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How old were you when you had sex for the first time.

You dont have to have an orgasm to have sex. Yeah iot was oral I justz liekd the feeling I guess I owuld have done it with anyone. I knew an ofel lot of people who did it around that age.. It was mor elike but sex but are dicks werent long enough so I guess it wasen again..

It's probably pointless to argue over what sex is. A lot of people define sex differently. For some it's strictly penetration, for others it's any sexual contact whatsoever - orgasm or not.

Anyway, we're talking in circles now. I'm not really disagreeing with you anyway!
 
16 - High school sweet heart I had been dating for 1 year. In his living, playing hookie. We were both virgins. No pain or blood. :) A month later I discovered alcohol for the first time and cheated on him :( Start of a downward spiral.
 
16
you male or female? Female
Do you think you could have done it earlier?Yes, I could have, but I did not.
Did you enjoy it? I enjoyed receiving oral. Vaginal was obviously painful due to hymen.
What was it like? A bit awkward. I did not know what the fuck to do. But it was okay, it was not a bad thing, just not great.
 
im male. i was newly 16 and with my boyfriend.

had sex with girl when i was 18 during a threesome in a car =D
 
18. female. definitely could have done it sooner but waited for the right opportunity. although, i would have preferred it if i wasn't a pussy and did it at a younger age, like 16. Didn't enjoy it, it hurt a shit ton. But that's what I get for choosing a guy with a really big dick. :(
 
16.

my parents went away for the weekend, it was summer vacation and I had friends over for a party.
I vaguely remember drunkenly stumbling around into my bedroom to lay down for a bit, and my good friend comes in to talk or something...
Somehow we ended up kissing and things escalated from there. He was really drunk too.

It wasn't really awkward or anything, and i don't regret it either to be honest. We're still very close friends and have a laugh about it every once in a while.
 
16 - she was 15.

We had been dating for a couple of months and my parents went away for a week, so I had her over. We must have had sex every day for 4 months straight after that.

Good times. I still talk to her. She just got done her 4th year of medical school and she's starting her practicum.
 
Female

15, he was 16 for both oral and vaginal. Never had anal.

I wish I would had waited longer. We got in really big trouble when my best friend's dad read an IM convo I was having with her about it. I was grounded for a month. 8( My parents were super disappointed. His parents wanted me on birth control. Getting the picture? Yeah, it was a mess.
Did you enjoy it? Not really.
What was it like? Uh, on a couch in his basement. It was short and painful.
If it was to early or to late what would have been the ideal age for you? Probably 16 or 17.
 
21 yrs,364 days, lol.

And your you male or female? Male
Do you think you could have done it earlier? Sure
Or did you do it to late? Probably
Did you enjoy it? Rubbish, felt nothing lol.
What was it like? Pretty rubbish, ffs...
 
I'm a male, lost it just before my 15th birthday. So, I was 14 years old at the time.

And your you male or female? Male
Do you think you could have done it earlier? I probably could have, but I'm glad I didn't.
Or did you do it to late? I was only 14!
Did you enjoy it? Honestly can't remember. I remember we were both extremely happy, we had both just lost our virginity's to each other
What was it like? Awkward, had no idea what to do but I enjoyed it for what it was
If it was to early or to late what would have been the ideal age for you? In retrospect maybe it was a little too early for me. I haven't had sex since, after breaking up she fucked with my head a lot and that's kept me from getting with a lot of women. Long story, don't feel like discussing.
 
I am Female & I waited till 3 weeks before I turned 19 to have sex. So I was late 18. I had the opportunities to do it sooner but I was never comfortable enough and I thought I wanted to wait till I was in love. I did not enjoy my first time. We were both on Xanax and drinking and I, at the time felt like I was going to be a virgin forever so I said fuck it and fuck waiting for love and just did it. It was very quick and very very painful. He was such an ass the whole time as well. I was like, "You need to slow down it hurts!" and he just kept saying, "I know, I know!" and "oh baby you're so tight!". So no I did not enjoy it lol. & the age that would have been ideal for me to lose it would have been whatever age I had finally fallen in love. I probably should have waited but its part of my history now and you live, you learn.
 
18

male

i think i could and should have done it earlier but all i ever did in high school despite all the fine ass around was smoke pot. thats all i cared about some girls would hit me up and id be like "ehhhhh i think ill just get high" lol

i enjoyed it when it finally happened but still not as much as smoking weed and also the other drugs i was beggining to exeriment with lol. i would only fuck at the end of a night of drinking when a girl was just throwing herself on me. never put any effort in to it. kinda fucked up i know


Lame. Fuck girls that are in there right minds mate.
 
becausye if you say that counts then my age was like 6 .... !!! I had no idea I just really loved the feeling does oral count as sex?

Oral sex is oral sex. Not sexual intercourse. They are two separate things.
 
It's common for kids to touch and explore one another, and to mimick adult behaviors. I don't know, do you think it was sex? I didn't know a 6 year old was capable of having an orgasm.

Oral sex = sex.

Oral sex is not sex! Oral sex and sexual intercourse and two completely different things!
 
I was 13.

Male or Female?
female

Do you think you could have done it earlier?
A year earlier, but it was probably a good thing I didn't.

Did you enjoy it?
It was probably the most enjoyable sex I ever had. But, I was way to young.

What was it like?
Passionate, just what a girl would want, quick with the person she loved (at the young lust stage) I was the geeky outsider and he was the popular kid. He told me he loved me, just what I wanted to hear.

If it was to early or to late what would have been the ideal age for you?
I should have waited till I got married, but I was a confused messed up kid. And I would have done it many time after so there was no chance that I would have waited.
 
Are you male or female? Male
Do you think you could have done it earlier? No
Did you do it to late? No definitely not
Did you enjoy it? I felt awkward, I was very drunk, I was so young, I had an orgasm so I must have enjoyed it I guess, but I don't like the circumstances it happened under. So no looking back I didn't really enjoy it she enjoyed me more I bet
What was it like? Strange, awkward, odd, don't remember how fun it was
Ideal age would've been? Somewhere around 16-17

On my 13th birthday with a 20+ year old adopted chick from down the street, while hammered out of my mind. It was the first time I had even touched a female sexually. She bought the alcohol, liquored me and my best male friend up and "enjoyed" us both. It didn't bother me at the time, but now it kind of does. I feel she was more of a predator than a friend and that if the roles/ages had been reversed, I would've ended up in prison. It was statutory rape, plain and simple. She got away with it because she was a female. So much for "equality" eh?

What I consider to be my first sexual experience (one where I actually wasn't hammered and chose to do it with sober mind) was when I was 14 with a 15 year old girl I had met online. It was a good experience I enjoyed it.

That is so fucked up and I am sorry that it had to happen for you and your friend like that. She was not a friend, she was a predator. & that was fucking wrong of her. It really pisses me off, fuck! I would have killed her if you were my kid/friend/brother/anything. She is a very bad person. A fucking child molester. Makes me sick. Once again I am sorry and I highly recommend talk therapy to deal with issues from that experience.
 
I was 16

Are you male or female? Female
Do you think you could have done it earlier? Yes
Or did you do it too late? I think it was the right time for me
Did you enjoy it? Yes
What was it like? It was a bit awkward for me because I didn't know what I was doing but I did cum.
If it was to early or to late what would have been the ideal age for you? I think it was the right time for me
 
I was 17.

Are you male or female? Male
Do you think you could have done it earlier? Yes
Or did you do it too late? Not necessarily too late, I had done everything else at 16.
Did you enjoy it? Yes
What was it like? It was a bit awkward for me because I had met the chick that day but its whatever. I'm not that worried about it.
If it was to early or to late what would have been the ideal age for you? I think it was the right time for me since I was more comfortable with girls sexually at that point-I didn't go straight from kissing to sex. Not to say thats a bad thing, but I knew somewhat what I was doing, probably has something to do with watching a lot of porn but don't all guys? XD
 
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