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    So, last night I decided to try and find a girl on craigslist.

    I'm more interested in a romance/sex only approach at the moment.

    My ad made that much clear, and further, that I can "provide" physically and talent-wise (FUCK YOU before you start to poke fun lol).

    Anyways, BLOWN away is to put it lightly, I've gotten 4 nude (or close enough to showing nudity) pics within like 5hrs). Only one was a clear attempt to get me to some site/webcam, the rest wanted to meetup soon under my terms (meet locally somewhere safe, go where they chose, and just indulge in mutually-enjoyable, safe, fun, great sex). I should mention that, out of principle, I will NEVER spend a penny on sex (say what you want, but I just won't, I don't have any need to). I made that clear in the ad.

    Should I be presuming some of these cuties are just hoping to somehow snare me into sex-for-money, despite me making it clear I'd never pay a penny/dislike sex-for-money? I'm just dumbfounded the type/quantity of replies I got!!
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    Oh to clarify, ad was something (ROUGH paraphrase) like this:

    "I'm a late-20's male who is seeking quality, 'romantic' style sex. I'm what most consider quite attractive, and would like you to be attractive **in your own eyes**, I like all styles. Further, I'm good in bed, and prefer you to be skilled as well. I have never / will never pay for sex, if drugs are around they must not be in my view/knowledge, and condoms are a requirement".

    (did that cover the bases? I won't risk drugs/prostitution issues, and just want some good sex w/o any strings attached. This seemed the best way LOL)
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    Aside from the risk of having your head beat to a pulp by a mad biker dude associated with the girl, hey, enjoy... no poking fun here. But it seems likely you're gonna run into some sort of ugly trouble with the whole thing.
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    I def see lots of pitfalls - but the only that concern me are the "sting operation" type things....

    If she does drugs in front of me, I'm leaving. If she mentioned cash, I'm leaving. As far as her trying to rob me, or having someone else hanging around outside ready to rob me, I've thought of that and that's covered (should mention I will NOT have any illegal weapons or anything in my possession during any encounters or any shit like that, just that if I were to meet someone somewhere, I would make sure to have a friend(s) drive me there and wait for me to be safe, yknow?)
    /other precautions to take?
    //I do know there ARE girls out there that would love to have some no-strings sex with me!! Just gotta figure out how to make it so they know who I am in that regard, and to ward off the "predators" from their groups!
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    Heh, I'm 99.9999% sure to get laid by a HAWT girl quite soon, just not sure which of the 3 that I've determined to be legit will be that lady ;P
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    Keep us posted.
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    its very very unlikely a girl will reply to your ad, mostly likely you just get spam email.
    The only way someone will reply is if you offering something such as money or something creative,,, other than that No..


    And most likely some very ugly girl will reply..
    Most normal girls that want sex will go on a regular date, not pick some random guy on CL looking for SEX.
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    RS - give it up man ! the sort porn that you are getting is spam .

    i have scored both on women looking for men as well as posting my own ads in men looking for women .

    it is almost consistently a failure to go after free sex . one has to deal with quality members of the fair sex without the dick in one's hand.
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    I don't understand. If you are are interested in "romantic sex" then why are you wasting time with bitches on craigslist?
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    I've actually got 2 (perhaps 3!) hopefuls. The majority tried to act "legit" but obviously weren't, once we talked they wanted me to sign up to their site to see their profiles, no thnx!!

    Have good, sexy (no nudity - prolly a better sign tho) pics from 3 girls I think may be alllll good :-)))

    Shahab - I am offering something: amazing, no strings sex w/ someone attractive and good in bed. The latter they just gotta take my word, but we've done pics so they know the former ;P And not looking/getting ugly chicks. I know I'm looking for a small niche, but it is out there - there are pretty girls who JUST want to get laid w/o having a relationship, girls and guys are like that. I could go pick up random chicks, but most annoy me LOL and wouldn't get the "look, only want teh sexies" line of thought!

    Hobhead - I tried that approach, it ended w/ me emailing life stories back and forth...I'm NOT looking for a girlfriend, just some good ole fashioned fun!

    GuiltySpark- that's just my preferred "style", and I posted the ad(s, yes I made several ;P ) to indicate as much. I'm not looking for girls into "unusual" stuff really, I just want a good, romantic evening w/o strings if that makes sense.


    My favorite potential likes role-playing Nothing crazy or involved, but yeah, I'm down for that ).

    ((Again, I know all the pitfalls, if I get a bad feeling, or there are drugs done in front of me, I'm out like a fat kid in dodgeballl! But there's a couple I've gone back/forth with enough that they know damn well I'm not interested in sex-for-money (never will be, not sexual to me), and that I know they're interested - will update if/when appropriate ;P. Would post the chick in the nurse outfit, it IS sfw, but til I finish that correspondence I'm not doing anything to risk it lol - plus, gentlemen don't kiss and tell )
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    look up escorts, not craigslist bro.

    be prepared to pay $200+USD an hour for a hot one.
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    Never have, never will. Don't wanna sound arrogant but I don't have to. Also, I enjoy sex more the more the girl does, so that kinda negates prostitution anyways. Maybe when my looks fade and $$ rises
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    ^ aite. if you enjoy sex more than the girl does, why not do her the financial favour?
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    He said he enjoys sex more when the girl does - e.g. the girl needs to be really genuinely into it for him to get off. Geez. People are so brainwashed about girls not enjoying nsa sex! I use craiglist to get guys from 3somes, my impression is that it's much easier to find men who will reply, for all sorts of societal/gender stereotype/safety concerns, but I know guys who scored girls and had a good time. You might just have to spend longer sifting through the escorts, photo collectors and time wasters but the fun-loving girls are out there! Perhaps casual dating/kink websites (especially if you're into role play) could be a better bet though. Good luck and stay safe!
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    thnx lola
    I don't enjoy a girl who fucks me because "I'm cool", so I hardly doubt I'd find it enjoyable to hook up w/ someone who's doing it for money. Not to be too graphic (although we are in the right subforum ), but making a girl get off helps me get off, my fun is directly related to hers, if that makes much sense!
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    I'd say get a cheap motel room. It's nuetral ground and there is rational reason why should would not agree. If she objects, you know something is up.

    $30 is a small price to pay considering the myriad of things that could possibly go wrong going to a place of her choosing.
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    No real worries - once I find "Ms/Mrs right" here, it doesn't matter where we go. By virtue of the necessity this stays local to me, I am well protected, to say the least. Biggest fear would be her trying to murder me while alone, and even something like that a ) she'd have little reason (well, odds are 1/10000000 she'd be one to have a reason), b ) I'm well aware of my situations/scenes, and maybe this sounds like I think I'm invincible, but I'm doubting she could succeed even if she tried.
    As for robbing me, or gathering her friends outside the place (or letting them in), that'd be covered too, since I'd have my friends watching my safety from the area as well.

    My only concerns are: she's diseased and pierces a condom; she has a fake ID and snares me into a bad situation (although I'm 27, and tend to find girls under mid-20's to be too immature for my tastes), or that she thinks I'm going to pay (if for herself, well, she'll be pissed and I'll have wasted my time. If for the police, I fear they could set me up and claim i did pay, although that'd be pure BS as sex-for-money isn't sexual to me. I'd rather jack off lol)

    / God I wish BL had singles/meetup boards, tho I understand the inherent issues in doing so!!
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    Lol your entire thread is just another one of your ads. You will have a better chance finding a girl you described in real life, because pretty girls who want NSA sex don't need to post ads!
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    ^lol... hes on fire!

    i was scrolling down to post this my self...
    play on playa...


    robbed?!?
    fuk'em, bring a 20$ bill. dont be a tough-guy and try and fight, just give the lazy fuck his lil money and leave... they arent going to want to attention.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GuiltySpark View Post
    Lol your entire thread is just another one of your ads. You will have a better chance finding a girl you described in real life, because pretty girls who want NSA sex don't need to post ads!
    ERrrrr, agree to disagree I guess.

    I can go to a bar and pick up girls I think are pretty. Many suck in the bedroom, and further, very few can accept a "sexual relationship w/o strings attached" (even if they claim that off the bat... we all know how that goes.. fuckin oxytocin!)

    Quote Originally Posted by panic in paradise View Post
    ^lol... hes on fire!

    i was scrolling down to post this my self...
    play on playa...


    robbed?!?
    fuk'em, bring a 20$ bill. dont be a tough-guy and try and fight, just give the lazy fuck his lil money and leave... they arent going to want to attention.
    I'm happy to give a prostitute money, many "deserve" it, in a way. I just have zero desire to risk getting a blemish on my record w/ such a situation. And don't want to get my hopes up only to find it's a girl who's interested in cash, not great sex.
    (Should mention I fully support prostitution, very much so actually, it's just not my particular cup of tea)

    And if you meant this post is an "ad" and not just a general thread of thoughts/ideas, well...it wasn't meant as such, however, if I got some pm's, well, can't say I'd ignore them! But BL is worldwide, i'm using CL because it's my area yknow? ;P
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    Why CL where people are prostituting? There's so many free dating sites out there. I'm sure some prostitution is there, but I know guys who use the sites just to get laid for a night. Less bullshit than CL.
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    Agreed - learned that in the past day LOL

    zoosk, and "The Onion"'s version of zoosk, will be what I'm setting up later today. The CL thing was more of a "I want to find fun this second", yknow ;P
    (plus, those sites let you put pics, which I felt hesitant to do on CL for fear they'd be seen as shit I just GIS'd, at least on a real site there'd be enough pics to tell I didn't do that!)
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    my bad, i meant just robbed in general, dont bring your nicer time-piece, cards, cash w/e.
    barrow a friends car- lol.
    *preventative maintenance.

    i feel yuh, ive spent one half-laughed hour in a strip-club, it was ridicules... you want muh wut? for yur wut wut?!?


    no disrespects,
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    Oh trust me, I getcha - my only worry is some cop thinking he's got a "john" he's about to nab. Not worried about a legit girl who just wants sex, or a prostitute/her pimp who think they have found an easy target.
    / needless to say, I WILL have friends within audible distance in case something goes wrong
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    dude, use OKcupid, or some other dating sites. Those are more legit, but usually girls there are looking for long-term, which was what I was looking for. But, there are some girls on there that just want to fuck.
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