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KhyaBean

KhyaBean

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Can someone explain to me what the deal is with ejaculating on a girls face? I have heard that its just because it's in porn a lot, and I have heard its a controll thing, but I just don't see any reason to need to stop mid blow job to jerk yourself off so you can jizz on her face when she is more than happy to swallow. Especially when it is a surprise "just because" bj where you aren't expected to do anything in return.

So what is it exactly about sperm on a girls face that you guys seem to be so fond of?
 
It's just a fantasy. And girl with cum on her face look sweet. But blowin in mouth is much more pleasure, that blowin with dick in a hand.
 
I don't get it. It may ( partially ) be a visual thing?

...so much hotter to think about unloading in a willing mouth.
 
No mystery. IME most truly sexual women into sex with men love semen. Drinking semen, semen on their tits, semen on their face - not semen in the eye so much because that causes problems - and not always in the hair depending - but otherwise pretty much everywhere else. This is exactly the same as I feel about pussy juice - I can lap it up all night....love being covered in pussy juice and mixed sweat after a long session, etc.

Yes it can also be an element of BDSM - like the many 'degrading' things that get horny people hot, but IME it's just something that comes naturally for people who love to fuck. But I also agree that it can be very difficult to decide where the semen is best used - my favorite (and something I've known more than a few women to appreciate) is when I've come a few times over an extended session and she has had some semen everywhere.....with evidence leaking from all holes, smeared on her skin, etc.......Yum! :D
 
IME most truly sexual women into sex with men love semen. Drinking semen, semen on their tits, semen on their face
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I am cool with literally everywhere else except my face/hair. It's not so much that I have a specific problem with semen on my face, it's mainly the fact that it's already that close to my mouth, I can just swallow it and minimize cleanup. In the hair on the other hand I do have a problem with. I give one free pass if it hasn't been discussed. If it happens twice you never get a chance at a third.
 
KhyaBean said:
Can someone explain to me what the deal is with ejaculating on a girls face? I have heard that its just because it's in porn a lot, and I have heard its a controll thing, but I just don't see any reason to need to stop mid blow job to jerk yourself off so you can jizz on her face when she is more than happy to swallow. Especially when it is a surprise "just because" bj where you aren't expected to do anything in return.

So what is it exactly about sperm on a girls face that you guys seem to be so fond of?
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I always thought of it as a dominance thing, but I'm into rough play and bondage.
 
I think it has to do with domination, or cuz we are into thinking that she's sooooo into my jizz that she wants it over her face kinda thing.

Personally I like white moustaches, but zats just moi.
 
No dominance. You want your semen to be inside a women, this is just a survival thing. If you like having your sperm inside of women, you will try to put it there and if you succeed you will have children and the species will be perpetuated. Now, her face, mouth, tits, whatever, is close enough, i guess. You know that you want to give it to her, it doesnt matter where, you just know that you have that thing and it's for her to have. Too graphic? I don't think so.
 
Was never into it. I honestly don't like the look of semen, so if it's all cool with the girl, just go ahead and swallow it.
 
Facials should be worked in tactfully. I think a lot of people have an impression of facials where the guy is a steroid porn douche and is just like "Take that!", but I don't think that is entirely realistic. I'd say the more likely scenario is just that two people are really horny and doing exaggerated sexual stuff to each other. Facials are a beautiful thing in this latter sense.
 
KhyaBean said:
I am cool with literally everywhere else except my face/hair. It's not so much that I have a specific problem with semen on my face, it's mainly the fact that it's already that close to my mouth, I can just swallow it and minimize cleanup. In the hair on the other hand I do have a problem with. I give one free pass if it hasn't been discussed. If it happens twice you never get a chance at a third.
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Agree with what she said. I am a highly sexual being; comfortable with my sexuality and pushing limits. BUT I do not like facials. I tried it, as I will try anything once, and it really turned me. Cleaning up was a disaster, in my hair and everywhere else. I didnt feel hott or sexy (even though he lovedd it) and I honestly felt a bit degraded (even though he did it in sweetest way possible lol 8( sweetest way someone could possibly do that!) I will never do it again, ever.

I think porn is to blame. Theyre all dirty whores and the guys treat them as such by jizzing on their face to say "fuck u bitch, i just fuckked u". Its a power trip. maybe its evolutionary saying i dont want this whore carrying my offspring so ill shoot it on her face. I guess after jerking off to those images for so many years, many guys like the visual of it. Still though, not sexy at all and degrading.
 
The problem with this OP is that different people do the same thing for different reasons.
Some people might find it a matter of dominance/submission, although that's quite unlikely considering.
Some WOMEN enjoy getting a facial, so the man might be doing it to please the man.
Some men might want to lick it off their face as opposed to a snowball
Some men enjoy the way a woman looks with a warm sticky load on their face
Some men prefer to finish themselves off, and eye contact as you do it can help therefore the face is a popular target
Some men just like the idea of spreading their seed all over their lovers face
The desire may have originated from media, whether it be literature, pictures, or movies.
One man can't talk for all men, just as one woman can't talk for all women.
 
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One man can't talk for all men, just as one woman can't talk for all women.
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Of course I don't expect one man to speak for all men. I was mearly looking for insight on what some of the possible reasons for wanting to do this might be. Obviously no one here would be able to tell me exactly why the person who chose to do it this morning wanted to. Only he can tell me that, and I've yet to have the opportunity to ask. I was mostly just curious about why men seem to like it in general, as it makes very little sense to me.
 
I think it happens in porn so much purely because it can be shown. Was talking to a friend about it and he said he found it completely revolting. This is someone who is pretty much the definition of the word "lad". I personally am indifferent.
 
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I was mostly just curious about why men seem to like it in general, as it makes very little sense to me.
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Sex is only supposed to "make sense" in the world of priests, shrinks, parole officers, and other agents of social control. For ordinary horny human apes sex is not rational at all and not subject to the arbitrary limitations of marriage manuals, Cosmo articles, or quacks like Dr. Drew. Good sex takes people out of their normal restrictive worldviews. Good sex is insane.

Psychiatrist: "Do you think sex is dirty?"
Woody Allen: "Only when it's good...."
 
KhyaBean said:
Can someone explain to me what the deal is with ejaculating on a girls face? I have heard that its just because it's in porn a lot, and I have heard its a controll thing, but I just don't see any reason to need to stop mid blow job to jerk yourself off so you can jizz on her face when she is more than happy to swallow. Especially when it is a surprise "just because" bj where you aren't expected to do anything in return.

So what is it exactly about sperm on a girls face that you guys seem to be so fond of?
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Nope I don't like sperming on girls face at all.

I like coming deep inside her with the end of my penis against her cervix and we talk about filling her her belly and how she could get pregnant.
 
sockpuppet said:
No mystery. IME most truly sexual women into sex with men love semen. Drinking semen, semen on their tits, semen on their face - not semen in the eye so much because that causes problems - and not always in the hair depending - but otherwise pretty much everywhere else.
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wow. some serious male-ego on show here. so a woman who doesn't like that shit isn't truly sexual? please.


it's clearly a dominance thing. perpetuated by pornography. disgusts me.
 
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