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Why do i want to suck c**k? I'm straight.

if you're in your 20's or younger you gotta make the decision very soon about what you want to do with your body...if you're a gay guy, and you're just too shy or closeted to do anything about it until you're in your 40's/50's (basically when your life is in order and your parents are too old to even notice what you're doing, if they're not already dead) then you're FUCKING CRAZY in this day and age. you're just going to kick yourself when you get that old because esp. for gay guys it's just a lot easier to get action when you're younger, and that's the truth

but to the op's question, wanting to suck a phallic object doesn't make you gay exactly, but if you actually wanna suck a real dick and get cum in your mouth, then that at least means you like gay sex acts.

If that's the case, then you're just getting down to semantics, honestly...most people think that if you perform any gay sex acts voluntarily then you're gay. I personally think you have to be at least bi if you engage in gay sex acts at all.

I don't think it's nearly as big a deal as getting fucked by or fucking a gay guy, but you're still dealing with dicks and cumming, so it's pretty gay if you go through with it.

At the same time though, it really just depends on what you self identify as. You might just be a straight guy with a fetish for giving guys blowjobs on the sly...however, I think that would be lying to yourself. That would make you automatically bi in my book. Just be honest with yourself and what you're into. If you're really bi you can be with girls or guys, back and forth...I personally have never gone down on pussy and am disgusted thinking about it, so whatever floats your boat..

besides, giving blowjobs is not that hard lol, it's pretty damn easy after you do it a few times. just make sure you wanna do it though, because if you do, there's definitely a chance you're getting a torrent of cum in your mouth, which some 'straight' guys aren't psychologically ready for
 
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So I know this is an old post, but there's a word for both you and everyone throwing around the word "bixexual." That word is "heteroflexible." In short, you're straight, but you are okay with some male contact from time to time. Its how I identify. I've done some things with guys, had a lot of fun with it, and I'd do it again, but I largely prefer women. And that's just fine.
 
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So I know this is an old post, but there's a word for both you and everyone throwing around the word "bixexual." That word is "heteroflexible." In short, you're straight, but you are okay with some male contact from time to time. Its how I identify. I've done some things with guys, had a lot of fun with it, and I'd do it again, but I largely prefer women. And that's just fine.
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Terms like Hetero flexible, homoflexible, pansexual are all just other terms for being bisexual.
 
Yup...! But like anything else, one means more gay than straight, another means more into the "person" than sexual. All means, the person is playing both sides of the field :)

Reminds me of posts online from bisexual women "Bi / but only interested in picking up/dating women"
 
Because You're Human

I believe that all of our sexual interests lie along a dynamic sexuality spectrum, our desires landing in different places at different times according to how we regulate and manage our personal experiences and social influences. We all have sexual urges that are considered normal in the animal kingdom, but accepted only in limited and varying degrees throughout the human population. I don't think in such limited terms as gay, bi, straight, or any other finite label, because they're just not able to accurately define much more than a single, possibly discreet act - suck one dick and you are forever labeled a dick sucker! I prefer to think of human sexuality as a constantly moving, extremely difficult to encapsulate, trait that is as unique to each person as their hair, eyes, smile, intellect, or personality - we get the hand we're dealt. Some traits are obviously more malleable than others; we do have some control over all of them and when we find the style that suits us, makes us the happiest, then that's generally what we go/ identify with. Once you find what suits you best then be happy with it, embrace it, but to judge someone's choice or to deny them their right to explore what suits them, is to show your ignorance about humanity and it significantly limits your life and you as a person. Be proud of who you seek to be and be that person, if only for a moment before you decide to explore some more. Embrace the gift of choice and do what makes you feel whole. Those who are happiest do what makes them happy, not what makes everyone else happy. A man who sucks cock is still a man, just as hair that is dyed is still hair. In the end is all about what suits us best, what makes us happy. Please don't be offended by this very simplistic analogy, it is just my way of trying to reach those who insist on propagating their narrow minded and very outdated gay-hate agenda. And think about this: men often fear what they want most, in the case of homophobia that would be dick! I for one want to find what works best for me, not what works best for everyone else, so if I'm ever so inclined, I will try a relationship with a man, I enjoy sex with men, so it's not so unrealistic to me that I could be in a relationship with a man, I just happen to enjoy my relationships with women and have no need to explore further. Peace everyone!
 
If you're thinking of trying it, go for it Graduate. You won't know if you'll like it unless you try it. I discovered it in middle age and I love it!
 
You are bisexual

I'm actually 100% straight unlike you OP. You know how I know I'm 100% straight? I have never wanted to suck cock in my life.

Nothing against homosexuals bisexual whatever sexual but you are not 100% straight and I hope you accept it and accept who you are
 
Would it be acceptable to be 90% straight or only a hundo?

Is watching a porn with a dick in it gay? Would if you are only watching it going into a vag?

Is watching a another guy get his dick sucked gay?

Is appraising another man's cock gay?

Just want to stay safe.
 
i have wanted to do it too....... i don't care what people think but i really want to put one in my mouth. i just cant find anyone near me
 
I dont know what it is but im a straight 22 year old with a girlfriend and a kid but i cant stop thinking about sucking some cock i masturbate to gay porn but only gay blowjob kissing and fucking grosses me out but home made gay blowjobs drives me crazy i dont consider my self gay tho because i love my girlfriend and i want to marry her and she drives me crazy also i also watch straight porn i have a friend from highschool who i always thought was straight but he sucks and fucks trannys and i have been thinking about him alot and wondering if he would let me blow him and thinking about how awsome that would be
 
I know how you feel, I am straight too and love screwing and eating women, but for quit some time I have wanted to have a hard cock in my mouth just so see what its like. I have these thoughts of how I like to be sucked off and think about how I would suck a hard cock, and tug at his balls and lick his head slowly at first and slowly pick up speed licking and sucking until I felt his tighten up and then take his cock deep into my mouth until he explodes and jerks again and again until he is exhausted. I have tasted my own cum and would like to see what someone else tastes like. But that's just me.......
 
None of you dudes are straight. Just admit it and suck it. Yoüll be happy.
 
It started for me just watching creampies. The thought of hot, sticky cum all up in a nice vagina. It progressed to tranny porn then gay porn and then big hard cocks was all that could get me off the best. I met a cd, sucked "her" off and had her cum on my cock. I considered myself straight butever since progressing to sucking a cock, thats all that gets me off. I still have sex with my wife, but I almost always have to think of sucking cock or a cock cumming in my mouth to stay hard with her. Long story short, I believe the progression turned me gay, I often meet up with guys on craigslist so I can fill my need to suck dick. I'm probably in denial considering myself still straight, but I'm pretty sure I turned myself gay as I cant resist thinking of a hard throbbing cock ejaculating in my mouth. You will be where I'm at in a few years, with an unquenchable thirst for a throbbing cock cumming down your yhroat. It's actually really f'ing HOT, I highly recommend trying it ;)
 
Why does OP feel the need to label himself as straight ?

As any fool knows, the label & the contents can be vastly different.

If you want to suck dick, go ahead. Or don't. Your choice. But there'ss no need to label what you do. Or don't.
 
Does one necessarily have to be "gay" to want to suck a cock? I have had similar desires for years, and have had many fine sexual experiences with females.
 
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