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how to make her cum from anal

DOB

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this girl said to me she likes anal alot,never came just from it but said it could probably be done with right person.

my question is what should I theoreticaly do to give her first anal only orgasm,is there some specific angle,spot to hit,some position? As I understand it theres no orgasm spot in ass but the wall between pussy and choco tunnel is thin... should I try to hit her A/deep spot or g spot trough that wall?
 
Honestly your best bet probably would be to stimulate her clit in some way during the act, using a vibrator or otherwise.
 
Since your lady friend gets off on anal (mentally & physically), adding stimulation (like Annie ^^^ said) to the clitoris should do the trick or maybe even a dildo. Either she could work the toy while you pound it, or you could do both.

If you can get her excited and worked up, you could make her orgasm quick... Like less than one minute quick. Make her a minute woman bro :D
 
for men you want to play with the dick while fucking them to make them cum hard (although not always- but in 95% of cases yes), so womens clit to me seems the obvious equivalent
 
thanks guys but I was thinking ANAL ONLY.... no clit..... probably would use some bondage so she cant rub her pussy.... she said it,that its probably possible purely from backdoor.Can you hit the Gspot if you push trough that thin wall???
 
Maybe you should implement a tag-team commencement on your lady friend. That would be kinky...

I'm not sure if a penis can stimulate the g-spot through anal sex. Maybe she can grind her pussy on something like you mentioned. I'm sure there are some girls that can answer this.
 
Maybe you should implement a tag-team commencement on your lady friend. That would be kinky...

I'm not sure if a penis can stimulate the g-spot through anal sex. Maybe she can grind her pussy on something like you mentioned. I'm sure there are some girls that can answer this.

but how about the deep spot? dunno if its bullshit but there is supposed to be another orgasmic spot somewhere in at the end of vagina near cervix
 
thanks guys but I was thinking ANAL ONLY.... no clit..... probably would use some bondage so she cant rub her pussy.... she said it,that its probably possible purely from backdoor.Can you hit the Gspot if you push trough that thin wall???

i would avoid trying to poke through her bowel to her g spot. just sounds a bit iffy
 
DOB

I just did a quick search on deep spot orgasms on females, and it's a real thing. There's a bunch of articles devoted to it. There was one article labeled "The 9 Types of Female Orgasms you need to know" from a PUA site. Wow, that's nuts! I never knew that.

I'm sure hitting the deep spot isn't pleasant for every woman, especially if you're ramming the cervix or going to deep anal. I think it really depends on the woman, and some women like the added pain of taking it deep. You really need to know your woman, every gal is different.

I remember I tried anal once with an old girlfriend... I only got the tip in & she opted out super quick. She was a total wuss, lol. Anyway....

You'll find all you need on a google search. I didn't have time to read into the details, but there are a ton out there.
 
I can't imagine someone hitting my gSpot From my ass. Seems quite unpleasant actually. Sounds like trying to give someone a haircut while theyre in the kitchen an youre upstairs in a bedroom. "Youre gonna have a bad time". Plus who wants to do all that thought and map plotting while youre fucking someone in the ass??? Be a gentleman and give her a reach around. Or a dildo if she's capable of vaginal orgasms.
 
DOB,

How about you hit it doggie style on the bed, and you have a vibrator and dildo on the bed in her reach.. So, if she wants to use it, it'll be there..

Also, I would try this. Once you start to get it in deep, just ask her "is that too much babe?" Depending on her response, is what will depend on how hard & deep you should go. After all, it's you guys first time. You have no clue what she wants and deep spot anal can be painful for both men & women receiving it.

And you could trying spanking her.. You'll have to do it & feel her vibe. If she moans a little, spank her a little harder. She probably likes it. If she gets quiet, that's her cue saying don't do that.

I think the biggest thing about orgasms is mental stimulation. If you do what your mate likes & wants and fulfill their fantasy, orgasms or pleasure should be no problem.

It's like you could spank me or put me in cuffs... I like that, a lot. I'll orgasm quicker. BUT if you spit on my dick like they do in porno's, that will make me go limp & like WTF.

Everyone is different. Know your woman DOB!
 
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