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    Why don't I cum from blowjobs? 
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    So I just got a really good bj. I was stoked. The whole time I was trying to get myself to cum but I didn't. I really like bj's but I can't remember ever having ejaculated from one. I masturbated yesterday, could it be that I just didn't have much of a load? How can I go about ejaculating from a bj? And inb4 she's doing it wrong; she's been giving me the best head I've had in my entire life.
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    Not being able to really thrust kinda makes it difficult. I view fellatio as more of a foreplay act than anything though. It is a foreplay act when other animals do it, such as bats.
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    your not alone, i can bust one when I'm getting head but i have ton concentrate.Pegasus is right most of the time its just foreplay to me, I enjoy it but after a few minuets i find myself muttering "god i just want to fuck you"
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    I never used to either. Then i went into severe benzo withdrawal and could cum with no problem. Back on benzos now, impossible to cum.
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    How about when you're ready to cum, jack off into her mouth or elsewhere on her body? Then you'll have control over your orgasm.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blanch View Post
    I enjoy it but after a few minuets i find myself muttering "god i just want to fuck you"
    My boyfriend is the exact same way; he enjoys blowjobs, but he would much rather just have sex.
    He's told me he doesn't think he has ever cum from a blowjob alone, so you're not alone, OP.
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    Not every guy can ejaculate from getting oral sex.

    I've never been able to at all.

    I've had some of the best blowjobs ever from men who know what they're doing, who know what it's like to have a penis, and how to give some of the best blowjobs ever since they've had years and decades of practice.

    This is a good thing OP since then you can have the other person suck on your cock for hours or even days!

    Some of the men I've been with love to suck cock for so long that they can't close their mouths and that's hot dedication!

    No I don't PNP at all but I do enjoy having sex with a male partner for that long without cumming if we have that much time to enjoy each other.

    Fellatio or fellating someone is not "foreplay" even if some heterosexuals want to pretend that it somehow isn't actual real sex just because a penis isn't going into a vagina or a gaping anus.
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    ^ if foreplay is defined as "erotic stimulation preceding sexual intercourse " then fellatio can certainly be foreplay.

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    My bf can't finish from blow jobs either. He's been with quite a few females before and said only once he's been able to and that was cuz he was really high or something, I dunno, apparently on something that makes you cum? I dunno. Anyway, he says I give the best head he's ever had before, he says it's amazing but he can't finish from it. Oh well, then we can have sex after, so I don't mind .
    He says he probably would be able to if he was watching porn or something, so we will try that sometime.
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    I have never finished from a bj either. In fact I would go so far as to say I could live without them
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    I have never finished from a bj either. In fact I would go so far as to say I could live without them
    I feel kinda ripped off by it, but I concur.
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    I can, but only from atleast a little bit of face fucking. Without thrusting/fucking, i cant cum really. I dont think ive ever had a blowjob that was just me lying back that ended in me cumming, i always have had to get some hip action going on.

    I love to cum in a girls mouth though, its the best
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    Quote Originally Posted by alasdairm View Post
    ^ if foreplay is defined as "erotic stimulation preceding sexual intercourse " then fellatio can certainly be foreplay.

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    OK Bill Clinton.

    Why can't it all just be sex?
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    OK Bill Clinton.

    Why can't it all just be sex?
    Sex: The physical expression of love between a man, woman and cigar.
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    He says he probably would be able to if he was watching porn or something, so we will try that sometime.
    my boyfriend sometimes gets annoyed because my head is blocking his view :-/ i suggested he could jerk it himself if he'd prefer. He doesn't come from my sucking, though he moans like it's the greatest thing ever, mostly to keep me from losing interest I think. Sometimes he'll jack off in my mouth, but I'd rather it be on my body so HE has to lick it up, not me. I enjoy giving them, as long as the guy doesn't pull my hair/ head when I'm doing it. Us girls have to breathe too, you know!
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    I have had difficulties doing it, in fact the only time I've ever cum from one was from half bj/half hj and the hand was the grand finale lol...
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    Oh woooow. I didn't know so many guys can't cum from a blowjob.... every guy I ever done that with has came...
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    ^ maybe you're that good. Can i enlist you for services? or challenge you for that matter?
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    ^ haha! I'm in the same boat and when the subject came up with different girls over the years most would offer to take up the challenge!

    Having a long term girlfriend now I still haven't been able to but no harm in practising!
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    Quote Originally Posted by RobotRipping View Post
    ^ maybe you're that good. Can i enlist you for services? or challenge you for that matter?
    Challenge accepted.
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    its somewhat rare i can climax from oral, especially if i dont feel comfortable getting some thrusting in...

    try not to let it bother you too much, its still the most awesome feeling in the world, great foreplay or even right up to the event and cum (harhar) up with creative ways to finish (him) off, or get him right up to breaking point then take him in your mouth...

    lots of great bjs involve lots of hand and boob action, im a big fan of titfucking give that a shot. dirty talk spitting to keep it nicely lubed all that pornstar kinky sexy slutty stuff, say you want it etc. cause its half in his head (hard to keep track of who im talking to, the guy or girl lol)

    i saw a video once (have to do this one day) of a girl just rubbing her clit forward and back on the penis (she did this to finish him off too) , straddling the guy while he was on his back, and using her hands too, was really hot.

    ive had a couple of awesome bjs recently and both just seemed so determined, like they did 1000 push ups a day...it can take a bit of action to get things frothing, think of how hard he fucks in the lead up to his cumming...

    be creative enjoy it, dont stress too much about what works or doesnt for you. guys remember its often takes a bit of work to get her off the same way!

    here endeth icegeckos sex ed class *P

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    As enjoyable as blowjobs are, I've never ejaculated from one either. I put it down to the lack of physical, exerting, strenuous thrusting. Though enjoyable they may be, I can't shoot my load with them really. They will get me kinda close, but nowhere near enough to actually cum.

    Like has been said, just use it as a prerequisite for sex, eg. a form of foreplay before she finishes you off with a handjob.
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    Quote Originally Posted by _mistresspoppy_ View Post
    my boyfriend sometimes gets annoyed because my head is blocking his view :-/ i suggested he could jerk it himself if he'd prefer. He doesn't come from my sucking, though he moans like it's the greatest thing ever, mostly to keep me from losing interest I think. Sometimes he'll jack off in my mouth, but I'd rather it be on my body so HE has to lick it up, not me. I enjoy giving them, as long as the guy doesn't pull my hair/ head when I'm doing it. Us girls have to breathe too, you know!
    ^fucking agreed! i hate it when my boyfriend gets into it, like him groaning i think its hot i also think he does it to keep my going..whichi is cool[: but yes guys dont pull our heads closer to your dick than it already is..its itrritating and i cant suck your dick like that.
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    Good god, I had always had this problem - until recently, my girlfriend has been on her fucking game. She made me cum for the first time ever close to a year ago and then not again for a really long time. The past couple of times she has given me mouth love, I came in under two minutes. Insane!

    Alas, there is hope. I'm 26 years old and it's taken 10 years to get the right mouth on it.
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    dont sweat it mate, i couldnt come from a BJ off my ex, but i didnt worry bout it.... just need to find a girl whos better at it!
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