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marco13
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I'm in my mid 20s and I still don't know how to kiss properly. I've only have make-out sessions during sex, which was twice so I haven't had any consistent practice: once when I was 17, and when I was 20. The first time I guess I used too much tongue, the girl screamed "ewww" then turned her face away from mine. We still finished having sex, but this was pretty scarring for me I think.
The second time, there wasn't any real obvious objection to my kissing, but I could tell it was awkward. It seemed like we were 'out-of-synch' and were going for different mouth/tongue movements and not coordinated or something like that. Well, since then, I've lost several potential partners because of being too afraid to go for a kiss (the girl gets impatient and finds another guy), I really need to solve this problem.
I watched this video on youtube, but still am apprehensive about it (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ko4UfYNU8Vc). I understand that making out is just alternating between closing 2 lips over 1 of the partner's, and touching/rubbing tongues together, but still need some fine points clarified. I tend to analyze all the little details so be patient with me...
1. How do you when to close lips, and when to touch tongues? What if one person is going for tongue, but the other is going for lips? You'd end up with one person licking the lips of the partner (would this be a mistake?). Or is their a set pattern like close over lips once, then touch tongue once, lips, tongue, etc.
2. How do you know when to close over the top lip of partner vs. the bottom lip of partner (do you alternate, or can you stay on one of them for several lip-closures).
3. When touching tongues, how long and how many times should they touch before you go back to lip-closing?
Please be very specific, I really need to tackle this problem. Don't have any female friends that could help me practice, and even if, it's way too embarrassing being this old and still not knowing proper technique.
I'm in my mid 20s and I still don't know how to kiss properly. I've only have make-out sessions during sex, which was twice so I haven't had any consistent practice: once when I was 17, and when I was 20. The first time I guess I used too much tongue, the girl screamed "ewww" then turned her face away from mine. We still finished having sex, but this was pretty scarring for me I think.
The second time, there wasn't any real obvious objection to my kissing, but I could tell it was awkward. It seemed like we were 'out-of-synch' and were going for different mouth/tongue movements and not coordinated or something like that. Well, since then, I've lost several potential partners because of being too afraid to go for a kiss (the girl gets impatient and finds another guy), I really need to solve this problem.
I watched this video on youtube, but still am apprehensive about it (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ko4UfYNU8Vc). I understand that making out is just alternating between closing 2 lips over 1 of the partner's, and touching/rubbing tongues together, but still need some fine points clarified. I tend to analyze all the little details so be patient with me...
1. How do you when to close lips, and when to touch tongues? What if one person is going for tongue, but the other is going for lips? You'd end up with one person licking the lips of the partner (would this be a mistake?). Or is their a set pattern like close over lips once, then touch tongue once, lips, tongue, etc.
2. How do you know when to close over the top lip of partner vs. the bottom lip of partner (do you alternate, or can you stay on one of them for several lip-closures).
3. When touching tongues, how long and how many times should they touch before you go back to lip-closing?
Please be very specific, I really need to tackle this problem. Don't have any female friends that could help me practice, and even if, it's way too embarrassing being this old and still not knowing proper technique.