knees and blew me until she swallowed. It was cool until he hit her...and it was kind of strange because the guy was like 6'6 and a pale white red head with a black leather jacket on in the lobby. He looked pissed off and he walked me into a pitch black apartment and offered me a soda and I declined then he cut the lights on and I saw his wife. She was so hot and she never saw me. She was blindfolded the whole time. She was pale white as well with long straight dark hair red heels and red lipstick. I was 17
 
I have found my true Treasure in life and would never share her with another guy, nor would I ever consider touching another woman. I would forget this notion, and focus entirely on your spouse.
 
Am brand new and glad to be here. It's nice to find some open and enlightened thinkers. I feel exactly as Monique's husband does. I have had experience as the man who was doing the wife. It's great...but nothing like watching my wife with ANY MAN!!! Sorry girls but 12 yrs of supplying unsuspecting, warned,prepared and unprepared penis for my wifes enjoyment has shown me how inept the vast majority of males are. All the male needs are a good set of fingers, a tongue that won't take no for an answer and an erection.....a properly prepared pussy will cum buckets upon insertion of ANY ERECT PENIS. Hearing my wifes naughty stories ( and there are many) make me horny as hell!!!! without details I will say my wife has an exceptional set of "Equipment" and at 58 can screw men 20 yrs her jr under the table....Monique...do not confuse fear with morals and if u decide to do this then do it wholeheartedly. Your husband wants to see u serviced like u have never been serviced before and therefore is ready for a response from u he has never seen before and I believe u would regret not giving it a go....or2....3....4?
 
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