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Why don't I cum from blowjobs?

QuasiModo

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So I just got a really good bj. I was stoked. The whole time I was trying to get myself to cum but I didn't. I really like bj's but I can't remember ever having ejaculated from one. I masturbated yesterday, could it be that I just didn't have much of a load? How can I go about ejaculating from a bj? And inb4 she's doing it wrong; she's been giving me the best head I've had in my entire life.
 
Not being able to really thrust kinda makes it difficult. I view fellatio as more of a foreplay act than anything though. It is a foreplay act when other animals do it, such as bats.
 
your not alone, i can bust one when I'm getting head but i have ton concentrate.Pegasus is right most of the time its just foreplay to me, I enjoy it but after a few minuets i find myself muttering "god i just want to fuck you"
 
I never used to either. Then i went into severe benzo withdrawal and could cum with no problem. Back on benzos now, impossible to cum.
 
How about when you're ready to cum, jack off into her mouth or elsewhere on her body? Then you'll have control over your orgasm.
 
I enjoy it but after a few minuets i find myself muttering "god i just want to fuck you"

My boyfriend is the exact same way; he enjoys blowjobs, but he would much rather just have sex.
He's told me he doesn't think he has ever cum from a blowjob alone, so you're not alone, OP.
 
Not every guy can ejaculate from getting oral sex.

I've never been able to at all.

I've had some of the best blowjobs ever from men who know what they're doing, who know what it's like to have a penis, and how to give some of the best blowjobs ever since they've had years and decades of practice.

This is a good thing OP since then you can have the other person suck on your cock for hours or even days!

Some of the men I've been with love to suck cock for so long that they can't close their mouths and that's hot dedication!

No I don't PNP at all but I do enjoy having sex with a male partner for that long without cumming if we have that much time to enjoy each other.

Fellatio or fellating someone is not "foreplay" even if some heterosexuals want to pretend that it somehow isn't actual real sex just because a penis isn't going into a vagina or a gaping anus.
 
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^ if foreplay is defined as "erotic stimulation preceding sexual intercourse " then fellatio can certainly be foreplay.

alasdair
 
My bf can't finish from blow jobs either. He's been with quite a few females before and said only once he's been able to and that was cuz he was really high or something, I dunno, apparently on something that makes you cum? I dunno. Anyway, he says I give the best head he's ever had before, he says it's amazing but he can't finish from it. Oh well, then we can have sex after, so I don't mind :p.
He says he probably would be able to if he was watching porn or something, so we will try that sometime.
 
I have never finished from a bj either. In fact I would go so far as to say I could live without them
 
I can, but only from atleast a little bit of face fucking. Without thrusting/fucking, i cant cum really. I dont think ive ever had a blowjob that was just me lying back that ended in me cumming, i always have had to get some hip action going on.

I love to cum in a girls mouth though, its the best :)
 
He says he probably would be able to if he was watching porn or something, so we will try that sometime.
my boyfriend sometimes gets annoyed because my head is blocking his view :-/ i suggested he could jerk it himself if he'd prefer. He doesn't come from my sucking, though he moans like it's the greatest thing ever, mostly to keep me from losing interest I think. Sometimes he'll jack off in my mouth, but I'd rather it be on my body so HE has to lick it up, not me. I enjoy giving them, as long as the guy doesn't pull my hair/ head when I'm doing it. Us girls have to breathe too, you know!
 
I have had difficulties doing it, in fact the only time I've ever cum from one was from half bj/half hj and the hand was the grand finale lol...
 
Oh woooow. I didn't know so many guys can't cum from a blowjob.... every guy I ever done that with has came...
 
^ maybe you're that good. Can i enlist you for services? or challenge you for that matter?
 
^ haha! I'm in the same boat and when the subject came up with different girls over the years most would offer to take up the challenge!

Having a long term girlfriend now I still haven't been able to but no harm in practising!
 
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