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Guys view on Vagina Size

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pippy31

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I'm just hoping for some insight into a guys view on Vagina Size when he is sleeping with a woman. Is it quite noticeable if the vagina is too loose? Does it effect your enjoyment at all?

I'm quite concerned that my vagina is quite loose now after 3 children, also during sex or oral if I raise my behind slightly then my vagina completely fills with air and actually inflates like a balloon.

My partner hasn't mentioned it though we only together a year and I'm too embarrassed to ask him.
Is there any tips/advice on sexual positions etc that would help me?

Thanks for any input in advance!
 
Actually, looser vagina's feel good to if it's wet & lubricated. The wetness "feeling" is actually the most important thing.

So, in my opinion... Vagina size doesn't matter. A tighter "wet" vagina may add a brownie point, but it isn't a big deal.

I'd rather sleep with a woman with a "loose vagina" if she could hit my buttons versus a girl with a tight vagina that sucked in bed.

The same goes with physical attraction, etc. etc. etc. I could go on & on.

You good babe, you good :)
 
Like penis size, it's how you use it. I've never really noticed a loose vagina on any girl I've slept with, and that has included women who have had children. You know you can do strengthening exercises too? I think they're called kegal exercises.

Or just try anal.
 
Teabag Johnny said:
Actually, looser vagina's feel good to if it's wet & lubricated. The wetness "feeling" is actually the most important thing.
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+1

A tight vagina is nice but part of its nature is to stretch to accommodate a man, so it becomes less important after the beginnings anyway. For me personally I care more about the skin to skin contact, especially feeling her press against my hip region, than the tightness. And wetness.. it's no fun to be chaffing a dry snatch with your knob! A properly wet snatch is delightful to fuck, awesome feeling.
 
Well, as long as it doesn't feel like throwing a sausage in an alleyway, I don't really mind :)
 
1. If you are together for a year and have sex then you should be comfortable talking to him about sex issues ;)
2. Your situation is quite common especially after childbirth so dont sweat it
3. Kegels might work, if anything at giving you more control during sex..
4 positions... Well here yoou have to think that generally what works for you works for him too. Wetness friction and motion all play a part and in most cases if you re feeling hot and horny and loved up there s a good chance he is too ;)
 
I would recommend kegels. I don't think they would help for general tightness but there's nothing wrong with being able to give a good squeeze while in the act. Are you sure you're actually looser or is it in your head? Like how would you gauge that? I know everyone's different but I never noticed a difference after children.
 
I'm lucky to blessed with the perfect penis size so it is rarely an issue.
Hygiene and attitude pretty much make most pussy basically awesome.
 
Hmmm, the perfect penis size must be one not too long, but with some healthy girth to it AND be able to stay rock hard & strong...

Have you ever noticed a lot of hung guys in porno's can't even get it fully erected. They're banging chicks with a huge half limped boner. I'm like, "I bet she can't even feel that."
 
I can become hard, cum way too fast, become hard again, last long.
Is that considered bad or good, Johnny?
And if not bad, how to tell a girl, so she doesn't get turned off by me cumming fast?

Advice would be appreciated, kind strenger!
 
LearntYoung said:
I can become hard, cum way too fast, become hard again, last long.
Is that considered bad or good, Johnny?
And if not bad, how to tell a girl, so she doesn't get turned off by me cumming fast?

Advice would be appreciated, kind strenger!
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Have you ever considered "Unloading the Gun" before going on a date? I'm sure your topic would make a great "new" thread, and I would definitely elaborate on it. Folks like Annie Gram, Ninae, and Claire could to :D

Be sure to add some kind of originality to it, or one of the shrewd moderators may close it & send you a similar link.

I'm sure the "Cumming too fast" thread has been done, but yours is a little more unique.
 
I may have already poster a thread about it once, iirc, but the problem with your solution is that the trigger is a vagina's inside for some reason.
I can fap 3 times, but as soon as I thrust a few times inside a woman, it blasts :( Probably, because I'm inexperienced as fuck, but still, it has fcked up my confidence, which was what I used to have going for me...
 
Unload the Gun before going on a date. Maybe a few times that day.

Being under the influence of alcohol & drugs can prolong it.

Wearing thicker condoms will help.

Learning how to control your mental thoughts. If you master this, you can last a long as you want.

Your best bet is to find a girlfriend. If you guys date a while before having sex, and you let her know about you situation before you guys do have sex, she probably won't mind. You did say you could go a lot longer on the second go & she should be fine with that if she cared about you. Especially if you can please her with foreplay & oral before hand. Once you guys start having sex often, your problem will go away. You're just lacking sexual experience in bed, and the feeling of sex is too intense for you.

The first girl I had sex with when I was 17, and I only lasted for like a minute. But we dated for 2 years, and it wasn't long & I could last as long as I wanted to. So, I can relate to your problem. It's no big deal.

So, I was a minute man once in my day :) But now, I can last as long as I want... You can to man :D
 
I've slept with Virginis and I've slept with a girl with two kids and lol
Obviously noticeable

I've had only about 11 partners and def can tell when a girl is loose and sometimes for me it made it harder for me to cum if she was to loose or it turned me off in my mind
Cuz she might be a who're cuz not a small dixkded dude(6inches and like 3 cm) not big but not small most girls are surprised
 
Honestly, if you're been with him for that long, it doesn't matter enough. :)
 
LearntYoung said:
I can become hard, cum way too fast, become hard again, last long.
Is that considered bad or good, Johnny?
And if not bad, how to tell a girl, so she doesn't get turned off by me cumming fast?

Advice would be appreciated, kind strenger!
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Well, I'm sure a smart girl will know how arousal works in men and women, and she will know that if you stay aroused for a long time before having sex, you will last much shorter. That's nothing unusual, I assure you, I heard from many guys that they have the same "problem". I often do as well and mostly it depends for how long I was aroused before having sex. I wouldn't even discuss this with a girl before having sex because what kind of a problem is it to have sex again? After I quit benzodiazepines, I was sensing everything too much, so much that noise or even thoughts would drive me crazy. The same goes for sexual arousal, I would cum very fast at first, but on the other hand I could get erection as many times as I wanted. Anyway, you can learn to control your emotions with your mind, because that's what it is essentially, too much of emotions and you won't be able to handle it, but when you learn how to, sex will be much more pleasant when you can sustain arousal at a high level. I doubt that any man wants to last short (perhaps some don't care at all), but our culture puts too much pressure on both men and women how good at sex they have to be. As a result instead of enjoying moments with someone you care about, you start thinking about a thousand of stereotypes and you can't relax.
 
I'm glad I saw this thread. This girl I've been dating for a month now has a tight vagina. It's the first tight vagina I ever had. I actually put high value on it and can't stop thinking about sucking and banging her. When we first had sex it was so tight that I almost hurt her then my condom got stuck inside of her. It was crazy but after that i've been good to go. After my experience sleeping with her I can honestly say I put high value on tight vagina. I enjoy it more then looser ones which my ex had (hence ex) lol.
 
Vagina size does not matter at all.

A super tight vagina is basically negligible in terms of pleasure.
Then again if you use condoms the effect is probably more pronounced, as pressure is the main thing.
But fuck condoms. (Obviously use them if you don't know medical history/aren't in a committed relationship... But that does not apply to me.)

But sex is 10000000% better without condoms.

The main thing is wetness.
Also I prefer a non-tiny vagina as you are less sore in the dick afterwards-- while feeling just as good during.

Bottom line: If you have a vagina, a guy will like it. (Unless he's homosexual, in which case wtf u doin)
 
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