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    Hey there!
    So...this is kinda embarrassing BUT what the hell.... Here goes... So, I'm almost 40 years young, in shape and still feel young. My "issue" is sex... Or at least sex compared to when I use to use. When I was in my late teens to mid 20's I use to use meth. Back when meth was meth. You know, the one line that kept you up for days kind. Anyway, as soon as I used, BAMM! All I wanted to do was look at porn with my girlfriends. This would go on for days at a time. Porn, meth, telling twisted fantasies to each other, awesome sex that just lasted and lasted and.... My point is... It FREAKIN' rocked! Everything about it was INSANE! It opened myself and whoever I was with at the time up to a whole new enjoyable world of exploration! NOTHING has EVER come close to that physical and emotional feeling that I got from using meth and engaging in sexual activites. So... Fast forward 20 some years and here I am... Clean (meth disappeared from Philly) and bored to death with sex! Sure, it's ok.. I guess... But for the few minutes it lasts well... I guess my question is.. What's a fella to do that was exposed to the absolute BEST most INTENCE feeling in the world and then has to live with the same ol' same ol'!? I have tried other drugs to bring me back to that point but nothing, not even coke can compare. Is my fantasy fueled awesome sex days of long ago lost forever!? Anyone else experience what I am saying? Any help, suggestions would GREATLY be appreciated!
     

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    2c-b. I suggest you get your hands on some. I find that it has altered the way I percieve sex when I am sober in a way. I no longer crave for it (sex), but instead feel that my sex drive is a patient stalking killer ready to unsheath and begin a murderous stabbing rampage at any given moment. I feel centered, sexually. Where before I was either brimming with sexual energy or at other times seemed to completely lack it, it is now conformed to my will and to my predicament. So my point is you dont need to be on it every time you bang to get real pleasure (as I imagine you might from abusing an addictive stimulant), instead your mind becomes more and more tuned in with the body with each subsequent dosage. Now the actual experience of fucking on 2c-b is unlike any other. Words fail to properly capture the scope of that feel.
     

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    Learn to enjoy sex sober, and concentrate on staying sober.

    Using other drugs instead of or to replace meth, in the hopes of making sex better, or starting to use crystal meth again isn't going to help you.

    I have friends who have used meth and had sex on it and they described it the way you did how it was very good then but how they aren't going to start using it again, and some of this could be nostalgia for the past.
     

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    ^ Nothing wrong with occasionally once-in-a-blue-moon using meth for some wild sex sessions, but unless OP can control their useage, it's certainly not a good idea no.
     

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    I suggest you purchase some meth. It is excellent for sexual enhancement or for women that have trouble cumming. Meth'll set you right.
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by rocketqueen View Post
    I suggest you purchase some meth. It is excellent for sexual enhancement or for women that have trouble cumming. Meth'll set you right.
    If that's not sarcasm, then I suggest you exercise some caution when suggesting such things to people you know nothing about.
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dopeinphilly View Post
    Hey there!
    So...this is kinda embarrassing BUT what the hell.... Here goes... So, I'm almost 40 years young, in shape and still feel young. My "issue" is sex... Or at least sex compared to when I use to use. When I was in my late teens to mid 20's I use to use meth. Back when meth was meth. You know, the one line that kept you up for days kind. Anyway, as soon as I used, BAMM! All I wanted to do was look at porn with my girlfriends. This would go on for days at a time. Porn, meth, telling twisted fantasies to each other, awesome sex that just lasted and lasted and.... My point is... It FREAKIN' rocked! Everything about it was INSANE! It opened myself and whoever I was with at the time up to a whole new enjoyable world of exploration! NOTHING has EVER come close to that physical and emotional feeling that I got from using meth and engaging in sexual activites. So... Fast forward 20 some years and here I am... Clean (meth disappeared from Philly) and bored to death with sex! Sure, it's ok.. I guess... But for the few minutes it lasts well... I guess my question is.. What's a fella to do that was exposed to the absolute BEST most INTENCE feeling in the world and then has to live with the same ol' same ol'!? I have tried other drugs to bring me back to that point but nothing, not even coke can compare. Is my fantasy fueled awesome sex days of long ago lost forever!? Anyone else experience what I am saying? Any help, suggestions would GREATLY be appreciated!
    you need to find something in sex now that is different from the high of meth depraved speed horn. you need intimacy and depth because speed will make bland sex with people you dont care that much about seem bloody amazing, when really its just a perception veil.

    i understand what you are saying- you need to find love or someone you have real intense feelings for not just drug enhanced sexual mayhem.

    one thing to note. weed sex is always mega intense in my experience.

    since cutting out weed i find sex understimulating but thats because i am not having sex within the context of love
     

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    Hah. You're getting a look into how it can be like for women who generally have a less intense sex drive and need there to be something special about it. Like with a guy they love or like in your case drugged out of your mind.

    But I think it could also be that it's the fact that you're simply not as high drive anymore so now you can REALLY feel that way. You just don't sound very high drive for a man or like it's something you appreciate that much. The guy I'm presently with, on contrast, can always match my sex drive, no matter if it's drug enhanced (though I have more of a thing for downers). He just never needs any special incentive no matter what but he's also more high drive than most guys. Anyway, there's not really any good solution to it other than meeting a special person, or finding some kind of drug, or some way of changing how you experience and view sex.

    Like I said, this could have to do with age. Health could also be an issue. Or maybe it's simply the drugs if it used to be fairly identical apart from that. Apart, from that, a big part of it for males is also the ego gratification (kind of like the opposite of the situation females are in) and might be this is not an issue for you anymore for some reason. Like you don't associate your self worth or social value with getting laid anymore, which is kind of hard for most guys to accomplish.
     

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    I know a lot of guys in the gay community that will not have sex without meth because of how intense and long it can last. Let's face it most guys think about sex all the time. Get a few together that are sexually attracted to the same sex there is going to be a lot of sex, on the downside that's why gay males get the reputation of not being monogamous. Add a mind altering substance like meth to the mix and a lot of people don't even think twice about a condom unfortanetly, hense the rise in std's.
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mel22 View Post
    If that's not sarcasm, then I suggest you exercise some caution when suggesting such things to people you know nothing about.
    Nope, not sarcasm.
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jason1981 View Post
    I know a lot of guys in the gay community that will not have sex without meth because of how intense and long it can last. Let's face it most guys think about sex all the time. Get a few together that are sexually attracted to the same sex there is going to be a lot of sex, on the downside that's why gay males get the reputation of not being monogamous. Add a mind altering substance like meth to the mix and a lot of people don't even think twice about a condom unfortanetly, hense the rise in std's.
    part and play= lots of aids (check out the effect of mthamphetamine on hiv replication http://www.aidsmeds.com/articles/hiv...67_17533.shtml )
     

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    Sad but true. At 30 I have only done meth twice the second was the last for me. Not sure if I had a panic attack on it or what (I'm prone to those) but a few hours into it my heart was beating so fast and hard u could see my shirt moving around my chest and it felt like someone was taking a knife right in the heart. Lasted a few hours before it went away.
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by rocketqueen View Post
    Nope, not sarcasm.
    Then in that case:

    Quote Originally Posted by Mel22 View Post
    I suggest you exercise some caution when suggesting such things to people you know nothing about.
     

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    ^damn straight
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by pofacedhoe View Post
    part and play= lots of aids (check out the effect of mthamphetamine on hiv replication http://www.aidsmeds.com/articles/hiv...67_17533.shtml )
    Party and play=get high and fuck (with any drug, not necessarily methamp). Definitely, one sure way to get HIV is to have sex unprotected with someone who is infected.

    Truth be told, you are NEVER going to experience sex the way you can when on amphetamines.

    @Dopeinphilly, you are almost 40 years old now? You are old enough to take the information/suggestions you have been given here and decide what to do for yourself.

    No sarcasm here, either.
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    I think it is false to blame your boring sex life on your sobriety. There are a ton of ways to make sex more mind-blowing, other than meth, and I bet you have not tried any of them.

    First, and most obviously, Tantra. The whole point of tantra (well, maybe not the point, but the most obvious effect) is mind-blowing sexual ecstasy, like full body orgasms that last for hours. Have you taken any tantra classes? Read any books on it? Tried any positions? I did not think so. Yet you are ready to conclude that sex cannot be exciting without meth? How lame.

    A second issue, related to Tantra, is generally increasing your embodiment. Even without tantra, there are other things you can do to feel more embodied, which means more aware of your body, and this in turn increases the intensity of bodily experiences and can enhance sex. Tantra, in part, helps with embodiment, but it's not the only path to get there. There is yoga, meditation, exercise, massage, to name a few.

    A third issue is your lover(s). Boring sex probably means you are not being excited enough by your lover(s). Are you settling for some one you do not really find that attractive or that sexy? Or are you with some one who COULD be sexy enough, but the two of you have lapsed into routine rather than encouraging each other to bring out your sexy sides? Generally, people with boring lovers do not need to switch lovers, they just need to learn how to better turn one another on and open one another up. Pretty much everyone is a sex demon waiting to be unleashed with the right triggers.

    A fourth issue is seeing sex as disconnected from your other issues in life. If you are bored with work, bored with your hobbies, bored with your personal life, feeling no sense of direction, that will likely carry over into your personal life. You need to find what you are passionate about BESIDES sex, nurture that passion, and you will find it spills over and enhances your sex life. Take exciting trips, see natural wonders, do things that might be out of your comfort zone. These things get the juices flowing and this translates to more creativity in bed.

    Until you have really explored your sober options, it is WAY too soon to be concluding that sober sex cannot compare to meth sex.

    And, if you just cannot handle putting in the work on self-improvement to improve your sex life, then I would go back to the suggestion you try other drugs than sex to enhance your sex life. You'll find Bluelight threads on what drugs people find best enhances sex. A lot of people prefer psychedelics. I know on some, you have hours-long sex where you seem to melt into one another and it can be truly mind-blowing. I'd imagine if you have to give up sobriety, it is safer to give it up for, say, LSD or 2C-B than to go back to meth.

    ~psychoblast~
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by rocketqueen View Post
    Party and play=get high and fuck (with any drug, not necessarily methamp). Definitely, one sure way to get HIV is to have sex unprotected with someone who is infected.

    Truth be told, you are NEVER going to experience sex the way you can when on amphetamines.

    @Dopeinphilly, you are almost 40 years old now? You are old enough to take the information/suggestions you have been given here and decide what to do for yourself.

    No sarcasm here, either.
    speed and sex always leads to risky shit, and the link between meth and aids is loud and proud
     

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    ...and?
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by psychoblast View Post
    I think it is false to blame your boring sex life on your sobriety. There are a ton of ways to make sex more mind-blowing, other than meth, and I bet you have not tried any of them.

    First, and most obviously, Tantra. The whole point of tantra (well, maybe not the point, but the most obvious effect) is mind-blowing sexual ecstasy, like full body orgasms that last for hours. Have you taken any tantra classes? Read any books on it? Tried any positions? I did not think so. Yet you are ready to conclude that sex cannot be exciting without meth? How lame.

    A second issue, related to Tantra, is generally increasing your embodiment. Even without tantra, there are other things you can do to feel more embodied, which means more aware of your body, and this in turn increases the intensity of bodily experiences and can enhance sex. Tantra, in part, helps with embodiment, but it's not the only path to get there. There is yoga, meditation, exercise, massage, to name a few.

    A third issue is your lover(s). Boring sex probably means you are not being excited enough by your lover(s). Are you settling for some one you do not really find that attractive or that sexy? Or are you with some one who COULD be sexy enough, but the two of you have lapsed into routine rather than encouraging each other to bring out your sexy sides? Generally, people with boring lovers do not need to switch lovers, they just need to learn how to better turn one another on and open one another up. Pretty much everyone is a sex demon waiting to be unleashed with the right triggers.

    A fourth issue is seeing sex as disconnected from your other issues in life. If you are bored with work, bored with your hobbies, bored with your personal life, feeling no sense of direction, that will likely carry over into your personal life. You need to find what you are passionate about BESIDES sex, nurture that passion, and you will find it spills over and enhances your sex life. Take exciting trips, see natural wonders, do things that might be out of your comfort zone. These things get the juices flowing and this translates to more creativity in bed.

    Until you have really explored your sober options, it is WAY too soon to be concluding that sober sex cannot compare to meth sex.

    And, if you just cannot handle putting in the work on self-improvement to improve your sex life, then I would go back to the suggestion you try other drugs than sex to enhance your sex life. You'll find Bluelight threads on what drugs people find best enhances sex. A lot of people prefer psychedelics. I know on some, you have hours-long sex where you seem to melt into one another and it can be truly mind-blowing. I'd imagine if you have to give up sobriety, it is safer to give it up for, say, LSD or 2C-B than to go back to meth.

    ~psychoblast~
    So, if all else fails, go back to drugs for sexual enhancement, just not meth 'cause you personally don't like it? And that psychedelics are "safer" drugs to "give up sobriety" on?

    Interesting opinion.
     

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    2c-b. I suggest you get your hands on some. I find that it has altered the way I percieve sex when I am sober in a way. I no longer crave for it (sex), but instead feel that my sex drive is a patient stalking killer ready to unsheath and begin a murderous stabbing rampage at any given moment. I feel centered, sexually. Where before I was either brimming with sexual energy or at other times seemed to completely lack it, it is now conformed to my will and to my predicament. So my point is you dont need to be on it every time you bang to get real pleasure (as I imagine you might from abusing an addictive stimulant), instead your mind becomes more and more tuned in with the body with each subsequent dosage. Now the actual experience of fucking on 2c-b is unlike any other. Words fail to properly capture the scope of that feel.

    i know how you feel,im in the same boat but with mdma

    how does 2cb compare to m?
     

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    I know a lot of guys in the gay community that will not have sex without meth because of how intense and long it can last. Let's face it most guys think about sex all the time. Get a few together that are sexually attracted to the same sex there is going to be a lot of sex, on the downside that's why gay males get the reputation of not being monogamous. Add a mind altering substance like meth to the mix and a lot of people don't even think twice about a condom unfortanetly, hense the rise in std's.
    gay men are very much not monogamous, matter of fact, I have yet to meet any who are #hadgayfriendswhowerecheatingassholes. although thats not to say there aren't gay men out there who are faithful and monogamous, or that there aren't just as many unfaithful uncommitted straight people out there.

    sorry for that
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by rocketqueen View Post
    ...and?
    its bad shit worth leaving well alone
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by rocketqueen View Post
    ...and?
    This is basically a harm reduction website?
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by kroniic View Post
    This is basically a harm reduction website?
    my point precisely as a former speed sex fiend...
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by pofacedhoe View Post
    my point precisely as a former speed sex fiend...
    Yep, I understood where you were coming from, I was just reaffirming what you said.
     

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