Introduce me to jazz!!! I don't know anything, but all I do is improvise and I feel like I'd really enjoy it. It's really open concept right? Do you have like artists you could recommend? Are you talking about 7th and 9th chords, or other stuff? PM me if you'd like. Congrats on learning not to abuse opiates... not everyone can. I am Canadian too btw... maybe it's all that BC shit we're smokin.
I am so grateful that I am still capable of using oxycodone as prescribed, and not fiending it even after being a heroin addict for 4 years (sniffing #4). Really did learn my lesson, I went through a nightmare of fucking nightmares. It's really a choice at the end of the day... do you want to be numb, or do you want to just take the edge off and fucking suffer but still feel human? Man I didn't touch my guitar all year as a stoner! And now... I swear I found my life calling. See, I have been through too much discrimination and harassment in the engineering workplace due to my chronic pain condition, that I am honestly a little traumatized by it. I didn't want to give it up because I really did put a lot of effort into my education, and the work is easy for me if it wast for being distracted by so much agony, but it's time to move on and adapt. Use my problem solving skills, technical capabilities, and mathematics (closely connected to musical talent) for something different that my back can handle. I'm sure my knowledge of signals and systems, and object oriented programming could come in handy for recording. I can't physically handle being in an office for 10 hours a day... and they make no accommodations. Ever. If I am 'dumb' enough to tell them I have a disability, in which case they will immediately make up their mind to fire me a little down the line. I have been asked to sign legal agreements on the spot stating that I will not seek legal action, in terms of a few weeks extra pay. Those greedy fucking corporate scoundrels disgust me... but everything happens for a reason. I have a gift with guitar. I know that I do, and I want to devote as much time as I possibly can to it. I am only me once, and it seems like the coolest thing I could do with my life.
I am also in a position - having gotten clean and my family aware of it (they don't even approve of weed, so this wouldn't have happened if I was still a stoner) - where I am receiving some support from my family to get back on my feet (well, with the occasional heating pad laydown). Essentially, I have the next 4 months at minimum, to focus on nothing but my music, all day every day. All they expect of me is that I get better and recover, and it's the perfect time to hone my musical skills before getting into a band next year. I'm certain I can do it - after all this suffering? With my borderline disorder, I need a constant emotional outlet as well. It's perfect. The more I think about it, it honestly seems like everything I have experienced in life up until this moment in time has been designed to make me a very able guitarist creatively. And I have all the equipment for it too - two gorgeous fender guitars, a nice practice tube amp, and a plethora of analog pedals - I have been making killer tones, I'm actually really impressed with my progress and it hasn't even been that long since I've been feeling well enough to play (like maybe 2 weeks, after not playing at all for the past year and a half due to my addiction spiralling out of control).
I can't lay down on a heating pad at the office right? If I am in agony. I'd prefer that, and to work longer hours, but there is simply no accommodation whatsoever for people with chronic pain in the workplace (and then they report all this lost productivity in the workplace... it doesn't have to be lost, it's just that every boss I've ever had hasn't even heard of it before and they are fucking dumbass abusive fucks about it). I am simply never putting myself through that garbage again, after 3 tries when I am a very hard worker. When I begin to experience extreme pain at work, I can't just lie down on a heating pad... I guess I just look like a slacker, and I feel like one too when I am sitting there suffering my own personal hell that nobody else can see, simply overwhelmed by physical agony and unable to focus on engineering drawings.
I am putting 100% of my time and energy into guitar now. I am devoting my life to it, and I will see what I can make of that, if anything it will just be for the passion of it but I really think I could be in a band with my talent. This all happened when I quit weed, and then went through oxycodone withdrawal. I swear that I found my calling in life. This is what I was made to do, what makes all my life experience count, as I could never be creative before I had suffered. I'm practicing 4 hours a day right now (met my goal yesterday even with a nap) but soon it will be 8 or even more. Every waking moment will be devoted to my music.
Tonight, I picked up my guitar and wrote a song in C# minor that just flowed naturally. It felt really good... I will be recording it over the next week or so. Kind of a grungy thing I guess... I was in a mellow but focussed mood. I'm new to recording, and still getting my skill back after denying my passion for so long as an addict, but it's really exciting to me that I could just pick up my guitar, pick a key, and write a whole song in an hour that I personally really enjoy. It will take some time to record but I bet I'm going to have a lot of fun. See... this is the type of thing that I have NO ambition for when I'm smoking any weed at all. I'd rather sit around and 'meditate'. My back was hurting like hell the whole time, since I just dosed my percs afterwards at midnight as usual but I think that the pain gives me an edge when it comes to music.