bbgirlclueless
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Aug 2, 2012
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- 140
my problem is a little different.i have extreme Social anxiety disorder,the kind that i cannot leave my room,i treat it with benzodiazepines and am able to function well,without harming anyone,with periods in which i dont have to use them and i feel okay simply because i know i have them and can take them if i need them,it keeps the panic at bay.my family does not approve,does not believe about this disorder,their solution is to try,to 'completely stop worrying' to stop shutting myself in my room and be 'normal' like others,i have tried explaining,i have tried therapy,antidepressants,and absolutely nothing works except for clonazepam or drugs like that.my family shut me in my house to keep me from taking 'drugs' and hate me shout ostracize if i manage.im always in sick frustration and fear all day.
i have a fiance and he seemed nice and good at first but now has turned completely controlling,verbally abusive,childlike,lowest self esteem to the point that i dream of leaving him,but if i do i will go back to shutting myself in my room and having panic attacks because he doesnt think drugs are a big deal if tried sometimes,and its okay to take them for anxiety and he gets them for me if i want.but apart from that he fights insults shouts vies for attention and makes my life f**ked up literal hell.its the choice between between being terrorized all the time and shutting myself in my room,or going ahead to marry this extremely sensitive,extremely negative thinking,borderline man, (who has a lot of money,i know thats a horrible thing to say but i just wanted to list the facts if i could) i know though that he loves me.no other man will accept a woman taking much needed pills in the horrible society i live and i do not know how to go on with this mental problem.
i thought if i could ask him for an adequate number of clonazepams and let him know why and agree to separate since its not working for either of us,just to ask for his help if he would...but honestly,can anyone PLEASE please think of a way.
i have a fiance and he seemed nice and good at first but now has turned completely controlling,verbally abusive,childlike,lowest self esteem to the point that i dream of leaving him,but if i do i will go back to shutting myself in my room and having panic attacks because he doesnt think drugs are a big deal if tried sometimes,and its okay to take them for anxiety and he gets them for me if i want.but apart from that he fights insults shouts vies for attention and makes my life f**ked up literal hell.its the choice between between being terrorized all the time and shutting myself in my room,or going ahead to marry this extremely sensitive,extremely negative thinking,borderline man, (who has a lot of money,i know thats a horrible thing to say but i just wanted to list the facts if i could) i know though that he loves me.no other man will accept a woman taking much needed pills in the horrible society i live and i do not know how to go on with this mental problem.
i thought if i could ask him for an adequate number of clonazepams and let him know why and agree to separate since its not working for either of us,just to ask for his help if he would...but honestly,can anyone PLEASE please think of a way.