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My man wants to watch me have sex with other men

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Thats Cuckolding right there for sure. This dude I was good friends with in college explained it to me, he said it was like his ultimate fetish.

Anyway, two things. What has been done can never be undone. You must each set boundaries.

This can work, it just takes a lot of dedication and loyalty. And to answer your original question, I don't its a common male fetish. I'd imagine a very small percentile of heterosexual are into cuckolding.
 
Some people are into this, I don't think it makes them gay either... But he could be I guess.

There is alot weirder fetishes out there then this! If your bolth into it go for it!
 
Maybe best to find another swinging couple or something...?

I've heard or the foursome thing happening, partner swapping in the same space etc
 
my bf is the same way. At first we had an open relationship, the only rule being that we told each other if something happened. I fooled around with a guy friend of mine once and told him about it and he got really excited. It kinda weirds me out that he likes the idea of me with someone else. We did fool around with a a female friend of mine and he called me selfish and hypocritical for not letting him have sex with her. Everyone has their kicks....the question is are you okay with what he wants.
 
Might as well sell the position next in line and make some money out of it...

Video tape it and than sell it ... for more money


Gotta get that hustle on :)
 
First question: do you want to do it? If not, then all the rest of the issues are moot.

However, if you're a strong couple then introducing other people to your bedroom play can be brilliant fun. It's definitely not cheating because there are no lies or deceit. And if you're very confident with each other then it can be fantastic watching someone you're really into give pleasure to someone else - you can watch, smug in the knowledge that a) someone else is being treated to the attentions of your excellent partner and b) the third party is going to go away and you two are going to curl up together afterwards and talk about it and it becomes a part of your history. I think it can be an incredibly bonding thing to do with the right person.

You say he wants to watch you - again, if you're a strong couple, there is nothing like showing off like this for your partner. Fucking someone else while you look into the eyes of someone you love and know they're hugely getting off on the view and knowing that they're also thrilled that you're having a good time is also incredibly bonding.

One thing to beware of, tho, which is that being the F in an MFM threesome can be pretty tiring! you're the centre of attention and that can be a bit intense.
 
memphis10 said:
as a guy i couldnt imagine wantin my girl to get banged out by some other dude...
it sounds like he just wants the cock and wants an excuse

i have ran a couple trains but this was back in the day when i was younger and it was almost too uncomfortable bein so close to my boy while im tryin to pound some chick out

2 girls is a whole nother story.
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Not necessarily... in fact probably not at all. From how she worded it I would highly doubt her BF is gay. I myself could never allow this to happen (at least with my knowledge) but I have heard of fantasies like this online and stuff.

Definitely not common but it happens. The fact that there are websites and spam on the cuckold thing is semi-proof that some guys do get off on that sorta thing... otherwise they would not exist, right??
 
This would be a crucial part of any long term sexual relationship for me. I think at least occasional threesome/group action is a necessary part of a sexual relationship in modern society. Obviously not for everyone, but if it's not something a girl is interested in, chances are she doesn't share a lot of my other sexual desires either.
 
Alright here we go, basic question:

Does your man satisfy you in bed?

I get off on my girl cumming, simple. In fact I'd have trouble busting a nut if she's wasn't having a good time. I once fucked a hooker, never again I can tell you... it simply wasn't the same.

I'm sure some people are different, but also many will be the same. Maybe if your boyfriend can't satisfy you, this is his way of dealing with it.

Personally, I'd just suggest oral...
 
Fuck I need to read the full posts, you say the sex is great. I guess this just some fetish.

Did you think about asking "Why?"

Threesomes can really stress relationships, I'd say this could too. You need to ask yourself (and him) how strong the relationship is.
 
My husband and I have had many mfm's. It was a fantasy that we both talked about for many years before it happened. He watches sometimes and sometimes he is an active participant. And no he is not bi...In our experiences,it is all about seeing me be pleased. My husband can get off by just seeing me orgasm..We have also had fmf's,as I am bi-sexual... but that is a different thread...
 
the idea of having sex with more than one man makes me have to keel over and vomit

if it makes you uncomfertable in any way dont do it
otherwise go for it
 
id actually be more comfertable with the idea but probably not until i got severly bored with the guy
 
Havent had the chance to read through all the replies you have to the question, so not sure whats already been said, but with the experiences i have had with people over the years that are strongly into kinks and fetishes, this one has come up quite a bit with men, them wanting to watch their girl having sex with other men, join in, record it, etc.. so i would say fairly normal, just not a lot of men outside of the kinks/fetish life talk about it too much, if at all, usually out of fear of their partners reactions.. i've also met a number of females who get hot at the thought of being 'taken' by other men while their SO watches or joins..not sure which is more common, men or women with this, but it does seem to work both ways :) if it does happen, i hope the both of you have a great time!!
 
If you both like the idea, who cares if it's common or not?

There's a greater than 0% chance that it will completely ruin your relationship. But he's probably not going to be satisfied until this itch has been scratched.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
You're talking about a MFM 3 way right? Where two men each do a woman but they don't have sex with each other. Or do you mean sort of like a 3 way gangbang type thing where the one guy does the woman while the other guy watches and then he does the woman?

There's the Cuckold thing that GoddessLSD-XTC wrote about which can be a porn/fantasy type thing like she wrote or I've seen closeted bisexual men use it as a way so they can have sex with men.

IME mainly only bisexual men and some bisexual or even straight women want to do, or crave MMF 3 ways or sex where the men do each other and the woman and everyone has some sort of sex with each other even if it's oral sex or one guy fucks the woman while the other guy fucks his ass or he gets sucked off by the guy fucking the woman. I've seen a bisexual porn where a tiny asian woman watches two men fuck and then they fuck her and later she puts on a strapon dildo and reams the one dude's ass and says things like "Yeah you like that shit! Take it bitch!" I've seen other bisexual pr0ns where something like that happens but the woman makes the guy suck the dildo and that doesn't sound too fun to me since silicone/gel smells nasty and it's not a real penis.

I know a few gay men who had MMF 3 ways but they were younger and did it with a woman they were dating before they knew that they're homosexual and it helped them realize that they're gay since they were only sexually interested in the other man and not both the man and the woman.

I don't see Unbreakable being homophobic or biphobic since what he wrote can be true.
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Yeah, I meant MFM :D

When I first starting doing MFMs I had a lot of trouble getting hard with another dude present, so I guess that validates my heterosexuality.

Sure gay or bi guys can do it, but Unbreakable is still saying ONLY gay or bi men want to do MFMs, so as long as this continues I'm still gonna say he's a homophobe. It's up to him to deny or clarify my claims as such.
 
Buddy where did i say Only gay or bi... Do not get me wrong, people who do enjoy this do exist prob... but not one i met

What straight men would pick a MMF over a FFM?


Only Gay men, Bi men, Bi Curious men, or is a men who might be "straight" and just into the idea of another penis in his women that is the whole "bull thing"
 
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