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Lasting longer in bed......

breathing is very important. whe you feel the inevitable coming, take some slow, deep breaths and slow down a bit.

the masturbating till you almost come and clamping down and stopping also helps.

ive also heard of men getting a boner and doing weight lifting with towels to help with prolonging the vinegar strokes.

of course, (and i'm obviously not speaking for every woman here) a lot of girls kind of like the fact you sometimes cum quite quickly for them. it's a testament to how sexy they are afterall. just dont apologise, and if the opportunity arrises, go again and you'll last longer.

the brathing thing is my favourite though. deep slow breaths. and pay her plenty of attention beforehand.

best tip of all though is just to enjoy yourself rather than worrying about trying for a personal best every time you fuck.
 
As long as it's a good 5 minutes, like hard, fast, and rough, then I think it's ok. But make sure there was a good amount of oral foreplay before sex.
 
Go have sex with some girls that really want to fuck you and they usually let you explore and do what ever you want and don't worry about asking if they think you're fucking hot fuck them 4-10 times in a night they will come and you won't have the trying to impress feeling they're happy they get to fuck you you get to practice and get to explore your sexual side like a pornstar have her even call a friend that also is not to slutty or sexual sorry girls but I fuck virgins to Girls only having sex a few times and girls that work pit a lot which is the best they are amazing and very beautiful woman yes all of you are beautiful but in my and about 99% of men's meaning of super fucking hot and no I don't think I'm cocky and I don't think I'm the best looking dude I look like that trouble maker from breakfast club but in my way and opinion and almost every girls better any ways its confidence and having a lot of super crazy nasty cum guzzling sex will give you more confidence you might end up liking a girl because you can get them so horny and wet that when ever where ever they will always want sex from you and you might like having a girlfriend like that but just get used to busting a nut in 30secomd quickies to 4 hour or longer sex sesh with the first girl you do this go down on the 1-10 scale about two to 4 numbers if you have to for a rule of thumb like for instance last time I was fucking and safely was girls around 8-12's haha my buddy's super hot sister I had a crush on since I was a little shit and only older more important or rich guy as she was sorta a model amaturly and was making a name for her self in the tattling word like she was going to be in this should ink masters but she had an abortion and was preganent about 3days before flight anyways she was super hot and I got her to squirt like a horny ass MDMA Meth using sex addict with a lot of cum that's really needs to come out even with whiskey dick for the first hour but its because I know what girls like because I've been doing this for almost 8 years being only 20 I know now what girls like from experience and know what I want and like and also want to get your partner to be satifide before you do to much for your self like one of my girl friends I just love making her cum I will just go down on her and have her finish and not expect shit and elafter a lot of this even though she did sometimes already I get to get head while grilling some burgers as her parents are inside and some other family its fun with any sort of thrill but try not to hurry try to sorta meditate with your self and just make her work for it work for getting off the guy that it used to be so easy it'll male them also get more creative and another thing like me and a lot of guys I know if you want to do anal...fucking do it and if the girl your having sex with doesn't really want to if you are nice and polite with asking find another and tell her and when you do and this isn't weird they love it finger there ass and stretch it slowly and look for g spots in there ass while fore playing like eating them out or something so when you do they aren't going to get hurt because if any girl ever has sex with you the last thing they want is to have a guy hurt them when they don't want to and that's a rule for about almost ever time you have sex but anyways man just go fuck a bunch of girls don't focus on one people are age really shouldn't unless you have a wife baby momma or some other reason like "love " but if a girl and you are in love none of this should matter and she will not mind to help you but yeah fuck a bunch of chicks and also try to practice if you can most of my guy friends can is if you pull a quickie no foul just get back in there like a champ don't be scared they obviously are wanting good sex and that mean having fun don't give up like a wimp making you more attractive to almost all girls and gives you time to also explore fun and very intense stuff like fore play ect. Oh one last thing get creative touching and rubbing girls in sertain spots can get them off also and pretty easy and do it while you have sex so go find some hidden spots and worry about getting her off a bunch instead of wprring and getting down about how many times you can't and I don't recommend this other than a sexual expirence drinking is harmful and illegal under age but go to a bar or house party with or without your sexual partner and have fun and just think about and talk to them compliment there looks ext get each other horny while having some drinks with a large group of people then so when youre doing that you're trying to just get them very horny arroused and very useful of there imagination will be by the time you fuck and so it also helps you have FUN which really for all guys is all you need to make sure you to are having and just practice getting back into getting that tool in there and back to doing what they want and don't think about it and also size is stupid I'm not as big as 75% guys that all the girl I've had sex with and I know that because I usually sorta weird like to ask because I'm curious and they say that honeltys its only good for lazy or selfish guys or girls that are larger down there I noticed bit I'm usually number one or in top five and I'm okay with that but will always want more and to be better at some us humans are born into this world to be good at and to also just wanting to pleasure a very beautiful lady so please stop asking go have sex with 4-10 girls or how many ever for the next few days as much as you can literally like if you with a chick try to be having sex most the time for right now and explore and go past your limits and use that imagination you never know might find a new trick you can tell more guys to help us out and you also will have plenty of girls wanting to line up for you and you get conffodemce for more chicks and sex which is great so good luck and get out there maybe ask some friends that are girls for advice maybe hands on no more wording about lasting long it will come only from experience and confidence and nature taking its course sorry some of us are horny as dudes
 
Also I don't think cumming is a bad thing if it feels good , you should want to it again if not immediately you will after doing almost anything else with a naked or half naked female looking for more bud lol I sure as hell no us men can go a lot more than we think even when you really don't want to unless your just not attracted to the other as much as you thought or in general also you can also just not be as into the other as you thought you were like what happened to me and my very good looking friend for most my life that a girl and also nextdoor neighbor it was just not how I liked being in a relationship we agreed we are just good friends until next time who knows oh go have sex with a older girl with expirence they can teach you just watch out for the finger up the bit they all like to try and do that but idk you might like it or not care for then I just would think it's pointless oh also sorry everyone make a porno or maybe have some form of public sex to test out some signs of getting better lasting its a challenge in with the thought of emmbarassing your self in front of people that act like there sex pros and most aren't and it will also give you a cool story and something for people to think aboutbwhen they think you that super cool dude who fucked the chick at that party or something idk and you might just force yourself with the thought of embarrassment of finishing or not being able to keep hard after and like they say face your fears I did when it was one and I had a blast (so did she ) lol and now other people I know are even trying stuff like it at friends parties and what not but don't mistreat woman only if they want people try to pure pressure oh also my dog and me mouse did some coke off a few girls boobs booties and other places and the girls liked it also as they took duty doing it of a few of us try it if it's something you might like just fuck it do what ever I was just on here looking at some drugs (my dog) did lol wink wink and stubbled on this looking for a girl maybe and saw it and wanted to see what you all had to say and said something because no one said experience , don't matter just get back up if you can of not right away do something to take up time , FUN and the most important. CONFODENCE with that you will have sex more with more girls girls you dreamed about that are realistic and best yet makes anyone a better more fun person and its a life changer think about I have even a few fun sounding activities and story's I wrote and just think of what else and if that's not your thing then jack off a bunch like a lot of guys even though I don't care for it practice that stop a go and hope it works or simply instead become someone you will enjoy more and getting to be great with girls and at sex is just a plus and I bet any girl on here would agree and would rather fuck you after that route more than thinking you should only cum once and stop after and try to do stupid shit trying to get there instead of becomijg a badass mofo looking for sex and more and maybe making some chicks nervous and also girls domt much judging because guys most the time are selfish only the fun and freaky shine to them don't matter much if you some beiber fuck or somethingbl they will want more always and you would only be a trophy that's why I just try to have fun and have sex with all attractive females in my way thats whats awesome think listen to everything in I said you can have pretty much any girl its to easy. Guys are stupid girls aren't hard to figure just a lot of guys are to lazy to look at things easier and more simplistic and just try to make them happy in all ways even though they can say they will get ad over nothing or close to it sometimes but its just girls with stupid thoughts venting into other ones or any guess is fine but really don't ever get down on your self any of you on here or anyone and do you just want more and you can and will if you really do want and become not so selfish the world would be better and so will you and you will laugh looking back at this and good I miss having quickies and not having girls bug you all the time for sexbwhen your with a keeper and its pissing her off but you would by then have a girl bragging to bitxhes about you and her friends all want sex from you because you now know what's up so idk research the female enatomy or whatever do something other than worrying and get out there try to deffinetly get STDs and go hump some girls as if you were a rabbit and the last male at that its not the sex your doing something else wrong when you think you're bad at sex with your main tool so go go please and never have to listen to me ramble on for ever its stupid because you know this shit just for some stupid reason forgot or something and right now you should think of the next place to meet a girl or the next girl you know with confodince you're going to (if she wants you to) the next girl on your list this next two weeks your going to impress by having awesome sex and get crazy and expirental with and then the next and if you gotta keep with her as long as your looking practice makes perfect
 
50mg DXM. DXM works by slowing and dampening sensory input. It takes a cascade of signals to make you cum, and DXM just makes that difficult to happen. It really does work.
 
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I used to be just like that. Sometimes it was much less than five min. I did what these guys said, learned to eat pussy really well. I figured it would always be like that and I did hate it. So, I am 34 and had been mostly alone for a few years but something great happened, maybe getting older like someone said- I can go for a half hour to an hour now sometimes, and the sex is great. I have found that a very small dose of percocet or something (like 10-15mg) will not let me get quite as hard but I will last forever. Please note that if someone does not do opiates, it would be stupid for them to start to take them just for this purpose.
 
I used to have this problem as well but I could only last 1-2mins tops LOL it was bad. But what I did to change that was to slow down my breathing and control my thoughts and excitement and not just thinking about cumming. now I have trained my self to last 7-8mins which in my experience is all I need because I ALWAYS EAT MY GIRL OUT AND GIVE HER 1-2 ORGASMS before she even does anything to me PERIOD. I promise you if you do this ever girl will fucking love you for it and will never forget you. I know this because till this day I am still the best for most of the women i have gone down on because they have told me I am without me even having to ask. Try it!
 
rangrz said:
Find like an Indian online pharmacy, order a vial of Bupivacaine 0.50%, grab a regular old insulin rig, suck up like .1, about halfway along the shaft of your penis, stick the needle in just under the skin on the dorsal side of the penis, inject. Volia the pudendal nerve portion that makes your tip sensitive should be now be numb enough to hit it with a hammer and not feel a thing!
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This is the worts advice I have ever seen in my life! I´m not injecting anything in my dick! Specialy something bought from an Indian online pharmacy! Holly shit!
 
masturbating is worse.

disclosure: with a girlfriend/life-partner that has an equally extremely high sexual appetite

we can go for 2-3 hours flat out without an issue. here's what i do...

bottom line on top:
- must alternate
- alphabet or spelling or mathematics

0. UP FRONT

Make sure you talk about everything, encourage sharing and exploring every fantasy no matter how weird. She will share things with you that are embarrassing to her that she wants to try, and likely you do. Encourage them all, try them all, embrace them all. If you really love each other, you'd support and fully embrace them all. You're pleasing the others. This is an area where you can build trust, depth in relationship, by being open about the desires; they add spark, keep it from dying.

1. MUST ALTERNATE

My girlfriend and I alternate. I LOVE sucking pussy, I love drinking her juice and she super gets off on that. And we both LOVE fucking, a LOT.

So what we do which works well is this:

Always her first, I give her oral till she has her first orgasm. I start with just sucking (typical things, alphabet with tongue, hood flicks, coverage sucks, lip, vagina, then concentrate on clit), about 2 minutes in (for her) i start thrusting with one finger to stimulate her g spot at the same time, at about 4-8 minutes in she has her first orgasm like clockwork. I push her through her orgasm, suck the juices. Then...

Spit on my dick for lube, and bang the shit out of her. And we're very verbal, "I love to bang the shit out of your cervix, hon", or "I love your Asian pussy, white pussy sucks, god I'm so glad I'm with an Asian", "will you marry me?", "you're such a hot bitch", "take this (cock) bitch", "oops, sorry hon, about that bitch shit, but damn I love fucking you". You get the point. She gets really turned on that I take charge. I fuck the shit out of her while she does this. As I'm fucking, she's masturbating !!! So about 4-8 minutes in she has another orgasm, bigger one. I go down and drink up her juice. I go back to oral (step 1) and repeat the process 4-6 times for a total of 8-12 huge orgasms for her.

If she has a REALLY HUGE orgasm, which she often does that may mean I can fuck her one more time, and I can do anything I want, front, behind, or oral.

2. ALPHABET

When we first met, I found it very hard keeping it together. I'm so white I'm nearly transparent. She's Asian, darker, thin, big tits, and hot as hell (I still have no clue why she's with me, if it weren't for the fact that previously we had a 10 year friendship and were colleagues years ago). In a nutshell, I too had a VERY hard time keeping it together. Then in a moment when I was about to blow it...

I noticed a Curel or Vaseline Skin Care bottle on her table. I read the label, I spelled out V..... A...... S..... E.... L..... I.... N.... E....
I kept spelling Curel, then did math: first 10 primes are 2, 3, 5 7, 11, etc.

It worked like a charm. Spelling or Mathematics (sigh, I loved you math, you were a good friend, but now you're a cheap trick (triple meaning) ) are big hard dick killers. No kidding, it works FANTASTIC.

3. CONSEQUENCES: It takes longer to cum.

So we've been dating for 16-18 months now. We fuck a LOT. We have sex 4 times a weekend, at least 3 times during the week days if not more. She still gets 6-13 orgasms a night/each time. I can orgasm 1, perhaps 2 times each. There is a consequence.

It's now taking me longer to cum. Younger, I could cum, flaccid to hard to orgasm, in 20 -25 seconds flat. I can't do that anymore. It takes me 5 minutes. If we've fucked, already for say 1 hour or two hours, after her peak orgasm, it may take me another 5 minutes of fucking to get off. If its hard to get going, roll her over and have at it from behind, or masturbate over her face.

Hope this helps, albeit a bit graphic. Three points: Communicate, Alternate, Alphabet
 
Viagra u cum more than once its awesome just skeet skeet skeet all in her mouth my gf loves to swallow horny slut
 
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