It's glorious!
We trick out the bedroom: full blacklight and fluoro art; sweet music. Sometimes we turn off all the lights and I illuminate her with a RGB raver LED as she sucks my dick. She looks gorgeous anyway, but when I'm rolling and my dick's in her mouth she's just a total angel. And the feel of her mouth on mine, her vulva on my mouth, the smell and taste of her, whew. Makes me want to do it right now but we need to wait a few weeks!
We gaze at each other, touch, snuggle, massage all the lovely bits (I can happily massage her ass or tits for hours), hug endlessly, exploit erections as available, talk, giggle, shower, repeat.
She will usually have several orgasms. If I can't get off before I peak, I usually have to wait until the end of the roll. Then it's amazing!
Some myths suggest that E-sex spoils you for sober sex. Not us. I think it has heightened our sober sensuality.
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