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How old were you when you had sex for the first time.

AnythingEverything said:
^^^ I'm sorry that happened. She should be charged ?

Me:
Female
7 not by choice
14 not by choice - started getting high every single day after that
15 reluctantly by choice and very drunk and stoned.

Too early obviously. I would wait until I got married if I had my time again.
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Wow who the fuck thought it was ok to have sex with a 7 year old girl..... Im not sorry it happened to me, but for girls it's different for a girl you are taking something inside of you for a guy its just sticking their junk inside of someone. I can't imagine how fucked up taht must have been.
 
A teenager who I now realise was being molested by an adult, doesn't make it ok but made it easy to forgive which has helped me. It's part of why I'm such a mess.

Well I am glad you've dealt with it ok. One of my sons is currently 8 and I would seriously, well I don't know what I would do if a woman or man did anything even close to that to him :(. My school was run by a paedophile ring but that's a whole other post..
 
- I was 16 when I made that mistake.

-I am female

-I absolutely could have, but I always took that type of intimacy seriously and I waited 2 years with my first.

-I think it happened too soon and with the wrong person.


-It was awful, because it was awkward and my stepdad was a staircase away blasting nascar. XD

Anyways, enough of this talk. You got my answers, haha
 
I was 22 when i had sex for the first time and now im 25, my first time was with an escort
 
14
Male
She was very bad at sex and I thought that odd since I was a virgin and she was not?
Also, found out I had a big dick
 
35y Female

I was 18 the first time. I had a lot of pressure from my friends who were desperate to do it as soon as they could. I waited for the "right" guy... We were together for 3y. Then I had 2 fling and met my husband.

I'm glad I waited in a way to do it with someone that meant something to me. My regret is not to have experimented more before I got married.

I feel like I am only awakening to my sexuality now...
 
I Am a female In 1973 I was approaching my 18th Birthday, getting ready for collage and working part time in the RCA building when I met this Lawyer on the elevator. We started dating the day I turned 18 by the end of the summer he was being fired for missing a point in a big case and moving back to the west coast. I realized I was about a month pregnant the week before and went to him about it and he told me it was my problem. As he left me in the Ice rink in front of the RCA building. My mother helped me get an abortion instead of telling my elderly father. I was In my Junior year of Collage when my father died. I spent that summer helping my mother Move to Norfolk VA were i was introduced to this petty officer going to The Strategic Weapons System School at Dam Neck. He was about 26. We started dating and a year and 4 months later were getting married just after he Graduated from the SWS school as a FTB, Fire Controlman Balistic missil. I dont think that those men were not what could be called rocket scientists. They became knowlegeable in Guidance systems. Submarine operations in their Qualifications, and most were extremlly inteligent. My husband had been in the Army from 1972 to 1976 as a battlefeild intelligence analyst and he was also qualified air born and air assault, Its been in the last 17 years I learned he was also a 3rd dan Black Belt in Sho Rie. Well versed in combat arts. He never talkes about what he did in either the Army or the Navy.
 
I am male and I was 18 years old the first time I had sex.
i have only had sex with one woman too, plus we have been married for 28 years at that.
 
Female. Lost virginity at 23.
I was pursued plenty so it was my choice to wait until I found the right guy. I wasn't attracted to any of the guys in high school.
It was well worth the wait. He was Lebanese. Tall, dark and very handsome. We were together for a few years and moved on.
 
30y female

lost it at 15 while camping. it was great and we ended up dating for two years. i wouldn't change a thing...you never forget your first love ❤️

wanted it since i was 10 tho tbph. was and still am a very sexual person
 
Male
With a guy: 13. Lasted on and off for about two years. Didnt really do much. Pretty ignorant in those days !!!
With a girl: 16 She was a well built and extremely pretty black girl.
 
The first time I had sex, I was in the 3rd grade. So that means I was either 8 or 9 years old. I fucked my classmate/girlfriend in the locker room while everyone else is swimming. My elementary school had a swimming pool. We got caught by one of the lifeguards, but no criminal charges were filed.
 
I was 14 and I took a girls virginity. All the blood freaked me the fuck out I remember haha. After that I was addicted - had to have it all the time. She loved it too so it was great. Probably could have had sex earlier bit I remember being a bit nervous. I was blessed with a nice cock so it's always fun having sex with different girls - they seem to really enjoy it as well : )
 
Well, I had intercourse with my first love at 16. He was 19. It was pretty uncomfortable and breaking the hymen did hurt. However, my BF was very smart and used a condom, which I appreciate more than ever now. He was truly ahead of his time, since that was in the 60s!!! But, he wanted no unplanned pregnancies, since STDs were not the issue they are now. We made love many times over the next year and it was wonderful. If you really love someone that you are making love with, it is the best. Having sex and being "respected" was a big thing back then and I thought I never had to doubt that he did. Then, I went away to school for my junior year in high school and he wrote me a letter and broke up with me saying he had found someone that, "he could love and respect." It just about killed me, and it took me years to get over it. Two weeks after he sent that letter, he wrote that he was sorry for saying that and wanted me to go back with him. Needless to say, I was shocked! And, it was way too late. I did see him a few times when I got home, but I then broke things off. While I felt I was ready for intercourse at 16, I think it is hard to be sure you can really trust the person at that age. I never got a logical explanation for why he said what he said. He just said he was hurt I had left town for a year. Some excuse. In retrospect, I wish I would have waited or done a better job of picking my partner, although I am not sure you can EVER be sure about anyone.
 
19. She was a high school science teacher I'd met using an adult friend finder premium account I'd recently received as a birthday gift. We got together a few times, which required a two hour drive for me. There were plans to continue the fling or whatever it was, but she postponed last minute and subsequently disappeared after telling me that had been and still was struggling with depression. In hindsight, it's quite possible that her use of the site and casual sex with me were a result of her attempting to escape her feelings.
 
16. Was fucking awful. Disaster to the max. didn't even get to finish it was so bad. Really wish I could re-fuck that girl but she really didn't age well so maybe not.
 
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