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How old were you when you had sex for the first time.

I was 20 and my wife was 18 and we were just married so it was on our wedding night. Back in the early 70's, it wasn't proper to have sex until married. Neither of us have any misgivings about waiting. We married for love, the sex was a plus. We did, however, make up for not having sex before by spending the majority of our wedded bliss in MFM's, FMF's, MMF's and FFM's as well as the occasional FWB for each.
 
I was 21 and it was a one night stand. I first couldn't understand what the big deal was but then I became a real hornball but shitty marriage and a couple of relationships that ended badly disabused me of that. I think I just budget for an escort if I ever feel the need.
 
22 I had a chick go down on me for 10 hour twice. I came so hard I was retarded for the next 3 days
 
Hey, it's my first post.

I'm female and my first time was when I was 11.
I'd thought about doing it for a long time before that.
I enjoyed it a lot, it hurt at first but soon felt good. It was with an older boyfriend and we both wanted it.
I've always thought that it was the right time for me and have never regretted it at all.
 
I was 14 with a guy that was 18. He got me high first so it didn't really hurt and I had masturbated for a couple of years before that, rubbing my clit on bedknobs and broomsticks.
 
Is 15 too young of age for a girl to have sex? And is 18 partners for a woman high? Well I was told 18 so aren't u suppose to multiply that by like 3. Asking for a friend ?
 
I was around 16 for my first time. I felt like I was late, but didn't want to do anything too soon. Found someone I really cared about and it just happened.
 
The summer when I was 16 and she was a year older. She lived down the street and I had known her all my life. We went out on some dates and would make out listening to music in her room. A night when her folks went out for the evening, we had the house to ourselves and one thing led to another. It was just terrific. The rest of the summer we would have sex everyday sometimes several times a day in all kinds of different places. Eventually she went away for school and lost interest. Fond memories for sure.
 
Okay this is kind of weird. By my recollection, I lost my virginity when I was 19. I am a male.

However, many years later (actually just earlier this year) I reconnected with an old female friend I was very close to when I was a teen. There were a couple of days when I was 15 that we blacked out on some kind of drugs (it was just a mystery pill to my teen self, but looking back I am pretty sure they were a benzo). Somewhere between 48 to 72 hours were absolutely gone. She swears that we had sex during it but she never told me afterwards. She had a boyfriend at the time that was living with her, and I do remember him being absolutely furious with both of us after we came out of the black out (he didn't do drugs). She told me she didn't tell me because she knew I was in to her and she wanted to repair things with her boyfriend. I loved this girl so much back then I believe that having sex with her would have broken through the benzo haze and I would remember it or at least have some kind of memory of it. I was so timid about such things back then, I do know there is no way I would have initiated it no matter how high I was so if it happened it was definitely her who started it. It was not her first time and she says she has a few memories of it and that she initiated it since my initial thought beyond shock was a worry I in some way forced her into it. So that was at least a relief.

So yeah...not exactly the kind of thread you would think you would have a mystery in, but there it is. I either lost my virginity at 19 or 15. One or the other.
 
14
I'd say it was a bit early... it was really awkward and just bad. she was a virgin too and just too tight, it was really hard to get in and soon as I did it just popped back out. It was painful too.

15 when I had proper sex.
 
Male 41, still a virgin lol! Never kissed anyone, held hands or anything. From age 5 I always hated myself, hated my body. Hated going with family to friends etc where there were swimming pools. Was too shy to take my shirt off, so tried swimming once with my shirt on - never again did I try socialise! Learnt to accept the fact that I will forever be alone!
 
Oricogay said:
Male 41, still a virgin lol! Never kissed anyone, held hands or anything. From age 5 I always hated myself, hated my body. Hated going with family to friends etc where there were swimming pools. Was too shy to take my shirt off, so tried swimming once with my shirt on - never again did I try socialise! Learnt to accept the fact that I will forever be alone!
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Hey, don't worry about it. It is not a "LOL"...

I mean... try something, in order to not hate yourself and your body. I don't know what that might be, but that just sounds to me like cruelty. Cruelty you do, towards yourself. And it breaks my heart. I have too much empathy, it is a curse, i wish that i had none of that shit. Empathy.

My last relationship ended 2009. I went into psychosis and i got hospitalized. My woman called me that she is sick of my shit and this is done. I replied that i am sick of my shit also, and i will erase myself from your life.

12 years without sex. 2009 -> 2021. I never go to bars or night clubs to just "score". And a serious, meaningful relationship, not there anymore...

I am a straight demisexual male. I am not the alpha player male who tunes up cars in the garage. Yes, it hurts, it hurts real bad. First 8 years was kinda alright, but the last 4 years.... bad bad bad... I want HER... But i am not even sure SHE exists, to begin with.
Demisexual people only feel sexually attracted to someone when they have an emotional bond with the person. They can be gay, straight, bisexual, or pansexual, and may have any gender identity. The prefix “demi” means half — which can refer to being halfway between sexual and asexual.
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I’m female
And a late bloomer
I didn’t have sex till I was 19
It was over in 10 seconds
I wanted to wait till I was in love
I wanted to wait for marriage




I FUCKED UP

Ended up marrying him and having 3 great kids with him but he is a total low life won’t even msg the on Facebook
 
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