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A question for the boys:

In my op, it's one of those things that pretty much "came" into popular sexual practice from porn, a relic from the days when a porn actor's pay was often related to visible ejaculation (hence "money shot"). Not saying no one busted on anyone's face before porn, not at all, but I'd be willing to bet that it was less common or accepted.

As for my personal preference, it does nothing for me, being one of those things that--like anal sex--is hotter in the fantasy than the reality. Like sex isn't messy enough already.
 
tokenname said:
They're marking their territory.....;)
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Rofl. I think I'd rather have my leg pee'd on tbh.


Atropa said:
wow. some serious male-ego on show here. so a woman who doesn't like that shit isn't truly sexual? please.
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Well said. IMO right into the baby cooker is where it belongs, but that sometimes gets me into trouble. It really is the best way though. There's almost a euphoria that comes with it...him pulling out is just not as fulfilling.
 
I just masturbated upside down to see what it's like to get squirted in the face, and I really don't see what all the fuss is about...
 
Atropa said:
wow. some serious male-ego on show here. so a woman who doesn't like that shit isn't truly sexual? please.


it's clearly a dominance thing. perpetuated by pornography. disgusts me.
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Well - as I said, it's only my experience and we all come from different backgrounds.......people are into different things. But I actually meant "truly" as in "very", not as in "normally". So yes, in my experience most very sexual women into men love semen and love it everywhere it doesn't cause problems (the pussy being the most problematic place really....lol). Just like loving pussy juice (something many truly sexual women love also... ;-) ). And yes, in my experience most (not all - and not all the time necessarily) very sexual women love to be dominated. But that doesn't disgust me one bit.....lol

Bottom line: don't do sexual things you don't enjoy....there will still be plenty of eager people for the rest of us, trust me....lol
 
Hahaha, I've wondered this too... I just assumed it was probably a dominance thing. Definitely seems like it. Of course, it's not something I ever actually need to worry about, both not having a penis nor having sex with anyone who does, lol. I always found it a little funny how disgusted some guys are by their own jizz, yet expect some bird to wear it and love it. But y'know, whatever floats your boat I suppose =)
 
Atropa said:
it's clearly a dominance thing. perpetuated by pornography. disgusts me.
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Can you prove, or at least demonstrate convincingly the the fact that it is factually indeed a "dominance thing" or the casual link between it and pornography? I, mean in a manner that would satisfy the scientific method, or is a promulgation with no supporting empirical observations, and no under laying, plausible naturalistic explication for as to why, and mainly based on very broad and arbitrary, questionable axioms?
 
Porn, really shouldn't be used as a "lovers/couples guide" to intimacy.. Porn has always been about fantasy.. cop a load of some of those rather questionable "scripts"they had in the 70's- 80's.. Poolboys etc sheesh!.

A couple can watch porn and be aroused at what they see, but don't have to emulate what they see on screen to fulfill fantasies. None of my mates with their wives/ girlfriends would ever even dare broach the subject with their spouse.. "hey darl, this time can i pull out and blow on ya face?" would lead to a disgusted look, followed by a token "go fuck yourself" So.. I'm guessing its not that common occurance..
 
The facial is one thing in porn that is a bit odd especially when the guy finishes himself off, obviously it is a visual thing but I dont see why the woman doesnt jerk it off on to her face if thats where it is going to go. I've done it before but it's no where near as good as in the mouth or vag. I suppose if you are making a movie its easier to see the jizz when its on the outside. The reason I did it was to see if I liked it- it was ok but women dont always like it so unless they want it there why bother.
 
rakeone said:
it's for total submission.. well this is why I make my gf do it :)
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honesty is awesome!

garrygofast said:
followed by a token "go fuck yourself"..
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I just saw my name...and i would never say that..cuz i'm a lady. ;)

I still go with they're marking their territory...but who cares?
It's sex and animalistic...and i don't think that much thought has to go into it..
if you don't like it..tell him...
but remember there may be things you're more into than him...
give and take friends.

~token
 
if we were both really horny and she was goin at it and it happened to explode on her face, that would be cool. im not gonna pull out and jerk off on her face though

now if im finishing in her mouth and its dripping down her chin....thats hot
 
It's more of the concept in relationship to being "dirty" and that it often happens in porno's. Like many things, a lot of guys believe that because it's in porno then it's something that's also normal in real life.


In any case, you need therapy.
 
Edvard Munch said:
It's more of the concept in relationship to being "dirty" and that it often happens in porno's. Like many things, a lot of guys believe that because it's in porno then it's something that's also normal in real life.


In any case, you need therapy.
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who needs therapy?
 
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