Cave, please PM me.. I, also, have lost an arm, so I know exactly what you're going through.. (Well, I lost all motor function in my left hand, and 70% of my left arms ability to do shit. It's so difficult at first, but you WILL adjust, that I promise.. I OD'ed on hareon, and simultaneously had a stroke..) I was 100% paralyzed from the neck down for 2 weeks which was so, so scary. I lost everything, that is a feeling you cannot describe. It took me A LONG time to get back to a 'normal' state if you will.. I will always want the use of my hand and arm back, but that's not something I think about.. I'm so used to using one hand, that if by some godly act it came back, it would be odd, albeit great. I'll give you my Skype in a PM if you want to talk.. Keep your fucking head up, don't let this bullshit bring you down EVER. Seriously, my sincerest wishes go to you.